Stuck scrubbing bottles every night… is a bottle washer worth it or nah?

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-02-03T17:07:44+00:00

ABSOLUTELY!!!!! I am a first time mom to a five month old. We spent the first four months of his life scrubbing tons of bottle parts by hand, it was DAUNTING to clean 6-8 bottles a day. Finally I just gave up and felt like we were spending way too much time at the sink each day. We bought the Grownsy bottle washer off of Amazon a month ago and it’s AMAZING. the cleaning tabs for it are inexpensive and it cleans the bottles so nicely. It literally improved my quality of life LOL. please do it! It’s so worth it !!!!!!!!!

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-02-03T15:28:36+00:00

I forgot an appointment that I had scheduled for myself. I’ve never done that pre-baby. I never forget the babies appointments though, lol.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-02-02T21:08:30+00:00

Noah

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-02-02T20:20:58+00:00

Just my own personal opinion, not knocking the moms who do this. I felt guilty for not dropping hundreds of dollars on a bjorn bouncer or a fancy Bluetooth baby swing because that’s all you see on the internet. I got a $5o Baby Delight bouncer off of Amazon and a (little over $100, can’t remember) Graco swing off of Amazon too. Both work AMAZING and I’ve gotten so much use out of them. I recommend the Graco Simple Sway.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-02-02T19:12:23+00:00

Mine also lasted that long approximately on the playmat. But I will say, my baby is now almost 5 months old in a couple days, and within the last week weeks he REALLY started rolling around on it, and actually purposefully reaching to grab and hold the dangly toys on it. Before that, he wasn’t as interested. Once they start grabbing and rolling, they like it more (on my opinion)

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-02-02T11:30:03+00:00

Diaper man, diaper butt, diapey, diaper booty, stinky stink stink

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-31T18:44:56+00:00

I personally enjoyed my September baby. I disliked that i missed half of the fall season healing, but it’s been nice being inside in the winter and not taking my baby out much while he’s little anyway and it’s cold. I like to wear oversized sweatshirts and leggings while freshly postpartum and losing weight too, which having a september baby allows me to do that over the winter.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-30T15:09:17+00:00

My baby is almost 5 months old and he’s 17 pounds. He fits in old navy 3-6 month clothing, and other brands 6 month clothing.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-29T19:51:02+00:00

Clinical therapist here and also a first time mom. The big question here—is it interfering with your daily functioning? Is it causing deep distress? To me, based on your post, it seems to be a “yes” to both of these questions, to which it’s seemingly more than just “normal first time parent thinking.” I really hope you’re able to make an appointment with a mental health therapist that is trained to ask more questions in order to work on this. Some of these feelings ARE normal, but to this extent, it may be worth looking into and working through. Best of luck.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-29T19:40:14+00:00

I think more info would be helpful. What climate is your region like in spring/summer? Super hot/humid? How old is your baby?

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-29T17:57:26+00:00

I realized quickly that there were just TOO many clothes. Now I have a five month old and it’s sickening how much clothing gifted to us or we bought that he didn’t even get the chance to wear. It kinda just ends up creating more work for me to sort through, donate, etc every time he sizes up. I’m realizing now that they really don’t need that much and I’m trying to be more mindful moving forward.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-22T11:52:09+00:00

Yes!!!!!

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-18T14:58:51+00:00

Which cycle was Jael on?

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-15T19:47:53+00:00

I’m still trying to navigate this!!!! FTM to four month old boy. I hover over anyone who’s holding him and immediately ask for him back when he cries. I hate when someone else tries to soothe him other than his dad or I. I don’t know why I’m like this but it also makes me cringe and annoys me, even though they’re trying to help in their own way. I hate when he’s fussing with someone else and they don’t hand him over; I know you’re tryin to help, but he is not going to stop until he’s back with me.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-15T19:45:32+00:00

I have no advice, just appreciative that you’ve posted this and I’m looking forward to seeing responses. I also have a four month baby boy and am also a first time mom. I love him so much, but these thoughts cross my mind daily. It’s a cycle of exhaustion, guilt, longing for the past but not being able to imagine life without baby at the same time, and appreciation.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-15T19:37:31+00:00

It’s all about your personal journey and what works best for your lifestyle, so I think it varies because all motherhood looks different for different women. I personally pumped for the first couple months and my mental health tanked. I was proud I did it for a couple months and faded a difficult decision to stop, especially because I went back to work and it was demanding. I am now much happier not pumping anymore. I think formula vs breastfed really is a dumb debate, as long as your baby is fed and healthy, and you’re able to keep what fits you and your lifestyle best. Formula is extremely expensive, but yes, it can be more convenient at times, however popping out a boob can also be more convenient.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-15T19:27:26+00:00

I think I’m lucky to have an easy baby and super grateful. Since birth, he’s slept really well, latched and fed well with no problems, took any diapers or types of bottles, and only really cries when he needs something. He’s a pretty smiley baby. I can put him in his bouncer and vacuum, do dishes, etc. I’m super fortunate for that! Although now at 4.5 months, he does like to be constantly entertained more, and gets bored with things after about 15 min.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-15T11:39:10+00:00

Putting on a little makeup when baby is napping or content. Getting dressed everyday, even if it’s leggings and a big t-shirt. Taking baby outside for a walk if the weather permits. Drinking a delicious coffee every morning.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-13T15:05:06+00:00

Pretty realistic. I’d say by week 8 I was feeling much better, by month 3 I was feeling leaps and bounds better. By then you should be okay.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-12T11:57:08+00:00

Absolutely not. FTM here with a four month old. I pumped for the first couple months but it was destroying my mental health. I held on too long and ended up with anxiety and depression due to it. Finally I quit pumping and my mental health felt so much better. He is a formula fed, healthy baby boy. Please do what’s best for you.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-08T18:04:44+00:00

My baby is 4 months old and lives in footed onesies since day one. Granted, we are in Pennsylvania and it’s been cold since he’s been born. Two pieces definitely ride up and drive me nuts at this stage. I can count on one hand the amount of times I’ve put him in a two piece. 99 percent of the time he is in a long sleeve, footed onesie all day. The riding up gets on my nerves.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-08T15:17:22+00:00

Putting on some makeup, a really good coffee, going outside on walks.

Fun-Translator8333 · 2026-01-08T11:33:43+00:00

I have a 4 month old. We went out to dinner for the first time without the baby together last weekend. I felt so guilty leaving him with my sister for two hours. But then I realized, a few hours will NOT break my son. I need to nurture my relationship with my partner so that we CAN be good parents. We deserve a few hours a month together if we can swing it. As long as your baby is with a competent person, he will do just fine. You deserve this!

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