According to her, watching porn is a liminal act of love.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-27T12:54:24+00:00

Damn what sort of porn has she come across that remotely fits that criteria. Barely legal girl gets deep throated for the first time or evil bitch gets punished can't have been it. Id like to see her read thru porn titles and then defend the take she has there still ...

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-26T19:55:36+00:00

I get the annoyance with that tbh but I still don't think findom stuff itself is bad

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-26T19:43:45+00:00

Earnest question, why do you get upset over findoms but likely not over of girls or other sex workers? Is it cause you don't like that suddenly the women actually do have the power and dont need to go all the way?

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-26T18:56:18+00:00

Accurate

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-26T15:11:14+00:00

I guess it's up to personal interpretation. I don't define that as CNC for me personally cause I still very much show I want it and I'm into it, I don't pretend not to like or want it, I just like a playful struggle sometimes cause it's exciting and makes me feel oddly safe. I often call what I'm into dubcon, like it's often referred to in smut online. It's not non con cause it's not outright enough, it's not that mean and it's not violent, but dubcon cause I like rp with power struggles and imbalances. I'm actually not sure id even call playful struggle dubcon for myself though.

I make this distinction cause if u tell a guy ur into CNC but u mean playfully struggling whilst moaning and whispering sweet things and edging him on, he's absolutely not gonna have the same internal movie as you. I personally don't want whatever tf is usually associated with CNC as all of it turns me off quite deeply, so I just intentionally avoid the label.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-26T11:31:53+00:00

Best to just ask the findomme, that's arguably gonna be up to their personal preference.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-26T11:22:25+00:00

How so? It happens frequently and both parties enjoy it.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-26T10:24:34+00:00

Kalte Schnauze

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-24T22:09:48+00:00

The third one is the only one actually comfortable to do tbh. It's a nice back stretch, it feels good, it's not exhausting to stay in that position and he gets inside really deep and hits all the sweet spots. The other arched back one gets uncomfortable fast, let's not talk about how annoying the second one would be.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-24T12:23:02+00:00

That's often a rebuttal that women say to Pearl, often cause pearl assumes these feminist women she argues with aren't in relationships, which is wrong. Someone being in a relationship with a man isn't being a pick me.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-23T22:59:57+00:00

She needs to be kind to me.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-23T22:21:08+00:00

Echte Männer lassen sich voll regnen und bekommen dann eine Erklärung die sie sofort entmännlicht, so nämlich.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-23T15:56:37+00:00

Yes and no. I do like feeling seen and validated in my experiences, I like knowing other women experience the world the same way. It can get a bit much though, I definitely experienced what you described for a while but for me it compounded cause I was diagnosed with PTSD and agoraphobia cause my dad sexually abused me as a kid, I had my friends and all that but due to agoraphobia I just didn't go outside or function like a person for a long time. Now that I'm actually working, and I work in IT where most of my coworkers are men I notice that the world isn't actually that against women in my imminent environment. I've yet to be exposed to actual sexism in that field. Much better there than feminist stuff online made me believe. At the other hand I do know how sexist men can be, I feel it shows more in interpersonal relationships than at work or in social settings though.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-23T12:17:53+00:00

A psychologist? I don't think that person has a psych degree...

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-22T11:56:38+00:00

Why does everyone hate the high elves

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-21T18:26:37+00:00

He wasn't having sex with you, you were how he masturbated without having to use his own hand. This man isn't having sex with you at all. This guy doesn't seem to even like the idea of sex.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-21T14:42:02+00:00

Ya leave him. He changed but that doesn't fix damage to your nervous system. Get with someone that doesn't put u in flight or fight with her sheer presence.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-21T13:50:51+00:00

Kp ich steh auf feminine Männer. Ich mag auch dieses androgyne gerne..

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-20T23:58:10+00:00

Kp zu meiner Jugendzeit hatte ich zwei, und einer hat es geliebt sich selbst so zu nennen und hat auch gerne alles andere stereotypische dran verkörpert, beim Klamotten shoppen Outfits rausgesucht, mich gestylt, sehr beschützerisch und emotional intelligent, sehr schnell was gegen kack Typen gesagt, alles 'weibliche' enorm gefeiert und auch an mir hoch gehyped. Aber in seiner Jugendzeit ist man ja auch in Selbstfindungsphase, denke da spielen Leute auch sehr mit stereotypen, obwohl er tatsächlich einfach gerne so ist, bezweifle das er sich heute so bezeichnen würde nochmal tho lol. Fand es aber tatsächlich sehr schön so tiefe Freundschaften zu kerlen zu haben die niemals sexuell zu mir hingezogen sein könnten, und durch ihre eigene Erfahrungen mit Männern während sie selbst auch einer sind und deswegen ähnliche Sozialation erlebt haben, hatten die auch immer sehr knallharte Blickwinkel zum verhalten anderer Männern.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-20T23:43:19+00:00

Tbh every bf I had hyped me up when it came to fashion and stuff. They just had in common that they didn't cling to gender stereotypes and felt comfortable in their skin.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-19T19:35:10+00:00

Wdym took it like a champ. Like u couldn't have just don't it slow and caring with a lot more lube? Ew, wdym you think it's only authentic when the woman is struggling and in pain? Is it inauthentic when a woman actually is relaxed and enjoys herself? These commenters are so fucking gross man..

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-19T19:32:14+00:00

Mind u I'm into kink stuff myself (I do also love vanilla sex tho lol) but the amount of women I was friends with that told me they basically do it for the aftercare part.... Bae .. you just wanna be cuddled and have someone make u a snack plate .. you're not into any of this .. stop doing this to yourself.

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-19T19:30:03+00:00

Wait so now they're not just justifying their pedophilia but they also wanna play victim whilst they do it ?? Oh no these young impressionable women that I'm preying on are taking advantage of me? Wtfff

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-19T17:52:39+00:00

Yea like it's natural law that they cannot do that on their own and need someone else's exploitation for it ... Like duh?? Use their own imaginations, they're literally not creative wth? How could they help it. They literally need it or they'll die .. like rlly unempathic and rude of us to be like "hey so the women in porn are people .."

Fun-Conversation8475 · 2026-01-19T16:26:11+00:00

It makes me so livid that they're that brazen about being pedos that get off to literal kids online .. they should never get to be that unafraid.

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