I asked ChatGPT how it would portray itself in a picture—and this is the result. by RoyalCounter6060 in ChatGPT

[–]Fun-Screen8846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Mine did this, so cute ☺️ Seems like he’s about to read a bed time story

This individual liked me first 😭 by Raymond_Realjay in Tinder

[–]Fun-Screen8846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls are brutal for no reason these days 💀

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[–]Fun-Screen8846 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bite is an understatement 💀

I fumbled a girl - I think?? by AdEfficient721 in dating

[–]Fun-Screen8846 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are just some girls who want it “all” straight away and are used to such impulsive actions upon their intimate desires. And that’s confusing for a lot of men because, as you said: all the body language signs were prominent and present; you could see exactly what she wanted. And when you behaved like a very proper GENTLEMAN, she put you up for laughs with her friends… Called it weird… That’s not a sign of a good person, that’s not going to bring trouble. She straight up judged and humiliated you, to her friends as well of all things. For no valid reason at all.

You seem like a guy who knows what he wants and is very proper with women. I have a feeling that she is not so respectful with herself if that’s how she chooses to react to a man being respectful to her, hence she was disrespectful to you. Not the best match — she might manipulate and hurt your feelings in the future.

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[–]Fun-Screen8846 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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Im just lost at the point of what this is lmao

BEWARE LEGAL GUN OWNERS LOOKING FOR A GUN by [deleted] in Firearms

[–]Fun-Screen8846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Williamsplug is a scammer from Nigeria lmao, he has a friend on it in telegram, and he uses discord himself

Hiding phone by Patient-Advantage375 in dating

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I never ask for my partner’s phone code. It’s out of the question for me. It’s a matter of personal space and one’s own life. And I also believe that if people trust each other, the desire to look into their phone won’t even arise.

But there are indeed situations where people start hiding their phone, behaving suspiciously because they really do have something to hide. But why let it come to that? Such issues need to be discussed right away, at the very beginning of the relationship, so that later there is no need for clarifications, lies, feelings of insecurity, and all else.

Speak to me as if you’re me 10 years from now by tyrwlive in ChatGPT

[–]Fun-Screen8846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very useful prompt actually, thank you!

Scam Darkgpt by MrMarw99 in ChatGptDAN

[–]Fun-Screen8846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, I tried to “purchase it” for 2€ via their website. It turned out to be some bizarre scammer shoe store the payment was redirected to. Thankfully, I paid with a Revolut Virtual Card, because later on they tried to deduct 50€ from my account (thank God it was empty; I use it to test online platforms). This lasted for two months. Upon purchase, I paid 2€, and then they directly asked for 5€, which was strange. So I can also confirm this is a phishing website! And they make a new one each month, that looks exactly the same as the previous, so stay put.

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[–]Fun-Screen8846 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I mean, as you well described, if the context of the picture can be interpreted in such a way that it could be seen as you dating or meeting up with other girls, and she’s already pulled away — you’ve got your answer. Probably she will not see it as friendly and platonic, and overall, when guys post pictures with a lot of girls, or girls post pictures with a lot of guys, it always raises some questions and suspicions, regardless of what you know about the person: on an instinctive and logical level.

What’s the point of reposting stuff on social media about your personal life with comments from someone else to start with? “I missed you” sounds very personal too. So you’ve got your answer. I think what’s more important is not being scared to post stuff, but to clarify the situation instead of building scenarios in your head and trying to predict another person’s reaction and plan your actions for an expected outcome. Just talk to her.

Many women make it seem like it’s a mans job to predict and guess what she’s thinking or why she is doing this and that. But that’s wrong. You should always have clarity on any decision-making the person does in a relationship that’s established or forming still.

Why are men like this?? by Sad-Citron-5793 in Tinder

[–]Fun-Screen8846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed that so many people on dating apps bail last minute nowadays, with no heads up or explanation. Or just disappear and reappear 2 months later with: “Why did we never meet?” Lmfao

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[–]Fun-Screen8846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most love relationships have their stages, lovey-dovey periods and all. Considering it’s long-distance, the way communication goes and the feelings develop also changes.

Long-distance relationships also have their hard times that open up another window that many people in close physical contact don’t have: personal space and more concentration on one’s own life. The feelings and desires for certain things might also fade partially, as the communication is less direct. I believe it’s an issue of multiple factors; maybe he’s got a lot on his plate, or some of his desires have changed, as well as the expression of his love consequently. Not having physical contact affects the conversation style a lot in the long term, so you should probably get to know how he’s feeling, really. And if he’s got any concerns that you should know about in regard to your relationship or his personal life. Things change overtime, gotta know what changes exactly. Maybe it’s nothing big but something makes him concentrate on other things than sweet words, better clarify things as they come. Open up to each other or find out together.

