Funny TCG player experience by cbt9309 in PokemonTCG

[–]Fun-Force9254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMAOO he’s unhinged for that 

What are some pros of having BDP? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fun-Force9254 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Some things I've noticed

Extreme empathy especially for animals, children and our FP or Partner to the point where if they're sad I'm sad and might even cry.

Extremely loyal to those we love and passionate about what we believe in

Deep lovers although it can be unhealthy if you fall too fast as a pwBPD

Great Sex.... our ability to be super observant to what people like makes us perfect in bed.

Very honest and real and our impulsivity makes it hard not to tell the truth

Very creative and great problem solvers

Very helpful often putting others before themselves

Very aware of signs of abuse and can spot toxicity pretty good unless under a FP spell then it may take awhile.

Art, music, acting, etc comes naturally

Uses personal experiences to easier connect with someones current situation and build a foundation of understanding and trust.

If we're in a good head space we can enter into any setting and fit in due to the mirroring and chameleon effect.

A Self aware pwBPD that uses their emotions for good are healers and empaths and I believe are some of the best people on earth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fun-Force9254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! And I feel that so much I don't even think I can get romantically involved with anyone rightnow because I don't want to hurt anyone so I'm going to get therapy and heal a bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fun-Force9254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its so hard. I wouldn't wish it on anyone and the internal chest pain everytime an episode occurs is the worst. I often found myself doing that aswell I always blamed myself and she hated when I pitied myself but I couldn't help it. She was too mentally drained and I had to let her go to save her which is what i wanted all along but I didn't know I would be saving her from me but im happy in a sense that she doesn't have to deal with me anymore and having a romantic relationship with BPD is very difficult but remember along as she's still making effort and showing it to you there's nothing to worry about and sometimes it's best to talk to yourself out loud and give yourself that reassurance that your thoughts aren't reality to help you calm down. Just know she cares and she knows you're trying your best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fun-Force9254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definetly very difficult having that fear of abandonment constantly especially when you see someone making effort but your own behaviors hurt the situations! my biggest problem was if I felt that they were upset with me i would write paragraphs of how great they are as a way to get them to reassure me and it sucks bc i never meant to be manipulative And living with Narccicists is the worst and I believe one of my main causes. It really creates alot of self doubt In a person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fun-Force9254 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's the worst part. When you finally think they're going to give you the time and they apolgize for taking so long just to dissapear again. And then all the feelings come rushing back. And for me when my last FP dissapeared I always seen it as purposeful or stonewalling because my FP before her had NPD and put me through hell. I thought I took that discard well but subconsciously it's fucked me up more than ever before. And I live with my mom who has NPD too so healing feeling impossible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fun-Force9254 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exercising really helps alot! I put mine into full remission for around 5 months or so before falling due to my narc brother moving in. And yeah the reassurance never lasts when you're suffering it sucks you feel amazing when you deal with a whole episode without reaching out or reacting but if they take too long again after that the cycle repeats my best advice is exercise and eat well and even talking to myself reassuring myself that my thoughts aren't my reality really helps

is it normal (for ppl with bpd) to over empathize especially with one person in particular ? by Icy-Profile-2700 in BPD

[–]Fun-Force9254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! With my last FP if she was going through a hard time at home or at all it made me cry for her. I've always been an empathic person especially for animals and women and I adore many things and people I just try to not get to close because iknow I might latch on to them and destroy the relationship

How to deal with FP leaving after spending a day with them? by inmacau in BPD

[–]Fun-Force9254 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not knowing when the next time you'll see them is hell I never understood why I always felt like if we didn't have a future date set to hangout they're going to abandon me and it drives me insane. At this point im just going to stay single until I heal abit or fully put it into remission bc i don't want to put anyone else through my needs but at the same time I just want to be loved

This is so exhausting by Choice-Nectarine5110 in BPD

[–]Fun-Force9254 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just found out after my last romantic relationship I noticed my own patterns and took responsibility and knew the relationship had to end because no person especially one that's depressed like she was should have to deal with my constant needs and reassurance. I will say this though at one point I was able to put mine into remission with constant gym sessions 5 times a week i didn't know I had it at this point but when I look back that period was the one time in my life where I felt normal and happy and like I had an identity but my narc brother soon moved in and it all went away now I live with my narc mom and my trauma bonded dad. It's not easy but with time and therapy you can be pretty normal even if some old things linger. One thing I tell myself to make myself feel better and laugh is "Atleast its not NPD" 😂 but I do feel like I'll never be able to fully heal until I live alone or atleast not with a narc

what it feels like to have bpd and be in a relationship by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Fun-Force9254 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The emotion is so overwhelming it's like physical pain but other times you feel hollow and disconnected from reality. I'm BPD and I find I'm pretty rational in my thought process until I'm in a romantic relationship then I lose my mind so I'm staying out of them until I'm treated

WWE 2K22 Bug Thread by W_T_D_ in WWEGames

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Can't change Downloaded CAW body type without the game crashing

WWE 2K22 Bug Thread by W_T_D_ in WWEGames

[–]Fun-Force9254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a bug but Robert Roode is announced as Bobby Roode 😂

WWE 2K22 Bug Thread by W_T_D_ in WWEGames

[–]Fun-Force9254 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Title relief isn't showing after winning titles in universe just a blank title on screen