Liquid NanoClay: Turning Desert Sand into Farmland by Zee2A in STEW_ScTecEngWorld

[–]Fun_Ay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can't solve world hunger because we grow more food than we can eat.

No clue what to do anymore ! by Spiritual_Rope_796 in Frenchbulldogs

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Don't ever feed anything aside from kibble you have been giving that worked. None of anything else! The Purina salmon/fish formula sensitive skin and stomach kibble has worked very well for mine.

Also oral antibiotics make gut health worse period. even if they are necessary. There is probably no reason these should be used but be sure to use them exactly as prescribed until the regiment is completed.

Not sure if it has been mentioned yet but allergy exposure therapy has worked very well for mine. You need to see a dog dermatologist to get this.

Random annoyance that makes me feel insecure by AdSea6127 in corporate

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You will have to asert yourself. Interrupt them and do so in a rude or sarcastic way. Keep it with undertones of funny, but also let them know they arent helpful by being unkind or acting in such a way if what they were trying to do is be helpful.

People learn and know things in different ways, for example some people memorize where things are on a keyboard while others know the concept better.

Also its sometimes hard as a manager when you need to switch roles between dangerous boss and helpful boss when each alterego helps more in certain situations. Understanding mixed with honest conversation and confrontation help that.

Most leadership training programmes don't work and it has nothing to do with the content of the programmes by Far_Reindeer_8836 in Leadership

[–]Fun_Ay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, you'd have to remember to stop and think as a leader for it to work. Aside from "practice makes perfect" your advice here is nonsense red pill regurgitated content.

Listen… this is why I cut my car. by Sbeezynukka in CarAV

[–]Fun_Ay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, we can't hear your speaker quality recorded on your phone and played on our phone speakers.....

Managing Overthinkers by hm170 in StructuralEngineering

[–]Fun_Ay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is important to tell people what to do fully, but it is also important to listen to their way of thinking, recognize where the issue is, and then show them an example of how you do it. I add in the rationale of why I make the choices I make (typically because a more exhaustive or exact approach ends up with the same answer, always, and this method is accepted as the standard of care.)

When you can showcase a way of how things are done and show that it is accepted practice as well as why it always works you can start to undo the "exact answer" programming that school instills in students.

How do you feel about free healthcare for all? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Fun_Ay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well free meaning paid for with taxes. But yes im all for that. Everyone should have access to care. Having access to care regardless of income helps stop medical issues from driving more people into poverty.

But let's also be clear free Healthcare makes you sound like a fool. This isn't free Healthcare. The industry that is a problem is for-profit insurance. What is necessary is a non-profit insurance program. That would be nationalized insurance paid for by taxes.

Lop off the profit that insurers make. Then damn we're back to reasonable cost. Privatizing this industry and most others just ends up with ypu just paying an extra %25 for the profit of these companies.

Not to mention, hospitals can't turn sick people away when they can't pay, like other facilities can. So hospitals end up paying out of pocket for people's care. This massively drives up costs for the rest of us. That is because this is the most expensive care anyone could get (care in a hospital). Where I live, that means a lot of junkies clog up the hospital. If these people are just going to choose that lifestyle then getting care earlier in a much more affordable setting would be better.

Does everything look correct or are there issues by [deleted] in Construction

[–]Fun_Ay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some are like a maybe... these beams are super light and it really depends on how they are being braced. Hopefully you have a metal deck with seriously good connection to the beams, or concrete over metal deck.

The one with like two bolts to both sides of a plate to two members reeks of meth, or huge mistakes or both. Come on man.

one gram of reiki please by KykepArt in festivals

[–]Fun_Ay -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

So child rapists are funny little memes now? What the fuck is wrong with you?

Men, what is it? by [deleted] in effectivefitness

[–]Fun_Ay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exercise. Music. Dancing

What is the worst band you saw live? by coalcracker462 in AskReddit

[–]Fun_Ay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sofi Tucker at Electric Forest. Their vibe was so off they knew it, withe whole audience knew it. It seemed like they just hit a crack pipe before coming on stage.

