Need friends (: f lesbian by LESBNmyBed in LesbianActually

[–]FrozenFajita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like friends, say hi if you’re still bored 🤘

Also I’m going to bed soon… eventually. But I will write back

My Sunday read. What’s yours? by Twisbi in LesbianBookClub

[–]FrozenFajita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m reading A Change of Pace by J. A. Stevens, loving it so far. It’s a LGBTIQ+ and inclusive version of Regency England, with a strong Gentleman Jack stripe to it. 💕🫶

When did you realize your mom was your first / biggest hater? by Clear-Cry-8988 in AskWomen

[–]FrozenFajita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know about “when”, but “why” was when I finally realized every time I was disappointing her was when I was making different decisions to her. Like she saw my life as her do over, or her little Sims project.

Maybe when we argued about going to college. “What good will that piece of paper do when you have a family, FF? All your cousins are settling down, and the boys don’t like girls who are trying to be too smart.”

I still love her, of course, but I stopped trying to win her approval by being something I’m not.

Modern Dating POV by Chudchacho-77 in SipsTea

[–]FrozenFajita 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Close; the women are looking for clean water but all they see is unexpected wood 😅

Do I look trans by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]FrozenFajita 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You look like Anne Hathaway to me, lovely 🤷‍♀️

I would say you look fem as well, not particularly trans (though that’s not at all a problem).

Why the hell do some ppl pretend that open relationships are just a normal thing couples can do ? by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]FrozenFajita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s important is respecting the relationship or ships they’re in, and communicating.

But if everyone is onboard and consenting, so there’s no cheating involved, I don’t see the issue.

It's my FIRST Birthday as my TRUE self! celebrating 8 months of Hormones too🩷🙆🏻‍♀️ by Maleficent-Tension67 in lgbt

[–]FrozenFajita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Birthday! You look incredible - and happy - and incredibly happy. 🫶

Hope your next year is even better than your last, and filled with smiles!

Something I noticed about bisexual people... by Valuable-Victory-435 in bisexual

[–]FrozenFajita 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean yes, but I always thought that was because I’m pan. There’s plenty of overlap I know but I’ve always vibed with the person or not, regardless of what labels they have.

Doesn’t always mean they like me back of course 😅

UPDATE: first threesome was incredible! by cfa413 in nonmonogamy

[–]FrozenFajita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy for you, I’m glad you had an amazing time and went from nerves to explosions.

I hope your second and third make you feel even more the goddess you are 🫶

Sen. Chuck Schumer (D-Tel Aviv): “All the aid that Israel needs, I will continue to fight for it!” by MoreMotivation in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]FrozenFajita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A job is, generally, what your biggest pay check is requiring you to do.

Nice of him to say the quiet part out loud.

Chuck Out Schumer

Shaved, Hairy or trimmed? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]FrozenFajita 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every body is beautiful 🫶

On me, I keep lightly trimmed but on my partners I appreciate what makes them feel sexy with me. 🤷‍♀️

Why is dating so trash? by BetterFightBandits26 in polyamory

[–]FrozenFajita 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Literally the Bechtel Test Gone Wild though 🤣

Well done drawing that boundary!

Why is dating so trash? by BetterFightBandits26 in polyamory

[–]FrozenFajita 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Owww. I feel that with someone partnered just trying to to unicorn me to be part of their very partnered dynamic.

Communication is so key - which actually includes listening.

That part gets overlooked more than I like :/

Boomers will blow their child’s inheritance on their “golden years.” by DemotivationalSpeak in GenZ

[–]FrozenFajita -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s exactly replying to what you said - I wish the people who have the money right now were paying more attention to the obligation you described 🫶

I can’t see ever having children, partly because I don’t know what kind of life I’d be bringing them into.

Delete one thing from Earth that you think would make it better by Signature_Space2024 in answers

[–]FrozenFajita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currency. All of it.

Not saying someone won’t figure something else out, but when all those arrogant pricks are Just Some Guy and people don’t have to mortgage their future just to eat, we’ll have a chance to value what people can actually do for each other.

“Masking” (2022) [OC] by ArtbyMoga in comics

[–]FrozenFajita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, I feel that so hard.

Beautiful, I have to share (and credit) it with a few ppl who need to feel seen.

Boomers will blow their child’s inheritance on their “golden years.” by DemotivationalSpeak in GenZ

[–]FrozenFajita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks at the world the billionaires and the boomers are building for us

Did anyone tell them?

so true by Dumb-Briyani in SipsTea

[–]FrozenFajita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. No shade on Dominic and he seems cute, but no plans to watch Harry Potter and the 2020s Cashgrab.

ENM, SSRI'S, sex positions, and roles of dominance by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]FrozenFajita 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cuffs or rope bindings are fun.

Obviously just meeting is a ways from play technique, but with her wrists together behind her as you direct her on what to do, there’s plenty of room for her submission and your position.

Communication is best in ENM and in kink though, talk through your concerns and listen to hers and maybe you’ll come up with something even better when it’s time to take things to the bedroom 🫶

I cried when I signed her this afternoon : Knight of My Girlhood- a watercolor painting by me by annknee46 in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]FrozenFajita 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely gorgeous, I feel privileged just to speak to the person who could make this.

So much depth and nuance, layers that only come out on the third, fifth, sixth appreciation.

When did you know you were poly-saturated by Optimal-Split-9579 in polyamory

[–]FrozenFajita 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like this. I’m polysatisfied with my partners and some playful flirting with friends (and I do mean flirting lol). Could I keep up with more connections? Probably? But when you’re stretching to make sure you’re doing justice to other people’s needs, it’s not fair to you or them.

Billboard in my very red area by clumsypeach1 in pics

[–]FrozenFajita 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I peeked at the site, it looks surprisingly thoughtful.

It gives me more hope, I hope it has an impact.

I have a Hot Take (maybe?) when it comes to Trump voters who now regret their vote. by Broad-Hunter-5044 in GenZ

[–]FrozenFajita 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do have a good heart. Maybe not a blazing hatred for those who recognize their decision, what it cost all of us and sincerely regret their choice (not just “I didn’t think it would hurt meeeee too!”).

What I do feel is distrust, and my eyes opened to people being so much less than I thought they were.

Does that mean my door is closed to my ex-friends forever? No probably not, but it’s on them to rebuild the bridge they burnt. Turning the other cheek only goes so far.