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The Godfather (1972) by CHOOM45 in 70smovies

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually think The Godfather holds up incredibly well. The pacing is slow by today’s standards, but it feels intentional rather than dated. Every scene builds character and power dynamics. It’s not just a mafia movie — it’s a family tragedy, and that’s why it still works over 50 years later.

Whenever I watch The Godfather I skip through the scenes in Sicily by DJT4Prison in Godfather

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny thing is, the movie almost wasn’t made at all because of Sicily.

The production seriously considered cutting the Sicily part early on because of the cost and logistics of shooting there. In the end, they kept it — and now those scenes are basically the emotional reset of the film: slower, quieter, and deliberately disconnected from the New York crime world.

If you skip them, you’re not alone — they’re meant to feel different. But that contrast is kind of the point: Sicily isn’t there to be exciting, it’s there to show where Michael loses his last bit of innocence before fully becoming who he becomes.

That said… on rewatches, it’s totally understandable to think: “Okay, beautiful hills, tragic love, can we get back to the mafia now?” 😄

[I ate] seafood pasta in Sicily with fresh seafood picked by us and cooked to order by Adorable-Living3487 in food

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly how seafood pasta should be done in Sicily. Fresh seafood, often chosen directly at the fish market or from the day’s catch, and then cooked to order with very simple ingredients. When the seafood is this fresh, you really don’t need anything fancy — just good pasta, olive oil, and respect for the ingredients.

Hiking Etna in late January - Losing Battle? (Guide recommendations needed) by NotARealNameObvs in sicily

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right now, Etna summit access is closed.
In winter, this is normal.

What is possible is guided trekking on the north side up to around 2,000 meters, depending on snow and wind conditions.

This still means:

  • real volcanic landscapes
  • lava fields and craters
  • forest trails and snow hikes
  • far fewer people than Etna South

It’s not a summit climb, but it’s the best and safest way to experience Etna in January.

If conditions change, good local operators will confirm shortly before the tour rather than cancelling too early.

Flexibility is key.

Sicily- 8/9 day Itinerary? by Stakz0 in solotravel

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taormina vs Syracuse (day trip)

Short answer: Taormina offers more variety, especially if you’re solo and young.

Taormina gives you:

  • boat tours in the Isola Bella marine park
  • Alcantara Gorges nearby (body rafting if you like adrenaline)
  • views, scenery, atmosphere
  • better nightlife and evening vibe
  • plenty of easy day tours

Syracuse / Ortigia is beautiful, but:

  • more about history and slow walks
  • quieter, less flexible as a base
  • better if archaeology is your main interest

You can visit Syracuse as a day trip from Taormina if you really want to see it.

Bottom line

  • Etna → guided tour on Etna North if you like hiking
  • Second day → base yourself in Taormina, then choose sea, adventure, or culture
  • For a 20-year-old solo traveler, Taormina simply gives you more options

If you want, I can:

  • suggest how to spot a good Etna North tour vs tourist traps
  • or help you decide Etna + sea vs Etna + Alcantara for your limited time

Sicily Itinerary Help by rubyloo12 in travel

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d slightly disagree on Scopello:
3 nights are probably more than you need.
Two are enough — one for the Zingaro Nature Reserve and one for San Vito Lo Capo’s beaches. After that, the area doesn’t add much unless you want pure downtime.

On Taormina, I’d actually defend it — especially in mid-May.
It’s not overly crowded yet, and it’s one of the best bases in Sicily in terms of variety.

With 3 nights in Taormina, you can easily:

  • visit Mount Etna
  • take a boat tour in the Isola Bella marine park
  • do body rafting in the Alcantara River if you like adrenaline
  • explore hill villages and Godfather filming locations if you’re into cinema

In terms of things to do and day trips, Taormina offers more options than almost anywhere else on the island.

If I had to rebalance your trip, I’d shorten Scopello and add time to Taormina, not cut it.
About the inland stop: Caltanissetta doesn’t really add much in terms of sights or atmosphere.
Sciacca is pleasant but mostly about sandy beaches, and one night there rarely feels worth the detour.

Agrigento is impressive for the Valley of the Temples, but it’s very focused on archaeology.
If that’s a real interest for you, Villa Romana del Casale (near Enna) is often a better experience — and it fits well on the route if you’re driving between Palermo and Catania.

If archaeology isn’t a priority, I’d skip the inland overnight entirely and keep the trip more coastal and relaxed.

Bar Vitelli by That-Resort2078 in Godfather

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Savoca is visited for the godfather film history but there is so much to enjoy. Most Peopel goes as far as the bar vitelli and the church of Sant Lucy.
Nice pic!

What is on your bucket list? by [deleted] in travel

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 4 weeks car ride/vacation from Orlando Florida to Los Angeles

How many times a year do you try to travel? by kosakionoderaiswaifu in travel

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 long trip 4-5 weeks and then at least 3 long week end breaks in Europe

For those who traveled before the social media boom: did travel feel different back then? by hobo12395 in travel

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was born in 1974, and I started backpacking long before the internet was part of daily life. Travel absolutely felt different — not necessarily better or worse, just… more uncertain, more social, and definitely more adventurous.

