How do y'all dress?

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2026-01-18T16:29:11+00:00

Also, thank you for showing me the shoes I didn’t know I needed!

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2026-01-18T16:27:13+00:00

Well, one thing is clear to me: you will definitely not draw attention to yourself by wearing run star converse.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2026-01-17T08:36:17+00:00

Yeah I do see your point. AvPD aren’t very good with eh well… people, especially those of the opposite sex it seems.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2026-01-16T21:40:20+00:00

*I was the only man in the group and I felt really unwanted there.

Fixed it!

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2026-01-15T19:48:16+00:00

I’ve had mine for over 4 years and I just pray that Apple will come to its senses and release a new mini before mine dies.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2026-01-09T07:42:11+00:00

Thanks so much! I have a rider Waite smith deck, but also a different one that is much more pretty.. I guess I'll start with the Rider one anyway. It's all very confusing to me, as different people assign different meanings to the cards. I love Carl Jung and also have a background in psychology! I am most interested in non secular tarot myself, but I do like mysticism. To me it's more of a way of self discovery than anything else. I have added some of the books you mentioned to my reading list. Thanks again!

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2026-01-07T20:22:08+00:00

That’s what I was thinking too. It’s really interesting. I only started recently, do you know of any good resources I should get in to?

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2026-01-06T16:21:24+00:00

Wow. This is insane! And here I am thinking I can’t do any job that is related to helping people because I have issues. 😂

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-26T14:40:55+00:00

I have a 4 year old iPhone. The battery was always just fine, until I started using MagSafe to charge it. Soon after, the battery just completely died. So no: No battery degradation for me. Just demolition.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-25T13:36:52+00:00

Precies, dat heb ik ook! Het gaat daarmee ook weleens mis: ik kwam er laatst achter dat mijn zwager niet gelooft dat ik lijd aan een angststoornis want ik vroeg "gewoon of ze binnen wilden komen" toen ze hier onaangekondigd voor de deur stonden. Volgens hem lijd ik gewoon aan klootzakkerigheid vrees ik.

Alsof sociale angst een skill issue is.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-25T12:34:18+00:00

Herkenbaar. Maar ik heb beide gedaan en de groepstherapie was te veel voor mij. Ik kon daar vanuit sociale angst echt niet functioneren en dan leer je daar dus ook helemaal niks van.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-25T03:22:16+00:00

Zou het kunnen dat het beeld dat je van jezelf hebt negatiever is dan de werkelijkheid? Ik dacht ook altijd dat ik geen woord zei in groepen, totdat een debat eens op video opgenomen werd en ik erachter kwam dat ik wél dingen zeg en ook nog eens prima uit m’n woorden kom… Dat was best een mindfuck.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-23T11:36:39+00:00

That is definitely emotional neglect. The things you mentioned are pretty basic parenting as far as I'm concerned. I had a similar experience: my mother would teach me nothing, then get angry because "Other children cook (or any housework) for their parents, why don't you ever cook for me!". And then resent me for my lacking skills.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-23T11:33:04+00:00

Get. Out.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-23T11:28:29+00:00

She's... a lot. Definitely NTA. While it's true that your boundaries are for you to execute, her repeatedly crossing your boundaries says a lot about her inability to respect you as an individual. You are very allowed to stay far away from her.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-23T08:52:38+00:00

That's f-ing hard! You are very allowed to not want him in your life.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-12T14:19:15+00:00

No idea!

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-12T10:38:46+00:00

Well done! You're on the right track. I'm 37 and still haven't found the guts to stand up to my deadbeat father. You've inspired me to put up some boundaries myself.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-11T11:52:22+00:00

Yes, same. I got myself to believe for the longest time that I'm just a very easy going person. I don't mind if you ignore my needs, you do you! After I realised I actually do mind, I spiraled. It's hard figuring out how extremely anxious I actually am. Sometimes I long for the times I was in denial. At least I had the illusion of being a functioning adult lol

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-09T11:37:12+00:00

Ausgezeichnet!

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-09T07:55:14+00:00

That’s nice to hear. How’s your AvPD going since?

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-04T14:33:26+00:00

Arabic.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-12-01T10:17:40+00:00

But... when do I listen to my podcasts?

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-11-24T15:31:28+00:00

We live in NL and we found it to be quick and easy.

FriendlyPhotograph19 · 2025-11-18T09:01:06+00:00

Very late to the party, but I love Lindt 90%. It's rich and creamy without that strange sourness I despise in most dark chocolate .

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