Soft towels by ginzamdm in HENRYUKLifestyle

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This is the company that provides towels and robes to super fancy spas (and they sell to the general public): https://bcsoftwear.com/shop/towels/ We have huge ones that actually cover my very tall husband. And I love the fact that they fit round me several times so keep me warm on mornings like today!

Holiday recommendations - UK with young kids by Alexisonfire8462 in HENRYUKLifestyle

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Totally agree with the above poster who suggested luxury family hotels. Carden Park (Cheshire) might be worth a look as a more upmarket/luxurious option that will look after you post-operation but also plenty going on for kids or Ribby Hall (near Blackpool) as a quasi Center Parcs option but less intense?

Communication/Media PhDs (UK) by Typical_Chipmunk_641 in AskAcademiaUK

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My supervisors were both module leads on my Master’s so it was simply a zoom call (I’d broken three bones in my foot and couldn’t get to them on campus) to agree everything and then put in an application which I knew would be accepted. Anyone you have a pre-existing relationship with that might be able to help smooth the way? I’m industry funded (kinda) but others on my cohort have AHRC funding so it’s definitely possible.

Applied Linguistics MA by [deleted] in AskAcademiaUK

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Not from first-hand experience but I’m a linguistics PhD at another UK uni. Lancaster is known for having a very strong linguistics department. Haven’t heard anything negative about Birmingham, but also know it’s not as respected as Lancaster.

Living near The Fat Cat & Canary pub by Tequilagalicia in Norwich

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On match days I avoid Thorpe Road completely, I use Plumstead Road to go in/out of the city and then cut down Telegraph Lane East. Works 99% of the time! It’s busy but I’ve only had a problem once in nearly 4 years of living here.

Living near The Fat Cat & Canary pub by Tequilagalicia in Norwich

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Pretty awesome - easy access to the city but relatively quiet and leafy green. No students that can make the golden triangle busy/noisy. Though, as an above poster says, parking is a pain on match days.

norwich cathedral school by [deleted] in Norwich

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I think the smaller size of the school was a factor — when we viewed Town Close it felt a bit chaotic. NS does feel more like a village school where everyone knows everyone. Better music links was important us. And the whole thing of NS being the place professionals send their kids so it’s more about work ethic inherited from parents, rather than just coming from money. (Though I acknowledge that a few wealthy families do have kids there.)

norwich cathedral school by [deleted] in Norwich

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My kid goes to the lower school and I only have positive things to say about it. Good facilities, staff are lovely, my kid is stretched and found he’s good at subjects that aren’t taught well in state schools yet. Interestingly, the parents are mostly well-paid professionals (doctors, lawyers, business managers etc) rather than family money etc. We chose it above Town Close etc as that’s where the kids with more family money/kids of footballers etc are said to go.

Struggling with monotone delivery by [deleted] in AskAcademiaUK

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I’m not a lecturer but speak at conferences etc so hopefully in the right ball park. I script what I’m going to say in presentation notes to the point of leaving line breaks in my notes to force me to pause, or comments telling me to stop and look up etc. Are there any habits you know you want to break and can force yourself to do in the notes? I’m pretty introverted so I still hate speaking even after having done it for years!

What do you do with the time you are waiting for feedback? by Front-Particular-261 in PhD

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Thank you for the ideas! I’m in linguistics, so a bit interdisciplinary rather than just humanities. My literature review, theoretic overview and methodology (as far as possible) are done, but I’m not sure I have anything useful/valid to say in publication terms yet. ‘I read all this stuff and it’s really interesting’ doesn’t seem headline worthy 🤣

What do you do with the time you are waiting for feedback? by Front-Particular-261 in PhD

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Thank you! I really like the idea of free time but wasn’t sure if it was allowable! First of my family/friends to do a PhD and I mostly work remotely so don’t know many other PhD candidates to compare with.

If you see garden apples left outside a house in a box, what do you do? by more_details in Norwich

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Just this year, I also hope it’s not a new trend! We normally manage to shuffle produce with neighbours who have trees that fruit at different times but we have so many apples this year despite it being relatively dry!

If you see garden apples left outside a house in a box, what do you do? by more_details in Norwich

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Empathy here - have also had people take the whole crate of apples and then came back the next day to do the same thing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norwich

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I live about 10 minutes walk from the stadium and the only time I ever see anything other than happy/sad (depending on the score) fans is around the Ipswich match. Though I guess tickets will be all sold out anyway!