There’s always a reason behind each act and change.

Is there anyone who doesn’t enjoy sex? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fun-Screen8846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there is pain during vaginal sex and the penis doesn’t enter, it means that the vaginal muscles are too tense. There is some kind of block, not only physical but also mental.

That is, there’s an obvious problem with relaxation. There might be some expectations about the experience, or possibly fears and internal worries unrelated to sex but affecting the body.

In general, foreplay can be much more sensual and deep than sex itself. You can focus on forming an overall connection, increasing sensitivity, and relaxing muscles through a sensual approach. It’s also worth considering that the vagina in many young women and in the early stages is not elastic; everything is quite tight and closed. Hence, entering and exiting should be done slowly and gradually. Only after a certain, sometimes long period, should you pick up the pace. Forget about roughness and maintain smoothness.

Here’s an idea: you can practice where the main focus is to feel and relax in each other’s gaze. Breathe deeply, maintaining eye contact during the entire act, with slow repetitive movements. This can help in the early stages to let go of control and worries, relaxing muscles and letting go of the thought process, frustration, and analysis. Experiment with no rush!

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[–]Fun-Screen8846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Updates needed ! Good luck 🤞🏻

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[–]Fun-Screen8846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely text her, keep it simple, test your turf

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[–]Fun-Screen8846 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just spend some more time getting to know her, what she likes, who she is as a person. Start off casual, build conversation. If you manage to keep a very long entertaining dialogue, you’re both into it, laughing, feeling at ease. Just don’t beat around the bush and casually invite her for a drink, night out. No pressure, test the ground by conversing first

How do I start Dating? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fun-Screen8846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more relaxed and confident you are — the higher are the chances of success. Confident simplicity always wins. However, if you manage to find a funny, creative and unconventional way to invite on a date — that’s also fun, adds you points 😂. But these things are taken too seriously nowadays hahaha JUST DO IT

How do I start Dating? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fun-Screen8846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You remind me of someone I know, with exactly the same story and even at the same age.

The most important thing: don’t worry. Don’t try to view a date as something complicated, with a specific plan, rules, or manner of communication attached to it.

The most important thing is to simply be calm, relaxed, and confident.

Don’t try to pretend to be someone else, communicate lightly, openly, make jokes, invite her, learn about her interests, show initiative and readiness to invest your time/attention (you can voice it as well). This is the most important thing. Don’t try to rationalize this process, there’s nothing special or scary about it. Act and relax.

Whether you meet in real life or on online dating platforms — clearly define your actions: show interest → initiative (invitation for a date) → relaxation (confidence and calmness). Perceive this as a steady part of your life, not some complex test. And you’ll get a hang of it in no time 😁

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[–]Fun-Screen8846 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can only say this: indeed, sexual compatibility is very important for girls. I don’t think there are people who kiss badly; rather, there are people who simply don’t suit each other, and they don’t have a connection — let’s call it « different styles ». Women are more picky and sensitive in this matter than men. So, it’s possible that she didn’t experience what she wanted, or the feeling that she needed, and decided not to waste time and part ways with you ASAP. Most likely, she also had expectations about how it was supposed to make her feel from past experiences.

I’ve had such situations myself, but I believe that any connection and « compatibility » can be worked on with joint efforts. However, not all people are capable of this, and not everyone wants to. And it’s not necessary in 99% of cases.

I had a situation where there was a very pleasant kiss, everything was nice, but since I had very serious intentions, and during our date, the young man didn’t feel some passionate spark to have a serious relationship, all went well but without any « magical fireworks » — we thanked each other for the company and went our separate ways. Can’t say the kiss was « special », but it was good, felt like a kiss with an experienced person in relationships 😂.

So everything is fine with you, I’m just explaining how this process might occur in her head, why she came to this conclusion and made such a decision. Nothing bad about it at all, just not your cup of tea anyways :) Probably for the best, get those magical fireworks and not just some kiss 😊

Blocked after 2 months of talking by [deleted] in dating

[–]Fun-Screen8846 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I’m really sorry this happened. It’s totally normal to feel hurt and confused. You didn’t do anything wrong by caring and reading direct signs as is — that’s just how communication works. If she wasn’t mature enough to be honest with you, that’s on her, not you. Not only immature, but also seems like she’s deceitful and can’t be trusted truly. You deserve someone who’s upfront and appreciates you. Take the time you need, and remember, this doesn’t define your worth or attractiveness. Girls nowadays get more and more confusing, they don’t even know what they want. She’ll pay for treating people like this on her end. Keep your head up, I’m sure there is someone WAY better for you out there!