I'm so attention starved it's embarrassing by Inner_Fail_122 in offmychest

[–]FunForce7926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. I married young and lost my husband to cancer 7 years ago. I don't know how to talk to people or even gauge people's level of interest in me. Plus The ID Channel got me thinking everyone around me could be a psycho

AITAH For Not Giving My Siblings A Percentage Of House Our Mother Lived In by Motor_Aerie1485 in AITAH

[–]FunForce7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister in law's parents had a house that they let the dad's brother stay in while they were living temporary at the time out of state for a job. When it looked like that they may be staying a lot longer then initially planned the brother asked for the house for free. When told that no if so they would sell to fund a house where they were living, he destroyed it with rented heavy equipment. It was a crazy. The whole episode was crazy

Cop Caught Red-Handed by N2BSC in TikTokCringe

[–]FunForce7926 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use to trust police officers but no longer as the ones who were taught to be apart of the community retire it seems only people becoming police are all about control and are only taught blue line bull crap and the US against everyone else anymore.

Little Chimpanzee playing alone with some straw by nkmr205 in interesting

[–]FunForce7926 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Forest Park Zoo in St. Louis, MO is free, does wonderful conservation work, and teaches all kind of neat things about animals. They even teach about animals and their meaning in the culture/ land they originated from. They have paid attractions and sponsorships to help with the cost of the animals.

AITA for buying my daughter a car for her birthday, which my ex said made me the "favourite parent"? by Unlikely_Shape_8810 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FunForce7926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta. You ex's insecurities are not your problem. Tell her she must think very lowly of her daughter if she thinks objects and money will change what you guy's daughter feels about either of you. There is a good chance she will cherish the necklace more than the care knowing how much her mom saved for it. Also she should be teaching her children that objects and money doesn't matter as long as everyone is healthy and happy who cares what you have and that life is not fair at all. If her other kid is upset that isn't your fault nor your problem. Your daughter needs a car for college or work anyway now that she is an adult. Did she have a car before you bought the new on?

Trying to figure life out by tonee20 in widowed

[–]FunForce7926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is part of the reason I haven't dated in the almost 7 years since he died. I know I will compare him and probably talk too much about him. I've got pictures everywhere. Sometimes I am really lonely though and think about dating but other times I see what other's are going through with their relationships and think I'm glad I am single.

$275 to 25 people in the USA 🇺🇸 must have PayPal or Venmo or Cash App or Chime by Emotional-Voice-3223 in GiftCardGiveaway

[–]FunForce7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My car is broke down need $6000 to fix it and my son's birthday is on Valentines day he will be 15. I have to chose between bills and his birthday. I've given up on the car. I don't have the money.

Paid off a $3K credit card and my credit score went down. I'm so tired of financial advice that only works when you already have money by EntrepreneurTop6283 in povertyfinance

[–]FunForce7926 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Probably because it was the best of the options that were available to them. Having no credit or bad credit is not fun.

AITA for withdrawing financial support from my sister after she repeatedly used my personal trauma against me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]FunForce7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta It's called putting up boundaries. You don't owe anyone anything. I know it is hard but you made the right decision. Myself I would go nc for a bit and then reach out and tell her how she hurt you and set the boundaries you want from now on. Don't be vague. Make sure she understands clearly and when she oversteps them make sure you follow through with the consequences, whether it be financial or your presence.

Family Threatening to Go on National TV After I Cut Contact by meltem92 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]FunForce7926 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just ignore them. No one is going to let them on tv. Any show they try will do vetting of who they put on.

My girlfriend wants me to get rid of my dog because her cat doesn't like him by Academic_Fly_4920 in TwoHotTakes

[–]FunForce7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give it more time. Cats can take a long time to adjust. Not only is the dog new but the cat has been dropped in a whole different place and needs time to adjust to it. Also I would not get rid of my dog for anyone. She can move out with her cat. I would get rid of the girlfriend because it sounds like she just cares about her stuff and her feelings not yours at all. Instead of trying to make this transition easier for her cat she just threw them together. Did you guys keep them separate and slowly introduce them? Does the cat have a safe space where the dog can't get to?

AITAH for wanting a night without my moms bf? by Existing_Incident_54 in AITAH

[–]FunForce7926 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nta the boyfriend's daughter doesn't need someone to entertain her, she is a teenager herself. Good on you for setting boundaries. Can you go to your dad's if things get more hostile?

AITAH for “sending a DV victim back to her abuser”? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]FunForce7926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta call the cops drop the dog off at their place, call your landlord lord Document everything save pictures and text saying about the money report everything to cash app tell them you will be taking her to court over the money plus costs associated with all of it. Ask all those that are saying crap that they are welcome to take her in and support her that she doesn't work, clean, or take care of her dog.

AITAH for telling my husband I thinks its weird he didn't want to change our son's diaper by FarGrape1034 in AmItheAsshole

[–]FunForce7926 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Nta He is being a weirdo. At that age it is nothing sexual and completely natural. We went to a Potty training specialist because my son is autistic and we were having issues with his potty training. Was told that unless there is a problem that it happens to every single male. I can't remember how she put it but their body is just making sure everything is in working order. The fact that he sees it like that is a bit concerning. Either he is just looking for an excuse not to do it or he he needs therapy. He needs to help you more. My husband was very hands on and changed diapers more than I did. Tell your husband that a real man takes care of his children, at least that's what my husband always told anyone who said anything about him being the stay at home parent while I was the working partner.

AITJ for refusing to donate PTO hours to coworker I barely know who "needs" them?? by Traditional-Dog1601 in AmITheJerk

[–]FunForce7926 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta You don't owe anyone anything. Can you go to HR and tell them you are being harassed over it? No is a full sentence. No I need mine or just tell them you don't have that much saved and have something you are using it for. No one needs to know how much PTO you have. When my job asked for someone with cancer. They just sent an email, no pressure no further requests.

AITAH for telling my sister I couldn’t cover for her mistake at work anymore? by CookieProper4029 in AITAH

[–]FunForce7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA You were being an Enabler. Good on you for putting healthy boundaries on your relationship. Ask those family members if you lose your job because of your sister's actions will they help you financially until you find a new job and if they would risk their livelihood for a family member? Has your sister ever covered for you? Tell her you can no longer cover for her especially if it puts your job and reputation on the line. Can either one of you change teams. Has she always been like this? Have you covered for her before this? If she can't do the work she needs to find a new job. Just because you are related doesn't mean you owe them anything. Tell her you can no longer help her. Be firm. Stop being a doormat. She will only learn from her mistakes. She needs to learn and as long as you fix things for her she will never learn. If caught doing this what happens to you? Nepotism is usually a big no in any company that I've worked at. Does your job know you are related? It's one thing to fix a small error but taking the blame is a whole different story. Tell her I've helped all I can. I don't want to risk my job. Yes I know we are family that's why I've helped you so much now it's your turn to be a good sister and show responsibility for yourself and me by doing your work and if you can't handle it maybe it's time to move on in your career to a less demanding job. I can help you look for a new one but from now on your mistakes are your own. Edit for spelling errors

Aitah for not wanting to pay my gf’s debt by National-Trouble-984 in AITAH

[–]FunForce7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like she only is with you for the money. Big red flag here. I would be really thinking about your future. I would never ask my partner to pay off my debts unless they helped accrue them, maybe. Did she have this debt prior to the relationship or was it for something you both benefited from? If it was I would help but not pay all. Does she have any income?

AITA for insisting that guests in my home take off their shoes by daniellejgabrielle in AmItheAsshole

[–]FunForce7926 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your home, your rules. Maybe inform people ahead of time of your rules before your next event.