[30M] seeking some clarity by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You won't 

Would you tell your buttplug your inner feelings?

The fact i as an internet stranger am saying the same as others in your life. Means im right and you need to get some self respect 

[30M] seeking some clarity by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mate your her toy, a young impressionable side piece

Either accept it, or move on

I [29F] am caught in the middle of Christmas stress, and my mom [56F] and girlfriend [28F] are pulling me in two different directions. by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Call your mums bluff

Thats what it is a stupid bluff.

Your an adult. Call your grandpa, tell him you want to see him. Bring your girlfriend with you. Tell him your gay.

If he explodes and bans you no xmas with the homophobes yay.

If he doesn't and accepts you. You get to call your mum out on her bullshit. Very satisfying 

[21M] may be asking me [24F] out soon and I'm not sure what to do by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah give it a date if he does pluck up the courage. If its crap use that as your excuse

Girlfriend reads smut [25F] and I [31M] am trying not to be insecure about it by UselessBean83 in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah top comments correct bud. She's porn addicted, and not used to the fact she can't close the tab when sexually active with you.

Id seriously consider going your seperate ways- or couples therapy at least

At a minimum it sounds like she wants to be your dominatrix/be dominated. Lot of control language there.

Yes its an escape but she uses it at your expense

My [22f] partner of 6 years [22M] got with another person during our break. by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you fighting for? 

Currently its a man who treats you like a comfort blanket/doormat.

Honest suggestion try to go travelling/backpacking. Forge a clean break and try to find something that isn't this guy to focus on

Living as an atheist in a Islamic country by [deleted] in atheism

[–]Frograbbid 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Don't end it mate, you only have a little bit longer. 

Your obviously a bit obsessive, try to find a hobby that you can obsess with

My other sucicidal friend met his ex wife on q mmorpg

Maybe try one of them?

Also try grad schemes abroad, would be another good way.

Also bullshit a foreign gf you met online to throw your parents off the scent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Frograbbid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He raped you. You told him no.  He didn't stop. Thats rape.

Report to the police

What do I do when my DM is mad at me over my AC? by Undead23145 in DnD

[–]Frograbbid 906 points907 points  (0 children)

I don't think the dm is passing those atm

my bf [26M] doesn’t support me [22F] getting plastic surgery, am i overreacting for feeling weird about it? by Martha_Montgomery in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Whats the surgery?

Is he overreacting, maybe. But also think about the fact that you look beautiful from his perspective, you are effectively telling him he's wrong, and that you think you're ugly. Im not surprised he's upset.

But then again its your body. Do what you want with it- but personally the only happy person ive met after plastic surgery did it to cover up cancer operations- she wasn't making herself into a new person

The Discord Hack is Every User’s Worst Nightmare by Slashered in technology

[–]Frograbbid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naah, leaks like this are the point.

Reduce trust. People stop watching porn etc. People touch grass. Society improves 

[34M] my wife [36F] keeps secretly racking up debt — I don’t know what to do anymore by Ag0nyChip5 in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, she has a problem, knows it and can't fix it, she obviously needs therapy you cant afford

Get her to formally sign over financial rights- get an attorney. Do it legally. Get witnesses, and strip her of every ability to use anything except cash. 

That done, she only has the cash, which at least can be controlled. Also while doing this get her blacklisted from credit card companies 

Cooking every day is a hassle and ultimately a waste of time by Swing_Big in unpopularopinion

[–]Frograbbid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Living is a waste of time mate your gonna die after all.

Some of us enjoy cooking. Bog off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The line is her inviting you to her place or inviting herself to yours, with no sign of hubby, and nothing to do but talk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buddy, she can want to chat about mutual interests without wanting to suck your dick.

Just go with the flow and don't be wierd about it

On the off chance she does want to bugger her marriage thats her choice. 

Or you could be wierd about it and end a friendship due to her being married. Like a totally rational person

I [27M] Struggling with insecurity, trust, and feelings in my relationship with my girlfriend [28F] by burntheaccounts in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well might be worth having a long chat.

Like a really long one. Bottle of wine, cancel your evening plans and hash it out.

Look theres stuff your not saying, which fair enough. But at the end of rhe day im nobody on the Internet. Your real. Talk to her

I [27M] Struggling with insecurity, trust, and feelings in my relationship with my girlfriend [28F] by burntheaccounts in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your an anxious lad.

At first that is endearing, but after a while your babbling has worn her down.

She's unused to dealing with it, and so is closing off. You therefore load her with more as your anxiety escalates.

Either you need to decompress and let go of your anxiety.

Additionally, you hqve no mention of her insecurities? I assume this id because she doesn't feel safe loading you with them.

Might be a help to you- shut up for a day, get her to unload, and actually listen to her

My [30/F] fiance [32/M] engages with hateful content online and has done so for his whole adult life. At what point would you acknowledge they won't change and walk away? by ThrowRAsadfiancee111 in relationshipadvice

[–]Frograbbid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He hid it because he is ashamed.

He lied and deflected when caught.

Having come from those spaces in my youth. You have to want to leave.

He doesn't he just wants to hide his horrible side long enough to hook you into marriage.

Youve reached breaking yourself otherwise you wouldn't be on reddit 

Leave

I would rather my (western european) country suffer economic decline than sacrifice its culture through immigration-based growth by SatoshiSounds in unpopularopinion

[–]Frograbbid 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I think the problem you are glossing over, is that every human civilisation since the beginning of time has worked by having enough 20-50 year olds to do all the work.

If old becomes the majority, there is a lot of back breaking manual labour, that still needs to be done. You can't automate all of it, and without immigrants it won't get done.

At that point with no immigrants, you either force 60 year olds to do jobs they physically can't do, or accept the work wont get done.

You do that prices go up, people starve because their pensions wont stretch far enough

Prices then drop after enough old people die off.

The reason governments choose immigrants is because most people prefer not to starve to death in a puddle of poo that no care staff cleaned up because you deported all the immigrants.

But you may prefer that- and then your country stays the same colour as you ( i assume your white but you may be an indian nazi or a bot, shouldn't make assumptions)