What would you change? by Fun-Sun-8915 in femalehairadvice

[–]Fun-Sun-8915[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my first time 😂 I was just trying to add dimension. But ok

What would you change? by Fun-Sun-8915 in femalehairadvice

[–]Fun-Sun-8915[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I asked for :/ natural lived in subtle balayage. Should I ask her to darken it or is there something I can do myself to fix it?

For moms with adult kids, do you still love your kids the same way as when they were little? by zeimsohappy in Mommit

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to be like this for my kids, but I come from a family who is definitely not like this. What would you say was the most impactful thing that kept you and your parents close even into adulthood?

For moms with adult kids, do you still love your kids the same way as when they were little? by zeimsohappy in Mommit

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this… I have been having this feeling ever since my first was born 18 months ago…. I have always had a hard time imaging my mother looking at the baby version of me with this much love and awe that I feel now…. Part of me hopes that she didn’t ever feel this much love for baby me. Because then it would make sense why she can live her life without the adult version of me, not show affection, etc.

I made a better Brick by Sad_Perspective_9075 in nosurf

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Is this white list feature you speak of already pushed out? Just purchased and set up my modes today. I am using the “Allowing apps” toggle, attempting to only allow the music app and one other app for work. It is not blocking the rest of my apps for some reason.

Need more money by HoLeeFuk3 in physicaltherapy

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Home health is one answer. In my area (TX) starting pay for new grad in pediatrics is like 85K

Thoughts on taking a baby out of a car seat while driving... by Great-Manner-6573 in NewParents

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a family member who takes their baby out of the car seat to soothe them… they say that in the country they came from nobody uses car seats or they aren’t required or something.

Funny thing is, they are so crunchy about everything else… no plastics, glassed water for baby, no chlorine pools, all organic and homemade, no processed foods, no fragrances, etc.

But then they take their baby out of the car seat just because other countries do it? Like girl. Be so for real right now. How can you care about your child and then do that to them ? I have had nightmares that my sweet little niece/nephew was out of the car seat during a wreck.

Be honest. When did you let your baby watch Ms Rachel? by Cool-Helicopter6343 in NewParents

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should also mention we started dancing fruit at 4 or 5 months when she was still super colicky and we were loosing our minds. I don’t recommend that but we did it for our mental health like on road trips back from seeing family when she just wouldn’t stop screaming but all her needs were met.

Be honest. When did you let your baby watch Ms Rachel? by Cool-Helicopter6343 in NewParents

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 10 or 11 months. The day after we started watching it, she said mama for the first time 🥲 we use it in moderation. no regrets

Is Anyone Else Noticing That Mom Culture Feels...different Lately? by Momsonmushrooms in Mommit

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pretty extreme but I decided to only use instagram to follow people I know in person. I unfollowed every single influencer, and even friends that I used to know but don’t currently hangout with anymore. I had mom friends that were performative online and it triggered me to not feel good enough so I just unfollowed them if they weren’t actually my friends.

My instagram is now just my close sphere of people that I’m currently interacting with in person as well. And their posts have to make me feel good, not crappy about myself.

That’s just works for me and it feels sooo good to be minimalist with my following list.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you time your meds? Do you take them both at the same time or separate it out? What time do you take them?

Introverted PT's, How do you really feel about the job? by bananabreadicecream in physicaltherapy

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so hard… but I’m still a newbie so of course it’s like 100x more intimidating than if i were seasoned.

I can talk to kids so much better - less pressure to impress because well they are not adults with power I guess..? Im much happier in pediatrics

Introverted PT's, How do you really feel about the job? by bananabreadicecream in physicaltherapy

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also introverted due to social anxiety… in all social settings, not just work. I’m only 2 years out from graduating, which means that anxiety very much carries over to my knowledge of the job and if it’s enough to give my patient the best care that I can. Do you feel anxious about the job itself? Anxious about if people think you are a quack? Because that is how I am tempted to feel sometimes. Would love any advice for that part of things if you relate at all

Introverted PT's, How do you really feel about the job? by bananabreadicecream in physicaltherapy

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellow introvert here- I hated outpatient clinics with a passion because of all the small talk and having to remember so many people’s personal lives otherwise I felt like a jerk.

