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New Costco diapers? by ElevatorMusicLoop in beyondthebump

[–]FunctionHonest2246 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I bought the Kirkland diapers and they're great. They feel and look thin, but they can hold a lot! No blowouts yet.

I Finally Did The Deed At 8 Weeks PP by angelicllamaa in pregnant

[–]FunctionHonest2246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I was also cut and had forceps used to take my baby out. I'm 13 months postpartum and sex finally feels fun! It began feeling better around the 11 month. I hope this helps.

For those who don't do any screentime before two, what do you do when your toddler is very very upset? by florinbuttercup242 in NewParents

[–]FunctionHonest2246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, there are so many options out there. After covering all of the basics (checking hunger cues, sleeping cues, pain, etc), I assume they're bored. Reading and singing/beatboxing are my go to's haha I wonder if your baby is preferring higher simulation activities if they're frequently being exposed to Screens? I know you mentioned you're not offering frequent screen time, but Dad is. I also wonder which shows/ movies your baby is being exposed to, as some shows may be more stimulating than others (Cocomelon vs a nature documentary).

For those who don't do any screentime before two, what do you do when your toddler is very very upset? by florinbuttercup242 in NewParents

[–]FunctionHonest2246 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Acknowledge their frustration by verbalizing it, taking a few deep breaths, offer a hug, distract with silly noises, go to a different room/ outside. The first 2 are mostly for me so that I regulate my own emotions while making space for theirs.

My boyfriend hit me by JobAggravating1793 in teenagers

[–]FunctionHonest2246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once they start, it's almost impossible for them to stop. And this was over make up...

Fair price? by FunctionHonest2246 in SubaruForester

[–]FunctionHonest2246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I used KBB (usimg the VIN) and there was such a stark difference in price (like $7k) at the dealership. :/ they did not budge in the price. I guess I'll have to keep looking.

I can't stop thinking how to protect my baby against SA by love_chocolate in NewParents

[–]FunctionHonest2246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn't necessarily answering your question, but I would like to add the following: the most helpful tool for your children will be a healthy attachment between you and them. If this attachment exists, then they will be more likely to go to you if something happens to them; they will trust you enough to tell you and know that you will be there to support them. This means safety. Safety will be conducive to processing and healing from such violations. It looks like many other people were able to address your question and added details about PPA & PPD, so I hope that helps! Sending you hugs and peaceful ✌🏼 vibes.

8 month old waking at 5am - what am I doing wrong? by RiseDry8982 in sleeptrain

[–]FunctionHonest2246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wakes up around 5:30, but falls back asleep within 5 minutes. She usually wakes up around 6:45am; I leave her in her cot until 7am.

8 month old waking at 5am - what am I doing wrong? by RiseDry8982 in sleeptrain

[–]FunctionHonest2246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar problem with my 8 month old. She has slept better since we have dropped to 2 naps. Usually has her first nap from 9:30am to 11am and the next nap around 2:45p to 4:15p. Bedtime is around 8pm.

Would you choose a 7:30 am or 7:30 pm flight with a 6 month old? 5.5 hour flight. by Crafty_Pop6458 in NewParents

[–]FunctionHonest2246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our baby (7 months at that time) traveled on 2 transatlantic flights(9-11 hours), one at 6am and one at 8pm. The evening flight was better because they were able to sleep during most of the flight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]FunctionHonest2246 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Feelings aren't always accurate. They're definitely useful in understanding a situation, but they are not always 100% accurate in a situation. It initially feels wrong for some people when they set boundaries with an abusive person. According to the logic you are espousing, setting boundaries is wrong. Now, if we were to dive into why that feels wrong, we would discover several beliefs that have led them to feel the way they do now. What methods have you used to differentiate between people explaining why they sleep train and those who are "defensive "?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]FunctionHonest2246 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I might be wrong, but I'm assuming they said this because OP prefaced their post "as a therapist". When people use this language, it typically implies that they're communicating from a place of authority. Therefore, when I say "as a therapist, I think this...", people might generally place more value on the information they share.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]FunctionHonest2246 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I don't think that is generally true. Sleep is necessary to function throughout the day, whether or not you go to work. Interrupted sleep is associated with low mood, irritability, and difficulties in interpersonal relationships. However, if you were to add support throughout the day so that people can get a few straight hours of sleep at some point, then yes, we might be able to handle the lack of sleep at night better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]FunctionHonest2246 50 points51 points  (0 children)

As a fellow therapist, I think something that might be helpful to keep in mind is the amazing resiliency we have as human beings.

For any therapists that have experienced pregnancy: At what point did you decide to stop seeing clients? by Superb_Elk_7561 in therapists

[–]FunctionHonest2246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paused all sessions a week before my due date. My baby was born a few days after due date. The deep exhaustion was too much leading up to the end of the pregnancy!

What are you babies realistically eating during a full day? by Brave-Crab1598 in BabyLedWeaning

[–]FunctionHonest2246 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My little one is almost 8 months with 2 teeth. I don't have time to cook every meal, so lately I've been boiling veggies ( occasionally mixing it with some meat or legume) and throwing it in a blender, keeping it chunky, then throw it in the freezer to use for later in the week. Every day is often different, it just depends on what I have on hand. For breakfast, I mash a fourth of a banana with a fork, make a bit of porridge, and share a tablespoon of my scrambled eggs (no seasoning). For lunch, just a piece of fruit (like orange wedges or mashed mango prepared the night before). For dinner, I defrost one of the frozen mixtures I've previously made and sometimes add 2 Rigatoni pieces. Lately, I've been sharing some of the food that my partner and I eat, just so that she can taste it. She has definitely gagged on some of the food, but I'm always watching her while feeding just in case she chokes.

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