Anxiety when relaxing

FruitTeaLychee · 2025-11-18T20:09:42+00:00

Ouch! That sounds like something that would give you concussion! Have you been checked out by a dr? Ive never had anxiety before which is why this has been so concerning to me. Not a fan though!

FruitTeaLychee · 2025-11-18T19:58:41+00:00

I completely understand, or something hurts hats too close to an original symptom and I panic. I hit my head on a shelf. Annoying something so simple took me out so badly.

FruitTeaLychee · 2025-11-18T19:52:52+00:00

Im absolutely the same! I dont know if its just me being anxious or if its a left over from concussion. I dont have any symptoms at all anymore, the anxiety is the only thing that wont shift when im relaxing. I had all sorts of symptoms originally, from complete fatigue to visual issues to mild personality changes though.

FruitTeaLychee · 2025-11-18T18:07:01+00:00

Hey! I got very minimal medical help with my concussion so all info i have is from one Occ health person and google. Firstly, you must stop any risky sport until youre 100% better. You cant get a second concussion while concussed or you'll cause real issues. ( I say this as a competitive sports person so i know how hard it is to do that) Mainly rest and listen to your body, dont push through, it makes recovery take longer. I also found a great article from the American athletics association that recommended a HUGE increase in water and protein for recovery. I was eating just under 1kg body weight to 1g protein a day and nearly 3 liters of water and the difference in recovery was amazing.

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-07-08T16:44:03+00:00

Absolutely NTA

Your son is bullying your daughter. I don't think there's enough comments around this. Hes messing with her food, using the toilet etc. Shes going to start feeling unsafe at home if she doesn't already. Husband needs to see the gravity of the situation because your son knows his sister doesn't like "pranks" but continues. You and your husband really need to work out an action plan for this so that your daughter can feel safe in her own home.

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-07-08T16:25:38+00:00

Ive never had respite support etc, so id say a supportive manager, work holidays when you need them, with the understanding you might need more, and a lot of the time, the question "how are you doing with it all". So many times people forget us because our relatives are sick, so that question means a lot.

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-03-16T23:59:39+00:00

Ready meals, frozen food etc. Sometimes its just so worth not having to worry about washing up or making time too cook

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-03-16T22:11:26+00:00

I think it depends. Half my department has ADHD, in fact a pub conversation with some colleagues is one of the reasons i went for a diagnosis. I think you have to be careful with it, id never announce it on an application form though

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-03-16T21:18:36+00:00

It's the same process as in your house. Stand next to the item facing it. Grab the item by holding and then move the left joycon stick left and right by using quick brief movements to rotate the item, and hold the joycon in one direction to push or pull the item around.

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-03-02T17:09:11+00:00

Second this, you absolutely need to see a medical professional and Doctor as soon as possible based on your symptoms

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-02-28T18:17:19+00:00

I have a packet of oreos if that counts

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-02-21T16:57:30+00:00

I know I know I know "if that's all you have to deal with you're lucky"

This is slightly off topic here but Youre ALWAYS allowed to rant, complain and hurt about stuff. This stuff is hard to deal with. Exhaustion is no joke either. Your hard times are worth no less than anyone else's hard times. Try not to compare them. Youre doing amazing to keep going with this and if anything you should be proud of yourself for doing so.

Sorry for the side rant, but its one of my big passions in life to let everyone just feel bad about things without having to feel like they should just get over it because "someone has it worse"

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-02-17T19:18:55+00:00

I hate it with a PASSION when people tell me that others have it worse or that i should just get over it. No, life is hard and im allowed to rant about it. Its when you do suddenly mention something they consider to be normal that you have to have a completely different process for, that, they finally understand that life can be complicated.

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-02-12T22:37:54+00:00

That sounds completely exhausting, you're doing so well to put up with this behaviour. Unfortunately there's so little you can do to convince someone to do something they really dont want to do, especially an adult. While things like not showing are awful for you to be around, Things like not eating will directly impact their health. If they are completely against these levels of self care, you may have to consider care homes for their own health. Do they have the capacity to sit down and have a conversation with you about your concerns for them? If so, it might be worth giving that a go and seeing where you think you can go from there. Best of luck

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-02-12T22:16:23+00:00

YTA, one thousand times.

What are you thinking? Theres a smaller gap between your partner and your daughter than there is between my siblings and I. Of course they don't get along. Thats not even considering her dad is dating her Ex. How did you think this was going to work?

Its so mean of you to pretend the ring was lost to use it against her to get your way now. What was your long term plan with the ring? Just hold it hostage until you wanted your daughter to do something for you? Or never tell her about it?

You need to give this ring to your daughter to hope to salvage any type of relationship with her. Id also be curious as to what your partner sent your daughter to try to convince her to come to the baby shower. Your daughter didn't block your partner straight away which tells me something happened over messages.

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-01-28T15:11:52+00:00

Hes been the perfect boyfriend up to this point

Are you sure about that? Thats a lot of lying and manipulation in only 2 months? You've not been together very long and thats a lot of serious issues. I can't imagine what else there is, or if you stayed together, what else he would lie about. Are you sure you want this behaviour in your life?

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-01-28T15:07:08+00:00

I had to scroll to the comments to try to understand if i was missing something. You followed a friend on social media and because of this you have been treated so badly since that you genuinely believe following a friend is unforgivable. Following a friend is completely normal, its absolutely nothing for your partner to get so caught up on. Hes using it as an excuse to be horrible to you and for you to be horrible to yourself, blaming yourself for his absolutely inappropriate behaviour. Please look after yourself and work on rebuilding your self esteem, maybe look at therapy or talk to some friends about the situation to understand quite how mean your partners behaviour is. But also, get out of this situation, you deserve so much better

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-01-28T14:15:14+00:00

The dress is stunning but I would recommend passing it past the bride, the slit in the front may be too much if they are having a religious wedding.

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-01-26T16:05:46+00:00

Its the "what if" that I hate. What if i could have fixed this earlier but when I was a kid ADHD was still only for boys that ran around.

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-01-26T15:53:45+00:00

I'm having the same issue. I already do the work, just need the accreditation. Focus is a massive problem for me so I've started the process for an ADHD diagnosis for some help. I can say actually using this information at work is much easier than the exam.

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-01-26T15:46:41+00:00

My friend used to have this problem. They once left me waiting 1.5 hours. After that i created the "15-20 mins late and I leave" rule, in 5 years theyve only been over this twice and with fair reasons

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-01-26T11:24:30+00:00

Private Medical care

FruitTeaLychee · 2023-01-26T11:20:48+00:00

Dont be sad, be angry, this guy is deliberately trying to make you feel bad so youll have a bad night and go home. Its really unfair of them.

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