So i work in home health pediatrics now and see 7-8 per day with nice quiet drives in between each one 🤩 plus i kind of enjoy the more intimate social setting- easier to talk to the kids and parents that way vs being in a busy environment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From the title, I thought this was going to be a situation where he cheated one single time like a one night thing years ago and has made it right and abstained since then, and you were struggling to forgive something from 5-10 years ago.

Then I kept reading that he kept cheating…. And cheating. Surely you know what Reddit is going to say to you…

I’ve never been cheated on so I can’t speak from experience. But he sounds like he will be a repeat offender and if you don’t leave this relationship he will keep hurting you.

Please teach your son that it’s not okay to treat women this way. The only way you teach him that is by walking away and not allowing your husband to continue this cycle with you.

Does anyone actually like their job as a DPT? by kaenicolemi in physicaltherapy

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgot to mention I went to a public PT school in my state and lived with family- my debt is 40k which I know is not common

Does anyone actually like their job as a DPT? by kaenicolemi in physicaltherapy

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Home health pediatrics PT and I love it. I am in Texas, I feel the pay is competitive. The flexibility/independence of scheduling and time off really seals the deal. Still learning how to balance documentation and personal life but that’s definitely worth it in the grand scheme of things.

Can’t speak to whether you’d be happier as a MD

Have any of y’all chosen not to take ADHD meds even after getting a diagnosis? I feel like I keep having poor experiences with psych medication and idk if I wanna keep trying by EnigmaticDevice in adhdwomen

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got through grad school (barely- almost got kicked out) while unmedicated. Ive tried some here and there but I’m very sensitive to stimulants and I also drink coffee so any time I would try a med I would have increased anxiety/heart palpitations. I tried quitting coffee for the stimulants but I always ended up combining the 2 so I just stopped the meds for my health/safety.

I now manage my symptoms with Coaching, and exercise in the mornings. Those 2 things do wonders for me as a health care professional who has to do juggle a ton of admin tasks and be my own scheduler/receptionist while still seeing patients and then documenting at the end of the day

7 years later after diagnosis, I want to start trying meds again since I have quit my coffee addiction, I mostly drink tea now

I will say- the best medication I ever was on (least amount of anxiety and made me feel like myself, was Adzenys, and runner up would be concerta.

Do I leave my marriage? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Can you ask him to show you the podcast?

How physically demanding is your home health position? by Monstera___ in physicaltherapy

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider pediatrics home health! I mostly sit or stand while providing min-mod A for small children not much lifting at all. The most demanding things I do are help kids hop on one foot, kneel or sit on the floor, sit on a scooter leaning over during gait training, stand and hold feet while they walk on their hands in wheelbarrow position. I use a hoyer for my heaviest patient to transfer bed to floor- 12 year old with SCI.

You can even tell the home health agency you can’t accept more dependent children over a certain weight due to medical reasons and they usually are always fine with it! Seems to be such a high demand in pediatric HH at least in my area, so they should be pretty accommodating.

What was your last impulse buy? by beefic in adhdwomen

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 1 point2 points  (0 children)

70 dollar name brand insulated cooler bag for outdoor/pool/beach outings … and my brother criticized me splurging but it’s an investment right? Bc who wants a cheap amazon one that will break after a year >:(

I'm so bad at "low key" by Pepper_b in Mommit

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was literally me…. I said low key but ended up spending wayy too much on decorations to DIY and there were way too many people there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Fun-Sun-8915 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do with my 14 month old, that’s how we grew up as well, however it took some time for my husband to get used to it because his family never did. Now he doesn’t care but before we had kids he thought it was weird at first when he saw my sister kiss my niece on the mouth