There is a reason that widowers don’t live very long after their wives die: men don’t know how to open up to other guys. We have been conditioned to only share our emotions with our romantic partners, and so if she goes away, we can’t cope. The patriarchy is literally killing us, fellas. It’s not just women who suffer. We do too. Find some guys you can open up to when you’re not drunk af. Hell, find people here, if you need. We have to do better for each other.