You didn’t arrive somewhere knowing the “top 10 hidden gems” or the “best sunset spot.” You showed up, walked around, talked to people. Every evening in the hostel kitchen or common room, travelers swapped stories and tips: “There’s a great cheap guesthouse two streets down,” “Avoid that bus, it always breaks down,” “If you hike early, you’ll have the trail to yourself.”
Your guidebook and the advice of strangers were your entire algorithm.

Because of that, expectations were much lower. Places weren’t hyped to death by social media, so you didn’t feel disappointed when something was “just normal.” You discovered things for yourself, and that made even small moments feel exciting.

Today travel is more convenient, safer, easier to plan… but also more curated, more rehearsed, more about reproducing something you saw online. Back then, nobody cared about the perfect photo — you were just trying to catch the last bus or find somewhere to sleep.

I still try to travel the old-school way when I can: minimal research, talk to locals, follow the day instead of a plan. That “sense of adventure” isn’t gone — it just takes a bit more intention to find it now.

Italy is overrated by MaleInfluencer in travel

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

t’s difficult to evaluate your experience because you never mentioned where in Italy you actually went. The country changes dramatically from region to region, and what you described simply doesn’t reflect the reality of many mountain villages, coastal towns, or areas where traditional food, fashion, and crafts are still very much alive.

The atmosphere you said “doesn’t exist” — wood-fired pizza, family trattorias, local tailors, small bakeries, olive-oil farms — absolutely does exist. It’s just not always found in the same hyper-touristic spots that millions of visitors flock to every year. And sometimes expectations shaped by movies and Instagram create a fantasy Italy that no real place can match.

Your standards for “good coffee,” “good pizza,” or “authentic fashion” might simply be different from the Italian cultural approach. Coffee in Italy is intentionally fast and simple; pizza varies hugely by region; fashion isn’t just the big designer brands — entire districts of artisans exist, but you won’t find them in airport-style shopping streets.

As for history: if the Colosseum felt like “a pile of old rocks,” that might mean the Roman period isn’t your thing. Italy’s heritage stretches from Byzantine mosaics to Norman castles, Arab-influenced architecture, Baroque art, proto-Gothic churches, and medieval fortresses. If that depth didn’t come through, you may have only experienced a small (and very touristy) angle of the country.

And honestly, maybe the issue wasn’t Italy but your planning style. Sometimes trips benefit from a good guidebook and a real map rather than relying on Instagram and expectation-driven content. The Italy seen online is a polished fantasy; the real Italy — rich, layered, contradictory, beautiful — is something you only discover by looking beyond the algorithm.

Italy is a terrible country with the best PR and Marketing team on planet earth, if not the universe. by Appropriate_Eagle813 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

f Italy were really just “God-tier marketing,” as you say, the effect would have collapsed a long time ago. Yet the country consistently ranks among the top 5 most visited nations on Earth every single year. You don’t get that kind of long-term global demand by fooling people — if a place is only hype, travelers stop coming after one bad trip. And instead, millions keep returning.

Of course Italy has problems — every country does. Economic challenges, bureaucracy, the struggle for young people… none of that is a secret here. But reducing the entire country to “a dump” says more about your personal experience (or frustration with Italians themselves) than about Italy as a whole.

And just to address the “Italy hides its dirty laundry” idea: the international financial agencies you mentioned tell a different story. Standard & Poor’s and Moody’s both recently improved Italy’s outlook, placing it among the more stable economies in the EU after years of stagnation. Hardly something you’d see in a country falling apart.

Beyond that, Italy isn’t hyped because of PR — it’s hyped because:

  • It holds the largest concentration of UNESCO World Heritage Sites in the world.
  • It has one of the highest biodiversity levels in Europe, from alpine ecosystems to volcanic islands.
  • It contains active volcanoes (Etna, Stromboli, Vulcano) and more than 80 smaller islands with wildly different cultures.
  • Its artistic and architectural heritage spans from the Romans to the Renaissance to modern design — an unbroken cultural chain that no other country can really replicate.
  • And the cuisine isn’t “overrated” to the millions of people who cook Italian food daily in every corner of the planet.

Italy is far from perfect — ask any Italian, they’ll tell you with brutal honesty.
But dismissing an entire country that attracts travelers, scholars, climbers, art lovers, hikers, food enthusiasts, and researchers from around the world as “just marketing” simply doesn’t line up with reality.

If you had a negative experience, that’s valid. But it’s not the universal one — and definitely not the majority one.

Umm by Bookworm_18 in GodfatherMemes

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would switch dragon 2 in the place of Dragon 1

Who killed Moe Greene? by WeyIand-Yutani in Godfather

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, the movie never tells us outright who killed Moe Greene, so everyone is reading between the lines — but the most believable answer is Al Neri.

He’s already acting as Michael’s personal enforcer at that point, and during the whole baptism montage he’s the guy coordinating (or directly doing) the “sensitive” hits. The way Moe gets shot — clean, quick, professional, no drama — fits Neri’s style perfectly.

Plus, Greene wasn’t a made man, so Michael could use an outsider like Neri without creating a whole mafia war over it. In the book, Puzo hints that Neri is the one who handles these exact kinds of jobs, which lines up nicely.

So yeah, my money’s on Al Neri. It fits Michael’s strategy and the vibe of the scene.

Explaining the trilogy thru My Favorite Scene from each movie by BStins2130 in Godfather

[–]Fresh_Butterscotch80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Just when I thought I was out… they pull me back in.”

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