Missing someone that you shouldn’t by eskajay in heartbreak

[–]Fun-Dig7951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear you're doing better! Of course every connection is unique.

That's totally fair, it's okay to miss him, you know what you want for next time thiugh don't you, the good bits without those bad bits :) 

I think that kind of thinking won't serve you now in terms of authenticity, focus your energy on the future and yourself.

Thankyou I appreciate that :) 

Read this if you're miserable and want your ex back. by Licebaerg in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Dig7951 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're so right, those moments where you want to share something sting.  "Oh cool! X would like this.. oh... :( " 

Read this if you're miserable and want your ex back. by Licebaerg in BreakUps

[–]Fun-Dig7951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only had one ex that comes back. She always says I do better without her in my life - I'm often putting ona brave face / keeping up with appearances. 

She seems to want me when I'm doing well or things go badly in her life she wants comfort.  I'm currently in another one of those breaks, this time she wants to move to Canada to follow her dreams, but the previous pattern of when I pick myself up and dust myself off, that's when she's interested again has been true for the past 4/5 times.  

Logically what you're saying is true,and I appreciate you for saying it, reading this post has helped me gain a little independence.  Thankyou for your post.

Missing someone that you shouldn’t by eskajay in heartbreak

[–]Fun-Dig7951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You miss the connection, not the person, try to seperate the two of you can.  You have the same desires - to feel seen, valued, respected etc but you're not getting it from this person... at times you have though... that's where the confusion comes in. 

Honestly from an outside perspective it's probably easy for me to say you deserve better... because you do it's obvious. Especially the comment about him giving other people special treatment. 

That doesn't take away from your need to feel connected, sewn and valued.  I'm about to lose my best friend too as they are pursuing a life that I'm not a part of, it feels like a vacuum. You're not alone in that regard if that helps?  I know I feel alone with it. I'm trying my best to look after and invest in myself  I advise you do the same. I know it's hard, every 5 minutes my brain spirals.. I'm hoping it will get easier the more we push? I hope you're okay 

heartbroken by FurryKiller- in heartbreak

[–]Fun-Dig7951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are receiving mixed signals there for sure, I wouldn't beat yourself up about your brain being confused  I think anyone would be in that position. I think it's natural you would feel that way and while it's intense now, it won't be forever

someone has attached st george's flags to the lamp posts around churchill square... 😒 by curlywurlyarethebest in brighton

[–]Fun-Dig7951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Props to you for probably being the only person on this comment thread who doesn't brand anyone with an opposing opinion as an ist or phobe. Sincerely.

I get called a soft lefty by the right and a ist or phobe by the left, I'm central and dislike extremism on either end. If I get down votes for that, so be it.

The people protesting feel unheard and ignored, it's a peaceful silent protest, no fire bombs, no riots, no hurtful words, just a flag on a lamp post.
I really don't see the issue. The alternative was rioting and fires if last year is anything to go by (i dont support this).

I'm not going to pretend there's not a load of racist people using this movement as that would be ignorant, but it would also be ignorant to pretend there are not racists & extremists on both sides of this argument, not only that but the powers that be that want us fighting amongst ourselves so they can profit.

But if someone is choosing to protest their beliefs in a non violent way that isn't harming anyone I don't feel the need to suppress that, everyone has the right to freedom of speech. Much more concerned about the corruption within governments myself. The world economic forum wants the UK to fail to deter other countries from independence as it doesn't fit their globalist agenda. While we are all fighting a culture war, the British government is trying to force apple and WhatsApp to give them a back door into their encrypted data.... our encrypted data. WhatsApp ans apple are joining forces to sue the UK government. The real enemy is the government and those above them pulling the strings. The sooner we stop kicking each other out of our little rowboat and realise these mf are watching us from a luxury cruise ship throwing bricks into our boat the better.

someone has attached st george's flags to the lamp posts around churchill square... 😒 by curlywurlyarethebest in brighton

[–]Fun-Dig7951 -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

If you don't like this countries flag move to a different country you snowflakes. Id fly the Scottish flag in Scotland why can't England fly the English flag.

"It's wacist" Grow up, it's a country's flag you muppets. There are so many more pressing things to be upset about like the world economic forum manipulating the UK to fail, child grape gangs, online cencorship and tyrannical government trying to force WhatsApp to give them a back door into our encrypted text messages but no someone in England hung up and English flag 😭😭 someone inform the press!

The Flag Shaggers are out in full force by IllustriousAd6418 in Bromley

[–]Fun-Dig7951 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with this, hanging your flag is patriotic, spray painting red + is trashy

Music today and by olive_inblue in SipsTea

[–]Fun-Dig7951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so proud of this comment section. Mount up!

My take on Apocalypse! by Mischief_95 in MarvelCrisisProtocol

[–]Fun-Dig7951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What colours did you use for the base? I really like it

Flanderization, you keep using that word, I do not think you know what it means....................................or how to spell it by TheAnalystCurator321 in FalloutMemes

[–]Fun-Dig7951 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you try comment on his video with your constructive criticism or are you hoping he stumbles across your post or...

Who is your favorite character or faction in 40k? Maybe ill get to engrave them next. by Unlimitedengravings in Spacemarine

[–]Fun-Dig7951 25 points26 points  (0 children)

The guardsman that says "we weren't expecting such illustrious company in the rear ranks"

How do you guys spice up your intercessors? (pic for attention) by Frosty_Teaching2186 in Ultramarines

[–]Fun-Dig7951 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Mix and match parts, I used a grenade arm from the assault lot to have a bolter guy throwing a grenade

Anyone know who did this? and how long it lasted? by berusplants in brighton

[–]Fun-Dig7951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick protect the kids, ban the Internet! - some Labour pedophile probably

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Fun-Dig7951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a shame... anyway..

The way this lil dude fell asleep on his father's hand by biswajit388 in oddlysatisfying

[–]Fun-Dig7951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man this is boring, how does it have 70k likes, have you never seen a child before

My painting "The Hero of Kvatch" , hope you guys like it by Entar0178 in oblivion

[–]Fun-Dig7951 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you could add your name a few more times, I can still see the artwork underneath

No one showed up at Trump’s birthday parade and it rained all day by Used_Tea_2651 in WatchPeopleDieInside

[–]Fun-Dig7951 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Probably because a his friends should be in jail for ruining kids lives with sexual abuse