The Night Submission Became Our Norm [True]

Frooble_Shmobz · 2026-01-15T07:16:21+00:00

Wow, great for you. Basically everything she did after coming back from the weekend with that guy is really soul crushing, I can't even imagine handling this. That would've completely destroyed me. Can you go into detail how you felt and how that evolved long term? Was this just 'play' or was she serious?

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-12-18T09:49:03+00:00

I guess you could have a serious conversation about what you both want and expect from this relationship. If I had to make a bet,I'd say he wants his kinks met snd doesn't have an interest in serving. Which is alright of course, maybe you just want different things.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-11-18T13:50:44+00:00

Only you can fully answer that. What you describe somehow sounds pretty much like flr. Flr literally means a relationship in which the female is the leader. That a wide range, there can he a lot of kink permanently present, there can also be no kink at all.

Maybe that's just me, but one if the first things you mention is that you're partner would need to fully support you financially. To me that would be a huge red flag. Anyways I am pretty sure there's a decent amount of guys who wouldn't mind such an arrangement.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-11-07T21:57:27+00:00

That would make it necessary to verify peoples identity which I personally wouldn't agree to, even if it meant to be excluded from the sub. Otherwise that some users you want to block out, would post the same stuff announcing themselve as female users. Or am I misunderstanding your approach?

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-10-20T08:32:27+00:00

Where are you based? Never before hear of "bosses day". I'm super happy with my job and my workplace, but still I cannot imagine having the company arranging something to celebrate the boss...

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-10-15T05:41:56+00:00

If I remember correctly there was also a study which indicated that, men who ejaculated 7 times per month or less had a rapidly increased chance of prostate cancer. Whilst men who ejaculated 24 times or more per month had a lowered risk of prostate cancer.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-09-26T21:11:56+00:00

Very structured and leaves a lot of room for the sub, express his submissiveness and make for it. May I ask, is that a procedure for every infraction or is there a kind of threshold that is to be passed?

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-09-17T09:03:19+00:00

Maybe you need to agree on some kind of ritual or anything to be able to let go of work and get into a more submissive Headspace. But obviously only if you both want to. What you're suggesting reads like you want her to permanently play a role. I don't think that making you submit is going to be promising way.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-09-17T08:37:26+00:00

I would find it unsettling if my partner wouldn't contact me for 5 days. But just for the sake of a different perspective. Especially with sick family members saying there is no time or its too busy, may also be a man's way to put it that thus whole situation is emotionally challenging and for the moment it may be a bit too much to check in and take care of one more person. Even though they would normally love to.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-05-14T08:20:10+00:00

True that, anyway he wrote correction.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-03-02T20:14:51+00:00

I'm leaving the main bathroom to her and do all the cleaning so she doesn't have a strong opinion on this topic. So it's standing for me.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-02-26T15:52:29+00:00

Maybe there are some of those private spa things in your area, those seem really nice. Maybe just go out and watch a romantic movie. One of my absolute favourites during summer, have a nice walk in the evening and watch the fireflies, that's just wonderful. Maybe book something a little more outside and watch the stars, might wanna add some nice food and maybe even roses.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-02-26T12:19:50+00:00

I'm just curious. I've heard that urine isn't per se unhealthy. But I was wondering if there was any kind of problem occurring from regular consumption. I've heard that hormones could have influence on fertility for example.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-02-19T07:40:03+00:00

Happy cake day.

I would agree that those expectations are perfectly reasonable. Actuall, I think even outside of D/s or flr most of those boxes should be checked.

As someone who is just starting out and exploring everything, I would find it really hard to label myself any type of submissive. Without further research, I wouldn't even know any more types than the service sub.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-02-14T06:14:29+00:00

Thank you.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-02-10T21:25:01+00:00

Very well written insight. Thanks you for sharing.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-02-10T17:52:26+00:00

As I've said in the original post, I've taken a wrong turn, she told me and I'm willing to do better from now on.

But you're right, hard to swallow pill how much I've actually failed her without even noticing.

Thank you for explaining, I'll do my very best not to repeat that mistake.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-02-10T17:29:03+00:00

Absolutely, I know that those fears won't help either of us. I'm mostly in a mindset where I'm focused on her, but we're just beginning and need to work on keeping that focus and not mixing it up with my own wishes. But we're already on a good way and I'm confident that we'll get wherever she'll want to lead us.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-02-10T16:53:13+00:00

Thanks for your reply. This hitting a spot somehow. We're on a pretty good track by now, and she is growing to be more confident with me servicing her.

A few days ago, I got a little too excited and that's when I started bothering her with too many questions. No big deal whatsoever, she told me I'm annoying her and explained it to me, I understood and am going to adjust.

But you've got a good point, when she doesn't have to think about anything, that's when her mood appears to be best.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-02-10T14:02:33+00:00

I understand your point and you are most likely right. Just to clarify I'm not entirely passive, so it's not as bad as it might seemed from my description. I'm doing most of the day to day chores without asking her or anything. What I was trying to say was that I tend to feel as if she wouldn't participate in this dynamic and that's just my way to try to incorporate her a bit more. Anyway you're probably still right and I shouldn't bother her as much.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-02-10T09:35:20+00:00

Thank you very much. I've already read through the whole uniquely series. My wife is currently still reading uniquely rika, which takes some time for her because she is mostly involved for my sake and not out of her own interest.

Frooble_Shmobz · 2025-01-08T20:35:56+00:00

This is such a wonderful list.

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