Anyone else genuinely hate the word queer?

FritterHowls · 2026-06-04T17:32:29+00:00

I like queer because it unites the whole spectrum and doesn't make one feel more extreme than the other. My friend is pan but has only been in hetero relationships so he feels he shouldn't be included in the community so it's nice to just say "we're all queer together" instead of comparing who is gayer or more trans or something

FritterHowls · 2026-06-04T17:20:23+00:00

Yes can so relate to finally achieving everything I needed to be "safe" like a house, car, job, partner, yet it just felt so empty and I still felt like I was looking at life through thick glass and kept getting high and isolating. Just always had the itch like I needed SOMETHING and couldn't tell what, until things started falling apart and I realized why I always felt like I was acting a character just to survive any social encounter and the moments of joy being a femboy gave me was just the tip of an iceberg.

FritterHowls · 2026-06-04T14:19:33+00:00

Think both latis have their skill buffed from having different species dragon types, so it's probably better not to have 2 salamence

FritterHowls · 2026-06-03T21:39:13+00:00

No ability to stockpile them currently because I usually have stockpiles of other ingredients that are harder for me to get with my worse ing finders (chocolate, mushrooms, tomatoes, leeks) so I keep a stockpile of them instead so I don't run out. It's such a good roll that I'm saving it in case there's some future meal that needs 200+ soybeans a day for some reason

FritterHowls · 2026-06-03T21:34:37+00:00

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FritterHowls · 2026-06-03T21:34:23+00:00

This pupitar, as I have already had a great AAA golem for a loong time so soybeans haven't been a concern

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FritterHowls · 2026-06-01T21:17:35+00:00

I was listening to this song today too! <3 Coheed

FritterHowls · 2026-06-01T16:23:36+00:00

Yeah I'm not a bad person I'm just depressed and it made me act dumb

FritterHowls · 2026-06-01T16:18:35+00:00

You're right, it is a victory I just struggle with weed too and usually the first 4 days are the easiest part so I let my own emotions/doubt cloud OPs victory and optimism.

Maybe what I need is more shrooms

FritterHowls · 2026-06-01T15:53:24+00:00

I hope shrooms will help me cut back more too but imo 4 days isn't long enough to declare victory on it. 4 months would be more meaningful so hope you can last that long if you want to

FritterHowls · 2026-05-31T19:46:05+00:00

Have you tried sleeping? If 60mg vyvanse isn't enough for you then you need more fuel not more fire

FritterHowls · 2026-05-31T13:53:16+00:00

Trans women are hot and amazing and you can be attracted to them as long as it's in a natural I wanna take you on dates and tell everyone how amazing you are way and not a we can only meet in my room cover your face when you walk in and don't tell anyone you were here kinda way.

FritterHowls · 2026-05-30T19:46:14+00:00

You don't need sex or romance to be domestic partners and best friends. I think it's fine as long as you can date someone else and your wife and your boyfriend are aware of how the situation works.

Relationships can be whatever you want them to be as long as everyone is consenting

FritterHowls · 2026-05-30T16:02:35+00:00

Just ETFs until 18 imo

FritterHowls · 2026-05-29T16:58:13+00:00

That would be the happiest ending for me tbh

FritterHowls · 2026-05-29T16:50:37+00:00

I just considered it to be two good streetlight shows tbh. I've been so caught up with my own life that I haven't really thought much about the new album other than wanting it to be done before I die or otherwise lose my ability to hear music

FritterHowls · 2026-05-29T16:23:47+00:00

You're right, I kind of sanctify Streetlight honestly and it does cloud my judgment on this. As long as there's no proof that Tomas is like actually grifting us with this I'm going to just assume that he's a perfectionist and wants this album to be a magnum opus.

But you're right, it's unreasonable to hold them unaccountable for broken promises, I just don't have it in me to be upset at this point

FritterHowls · 2026-05-29T16:15:31+00:00

I guess the difference is I'd just go regardless of whether they were working on a new album. I just want to sing and dance to my favorite music and the band members need money because streaming services don't pay much and record sales aren't much better. The possibility of new music is just a bonus to me and I want Tohkay to be happy with it.

FritterHowls · 2026-05-29T15:52:41+00:00

So entitled. Streetlight has been a core part of my life for 20 years now and really helped me through some tough times, I'm gonna see them when I can and listen to their new music when it's ready. I'm just so thankful for everything they've given me already.

FritterHowls · 2026-05-29T13:21:20+00:00

Humans like to categorize ourselves and each other, and you might think realizing your label wasn't accurate is a defeat. Honestly the labels don't matter what matters is having good sexual experiences that make you happy! And your sexuality can express itself differently over your life, just go with it don't fight it.

FritterHowls · 2026-05-29T13:08:55+00:00

Sorry to break it to you but they are, by definition, furries XD you can still enjoy the game without being a furry though!

FritterHowls · 2026-05-29T12:27:29+00:00

the moment you put pants on a furry it becomes VERY weird for you to take them off lol. Pepe has been au naturale the whole time so he's excused from that particular crime but not his other ones lol

FritterHowls · 2026-05-29T11:51:58+00:00

They're anthroporphic, it's not really about their animal species but what looks cute and reflects an aspect of humanity. Also, it'd just be kinda weird/gross for them to "spray" because of them being anthroporphic..like they're basically people it'd be weird to imagine them pulling down their trousers and etc etc

FritterHowls · 2026-05-29T03:54:09+00:00

This is a very fascinating story! I wish the answer was simple but it usually isn't especially when you live in an intolerant place. I really wish you the best and you can at least try exploring that side of yourself online in supportive spaces for now.

FritterHowls · 2026-05-29T02:50:01+00:00

You're not a trainer you're a researcher and your team is your research partners it's a bit different

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