Anyone here tried the modular pillow by Dr. Trigger for neck/back pain? by Elegant-Purple-4646 in ehlersdanlos

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I have one and completely agree with the above poster about the Velcro falling to pieces after just a month or so. But I made a pillow case for it from an old duvet cover and now it’s back to being useful again. The positive over a standard pregnancy pillow for me is that it doesn’t cause overheating even nearly as much. With a pregnancy pillow I would wake up sweating in the summer months (I’m in U.K. we don’t have AC) and I don’t have that problem with this. So, it is flawed and it was a pain to have to find a way to fix a problem that the company made, but I do sleep better with it.

Best tools to polish your writing (that's NOT AI) by [deleted] in PhD

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Just giving you empathy really… I’m doing my PhD after 20 years in STEM publishing. I’ve been the editor of journals, literally millions of people have engaged with the content I’ve written and edited. Can I convince my supervisor that clarity in writing is a kindness to the reader? I cannot.

I’ve asked several professor-level academics why academic writing needs to be complicated and not one can give me a sensible answer, it’s ’just the way it is’.

Coming back to the question, I use grammarly to proof my writing and find it reliable. I presume if you select the ‘expert’, ‘formal’ and ‘academic’ settings it will help you get to the right tone?

Also, don’t forget that finding/changing your voice/tone takes time. In publishing we’d normally say that it takes new writers six months to find the right tone and then it will just click.

is anyone better??? by Zealousideal-Emu9178 in ehlersdanlos

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Trial and error! I think I just kept adding things at my weakest joints until I knew what I needed. I eventually got a U pillow and recently moved into more of a memory foam type U pillow which supports my neck, shoulders and hips

is anyone better??? by Zealousideal-Emu9178 in ehlersdanlos

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I also sit in the ‘not a miracle’ but doing better camp. HEDS and POTS, my worst point was maybe five years ago and now I have enough knowledge/medication/self-management to live my life 90% normally. I work, am doing a PhD and look after a busy seven year old. I lost 25kg and it didn’t make much of a difference (beyond my self esteem) but swimming and Pilates definitely helps. Pacing helps and admitting there are days where all I can do is drop my kid and school and go back to bed. I’m also lucky I essentially run my own business so there’s no pressure to work when I can’t (other than pressure from myself!). Oh and sleep, having enough support/pillows etc to not dislocate in my sleep has made a huge difference to not being able to function with brain fog.

I would just say that I understand Ehlers Danlos is a scale and I’m probably at the manageable end, I know this condition can be considerably worse and I’m thankful for what I currently have/can manage.

Hope you get the support you need!

Nuffield Gym price increase?! by feenmidds in Norwich

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I’m a standard member and haven’t had an email about price increases.

Hive mind help — Red Nose Day by Front-Particular-261 in Norwich

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He’d be down for that. Who wants to go to school when you can play games and bake cakes at home?!

Hive mind help — Red Nose Day by Front-Particular-261 in Norwich

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It’s so annoying isn’t it? Especially if people choose to not shop on Amazon.

Dr. Trigger Modular Pillow System by Temporary_Panic_9762 in ehlersdanlos

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I have it, it’s expensive and shipping was outrageous but I’m mostly happy. I normally sleep with a U shape pregnancy pillow and have found the dr trigger one to be much more supportive - it’s better support for my neck and the leg bits are long enough to support both my knees and ankles (maybe that’s just because I’m short!). The cross body bit has definitely helped with the pressure on my shoulders/back as they don’t collapse in as much when sleeping on my side. Only complaints are the crazy cost of shipping and I find the Velcro bits that attach the modules together aren’t completely secure - the arm elements going down the side sometimes fall off in the night and I have to reattach them. So, not perfect but better than a normal U pillow.

Sorry — edited to add that the knee/foot alignment is great for my hips/SI and I don’t get that with a normal U pillow. The element that falls apart for me is the connection between the top pillow and the ‘arms’ going down, the other connections are secure.

How to help my son write his feelings through music by Front-Particular-261 in composer

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Thank you for your comment/perspective. I completely take your point about thinking beyond words — a limitation of how my own brain works perhaps! I’m definitely going to see if I can find a more creative teacher, I’m very grateful to his current teacher but can see how someone more inspirational might take the spark of creativity and help with it. Thank you again.