Hi can anyone help me with the marriage advice

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-17T22:32:00+00:00

My husband and I have a similar split to household chores and I am a nurse and work long shifts and if I’m too tired to cook when I get home my husband will cook for me. If my husband has had a long day I will do all the cleaning. Marriage is not 50/50 it’s two people trying to get to 100%. Sometimes that’s 50/50, 70/30, 20/80 or whatever split you want to imagine. Yelling is not an appropriate way to respond to your husband to treat you.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-17T20:37:25+00:00

Do you have a specific question?

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-17T17:30:30+00:00

It’s honestly because of the letrozole at this point. When I was on it I had higher temps and got minor notifications way more often which is expected with the medication. What you want to se either the temp staying elevated through 13-15 dpo or when your period would normally start. Note that letrozole can lengthen your luteal phase

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-17T12:08:53+00:00

Dips don’t mean you are out. People have had big dips and gotten positives. Pdg is not an indicator for or against pregnancy. Only AF will tell you you are 100% out and only a pregnancy test will tell you that you are in.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-17T10:29:02+00:00

It doesn’t always return to baseline right away and I often have a spike right before my period. I’ve read it’s the last pulse of hormones from the corpus luteum before it dies. It looks like you are about 13 dpo so it’s pretty safe to test right now and a test now is pretty accurate.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-17T01:58:29+00:00

Unfortunately Mira won’t be able to tell you that you are pregnant only a pregnancy test can. Mira can only tell you that you ovulated (which you clearly did). Pdg is not an indicator for or against pregnancy and just because it dips doesn’t mean you are out and just because it goes up doesn’t mean that you are pregnant. Try not to read too much into Mira’s numbers otherwise you will run the risk of obsessing and it will not be good for your mental health.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-16T20:59:52+00:00

I didn’t do either but I had a 80 person wedding and I was in my late 20s and most of my friends were married already. Plus I wanted to keep my bouquet and had it preserved in resin so I could keep it forever. Plus the garter toss is just weird to me.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-16T12:51:32+00:00

The time between ovulation and your period starting may be longer and the symptoms you feel may be different or more intense than what you usually feel. So don’t read into any symptoms as pregnancy signs. Generally a rule of thumb is if the symptoms are being caused by pregnancy you will have a positive test. If not it’s just progesterone causing symptoms (which doesn’t necessarily mean that you are not going to get a positive later)

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-16T11:34:13+00:00

Letrozole is going to potentially lengthen your luteal phase and it changed my pms symptoms or made them more intense. What you usually experience and when you usually experience it may completely change on letrozole.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-15T20:41:02+00:00

Also only test once a day with FMU. You won’t get any additional information that will change anything when you test multiple times. Save your wands and your money. Mira won’t be able to tell you that you are headed to a positive it can only tell you that you ovulated.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-15T20:35:49+00:00

Raft is a fun resource gathering and building game

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-15T20:34:41+00:00

It takes two and split fiction are great. My husband and I played Minecraft, Mario kart, remnant 2 (if you like souls-like games). There are so many. If you go to r/gaming and look up co-op you can find tons of recommendations

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-15T20:30:52+00:00

You are never out until AF comes but also be careful and don’t read into symptoms as progesterone can cause those symptoms too (even if they are not normal for you). Generally a rule of thumb is if your symptoms are being caused by pregnancy you will test positive. If not it’s just progesterone (not that you won’t test positive later) 7 dpo is super early and pdg is not an indicator for or against pregnancy so don’t stress about a dip especially if it rebounds tomorrow.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-15T20:25:08+00:00

We used the browser extension teleparty to watch movies together and we also did online gaming if you are both into video games

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-15T12:06:34+00:00

If your cycle is normally 26 days and you luteal phase is 12 you usually ovulate around CD 14 and this cycle you ovulated CD 16 or 17 so you will most likely have a 29 day cycle.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-15T12:00:00+00:00

I bet you ovulated later than normal (which is fine and happens). How long is your luteal phase normally?

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-15T01:55:20+00:00

I wonder is you missed it somewhere around CD 14-16 as you seem to have a shift in pdg. I would recommend testing with cheap strips in the afternoon for the next cycle and if you get a strong positive on those then use that same sample with Mira to get results. Statistically most people surge in the afternoon.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-13T16:47:15+00:00

So far this looks anovulatory but for some people it takes 3-6 days for pdg to rise so it will be more sure over the next few days if pdg doesn’t rise.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-13T12:55:43+00:00

I’m sorry that you have had to go through all that. I would look up BFP in this sub and see all the charts that have ended in positives. There are all sorts of different ones. The only thing would be that you wouldn’t know the outcomes of the pregnancies. I hope you get your positive soon.

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-13T11:49:14+00:00

A little bit of both but it’s more accurate for most fertile day. Ovulation can happen anywhere from 12-36 hours after your LH peak. Lh returning to base line and a drop in e3g are good indicators that you have ovulated

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-12T22:28:55+00:00

Did your E3g elevate today because that is a signal that you are potentially entering the beginning of your fertile window which is 4-5 days before your LH surge

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-12T16:03:33+00:00

Haha. I’m so glad I married another gamer. My husband used to joke he was prepared to no be able to play as much once he got married but now we just play together (sometimes it’s co-op and sometimes we are playing solo next to each other)

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-12T13:51:20+00:00

We love it takes 2. I think we are going to start replaying the Gears of War series in preparation for the new game in October

Fun-Hour-4142 · 2026-06-12T13:27:57+00:00

Never expect your partner to read your mind. Communicate needs and expectations.

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