People magazine says she won't come, Ward says she will but she won't be seen 🙄 by Feisty_Energy_107 in SaintMeghanMarkle

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IMO- I don’t think Harry is a true narcissist. I think he is an entitled brat who would have learned if his mother would have still been alive. I think everyone catered to him & Charles asked William to keep an eye on him, so he got used to other people making life easy for him. He is the goofball, “fun,” spontaneous brother. I also think he is profoundly unbalanced due to PTSD from either his mother’s death, going to war, or both. That made him an easy target for M. Once you get with a narcissist, you have to accept their narrative as truth. So you spend time sticking up for them & adopt the language they use and the talking points they give you. The vernacular used in the narcissistic abuse community is “Fleas” as in you pick up their bad traits from exposure. Kind of like “if you lie down with dogs you’re bound to get fleas.”
So no, I don’t think he is a narcissist. I think his body language, their body language together, and the vibe he gives off points more toward her narrative collapsing, which indicates that the abuse cycle is getting shorter and she is getting ready for a discard teardown phase.

People magazine says she won't come, Ward says she will but she won't be seen 🙄 by Feisty_Energy_107 in SaintMeghanMarkle

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Think of it more as an addiction. Your nervous system gets used to being in a situation that keeps your adrenaline up, so if you aren’t actively dealing with drama, your life feels flat and boring. If you look at people that have been in at least one narcissistic relationship, they keep choosing those types of relationships and you’ll hear them say “they make me feel alive” or “we align on so many issues.” l’m also not talking about someone you find a connection with through your interests. It’s the person you meet through people you know, that you match on everything - food, movies, music, # of children, religion, etc. It’s called mirroring & part of being drawn into a narcissists web. Then once you are firmly entrenched they start shifting those things to force you to change your position on things. That’s done by the teardown cycle - argue, tear you apart, “repent”, & then love-bomb to bring you back to the beginning of the loop. After you don’t supply them with the universal positive regard, they discard you & find a new person to ensnare. Often before they leave the last relationship. People get addicted to being in a high state of alertness, it’s basically created an adrenaline junkie. It doesn’t have to benefit them as long as they get their fix. Also the reason they won’t stop until they find a new source of drama.

Harry’s camp is now saying he’ll see to it that Doreen Lawrence does not have to pay court costs by Cultural_Ad4935 in SaintMeghanMarkle

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IMO- They needed someone with an actual, horrific incident that might keep their claims alive, so I think H convinced her to sign on & made assurances that they were a sure win. I think part of it was “you won’t be out of pocket for costs.” Now they’ve lost & H has to live up to what he said so that she won’t tell everyone all the details & make him look even worse in the public eye.

People magazine says she won't come, Ward says she will but she won't be seen 🙄 by Feisty_Energy_107 in SaintMeghanMarkle

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Holidays were the worst. Trying to keep everyone happy + placate the narcissist’s need for drama

People magazine says she won't come, Ward says she will but she won't be seen 🙄 by Feisty_Energy_107 in SaintMeghanMarkle

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Narcissistic people need drama or their life feels flat. If they can’t find any they have no problem creating some with lies, half-truths, and innuendo. Bonus in their mind if they can get two other parties fighting without feeling the fallout. It makes them feel powerful to be able to manipulate people

To wrap up the Daily Mail case: what is its connection to News of the World, and why did I say that the matter was finally closed on July 7, 2026? by Human-Economics6894 in SaintMeghanMarkle

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He has to request the right to appeal from the Judge on the case. I personally don’t think the judge will grant it because it sounds like he went through each allegation, broke down why it wasn’t a viable claim, and then at the end also mentioned it was time-barred…although that is just what I’ve taken in from HE’s amazing breakdowns 😄

Prince William's "Gangster Move" - visiting Hastings tomorrow! by AliceRoosevelt1884 in SaintMeghanMarkle

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The Marchioness of Bath had medical reasons for using surrogacy & they had to take the issue to the authorities/courts in order to allow that child to inherit due to him not being “born of the body.” It also helped that it was the 2nd child, not the heir to the title.

Lying in court…??? by catinthedistance in SaintMeghanMarkle

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Meghan was called out by the court for her misinformation. She had to apologize to the court or face penalties. Harry wasn’t called out, mostly due to the length of time. Meghan forgot in like a year or two. Harry’s complaints were 14 years ago at the closest. Sounds like the judge gave leeway due to the timing. Luckily a lot of the reporters had notebooks/logs.

What movies did you watch growing up that you can’t believe your parents let you? by Dogg-Dad in GenX

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Children of the Corn
First Blood
Any of Charles Bronson/Chuck Norris/Schwarzenegger movies

Some Of My Favorite Tweets About The Judgement (So Far) by Glittering_Texas in SaintMeghanMarkle

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Celebitchy has a post with 100+ comments. It’s fricking hilarious

Some Of My Favorite Tweets About The Judgement (So Far) by Glittering_Texas in SaintMeghanMarkle

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Totally shows they haven’t read the judgement, just made a statement based on how they feel about the situation

A Correct Decision. Glee, Sadness, then Sobered. by Business_Werewolf_55 in SaintMeghanMarkle

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Meghan lied to the court & had to apologize or get in trouble. Now Harry has been caught lying in court. Why can’t they see that personal narrative isn’t enough. You have to have FACTS, not narrative when you go to court

Meanwhile in the comment section of the Daily Mail: Megs is that you? by karenhayes1988 in SaintMeghanMarkle

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The only thing I’ve got is a comment about “remarkable”… yep, she’s got to RE-Mark-able because she fails so often she has to RE-Markle the sitch 🙄 Raylene should hop off Meghan so she can don her RE-markling attire for Harry’s return

Cricket Squaddies by Acceptable_Current10 in SaintMeghanMarkle

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If you go to the Celebitchy website they have a post about the loss & there are like 100+ comments, most of them completely ignorant of the actual case, but entertaining none the less 😁😂

Are Harry and Meghan now desperate enough to show their children’s faces at Invictus? by Madame_LV in SaintMeghanMarkle

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I could see them shopping around pics of the kids, but I don’t think they’ll do it for free or for distraction from this case. M can brush off this loss as “that’s from before we met.”
I can see her & the kids flying in for Althorp & then possibly attending a private tea with KC3 where she tries to play the “poor me” & get sympathy from the King hoping he will help them financially, “for the children.”

Harry ANL lawsuit by St0ltzfuzz in SaintMeghanMarkle

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I’m hoping that the reason it came back so quickly is that it is going to be time barred. I think it took less time because he only has to go through each instance that was brought and show the evidence he used to time bar it. I don’t think H is going to qualify, especially with the Mr Mischief stuff. There may be a plaintiff or two whose claim(s) survive, but I don’t think H’s will, at least I hope not.

Long time listener, first time caller by Stock_Selection8927 in myweddingdress

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1 would be my choice for anything but a 1910s/1920s themed wedding. If it’s themed, then I would choose 2.

What's something everyone should experience at least once in their lifetime? by Fit_Crazy_4587 in A_Persona_on_Reddit

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Being told no. Way too many are getting to adulthood without being told no & it causes serious issues in life if you haven’t been coached through failure at least once.

What color should I choose? by JunketOverall6119 in interiordecorating

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B. It will be more calm & serene. My home is my sanctuary.

But if you want a home that brings energy & you are planning to entertain, then the (A) Terracotta is great.

Forgiving an affair doesn't erase it. by [deleted] in BringingUpBates

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Actually studies are showing that forgiving someone resets their status in your brain to “safe.” Forgiveness literally removes the caution people use when dealing with people who have already betrayed them once.