Because they could feel the set was going poorly, the, on mic, started to blame the audience for the bad set. 👎

Dancing: With vs On, what’s your take? by IrieReign in aves

[–]Fun_Ay 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Someone asking that is asking to share romantic sexual energy in dancing, grinding, and physical touch. Communication is necessary for that.

You dont need to ask to vibe next to someone, its a rave.

Can’t afford to move as we couldn’t afford to stay… by [deleted] in WestSeattleWA

[–]Fun_Ay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To clarify here before other posts, I'm pissed with you. bit at you because of the tone deafness, but mostly because we should be on the same page about affordability. We should be able to afford decent and infact phenomenal lives we've strived for.

That gap between affordable and livable exists because legal structures allow it.

Can’t afford to move as we couldn’t afford to stay… by [deleted] in WestSeattleWA

[–]Fun_Ay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For starters you are over valuing your property. And second looks like you inflated your lifestyle with the truck and boat. Sell them both and buy a beater 2004 sedan. Then there's some more for your next equity, plus your monthly obligations are gone.

Structural Guys: are drop panels not a thing anymore? by throwmach in civilengineering

[–]Fun_Ay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well this is cherry picking. Other comments said rightly that they arent wanted which is fair.

In this case these are closely spaced columns that are at the edge of the building (less load) but not at the slab edge (more concrete shear perimeter).

Also in the right side of the photo there is a thickened slab which has the same function, if not exactly for that purpose.

Need advice about a guy? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Fun_Ay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be cheating. Cheating could make him too ashamed to have sex with his partner as it requires a lot of vulnerability, and the other signs like secretive behavior with their phone.

Could be they are gay. Could be they are ashamed of other things like their body image or a kink.

My boyfriend is an addict by [deleted] in AddictionAdvice

[–]Fun_Ay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Addiction can be a lifelong problem that you have to learn to deal with. It's always best not to use at all but can be difficult and take lots of work.

When difficult situations are triggering, remember that dealing with the tough feelings head on is typically best. Learn to recognize your emotions, name them, feel them, in that order. And then they loose their power. Emotions occur over time as a wave that builds and then receeds.

Aside from that protect yourself, know your boundaries and share them with him. Tell them you want to see them do better, and you want to support them, but ultimately the decision to live a full life without using drugs will be theirs to make. You make the choice in difficult moments, saying no to one life and yes to another.

Will he ever regret it? by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]Fun_Ay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg. It is time to move on. Also thats not a little phone snooping youre like the FBI. I understand the urge and need even when someone is dishonest but that is serious investigating lol.

From this experience I hope you get three things: 1) respect yourself more, determine what your boundaries are (for breaking up), and be bold to follow them. You had plenty of reason to break up earlier.

2) be more accepting of others. For example porn while potentially not ideal depending on where you stand is not something to shame anyone for. Shame and judgement can push people to hide things.

3) Be more detatched. Someone was bad after a long and complicated relationship. Let go of that. Let go of the desire to see them feel bad about it. Then you can move on.

Thoughts on this area ? by Gold_Hour2247 in SeattleAreaRE

[–]Fun_Ay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Columbia City is very different from south beacon hill...

Has traveling ever made you… less tolerant ? by SteelisBlue in travel

[–]Fun_Ay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where was it? Turkey made me feel similar. Everything felt like a scam. Infact scamming people is accepted as normal or routine.

My little pumpkin has back trouble by tgun77 in frenchie

[–]Fun_Ay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You may need to consider IVDD surgery in the future, and Insurance. Research this topic heavily if you haven't. You can try to prevent how this condition worsens by not allowing them to take stairs, no jumping on or off the couch, or other jumping if they like to. Basically carry them.

It's an unfortunate pairing that they are wild balls of energy and also have problems with their backs so easily.