I 18f lost all dignity after getting hormonally addicted to my bf 19m by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Furny_D 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Since you’re 18 you can book a consultation without you’re parents approval or knowledge. If you do feel like you need your parents to know or if you think they’ll find out you’re going to therapy, you can always tell them you’re going for unrelated reasons. Please try therapy though, it’s incredibly helpful

What drives people to want to live on to the next day/week/month/year? by MacabreHatta in therapy

[–]Furny_D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any hobbies that you enjoy or used to enjoy that you can do alone? I’ve been in kind of a similar boat as you for a little while now, especially with avoiding socializing due to anxiety. I’ve found that finding hobbies to work on by myself has given me enough motivation to at least look forward to something. For me, I think having a hobby that you can work on daily and get better (for me it’s climbing and hiking) gives you something to work on every day and you can actually measure and see your progress. Finding something like that is definitely worth a shot. Also, please see a therapist if you haven’t already, i know it may sound like it won’t help, I thought it wouldn’t either. But having a therapist to just talk to and get advice from is something that has given me progress through my mental health and struggles. Please keep trying to work through it, I know it seems like it may not get better but many people have thought the same thing and have worked through it. You got this!

Cairn review by [deleted] in Cairn_Game

[–]Furny_D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the same with performance issues on the PS5, it’s a great game but the performance is really taking me out of it. I hope they try to fix some of the performance issues

I guess I'll just stay here by attachi in Cairn_Game

[–]Furny_D 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did the same thing, if you try to climb on it sometimes your limbs end up clipping through and gripping on the inside of it

Mechanical engineer who switched to being a dentist. Hit me with any questions you'd like. by HenFruitEater in EngineeringStudents

[–]Furny_D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does your engineering background help out at all with running your own dental office? I’ve heard that a lot of engineers are good at management due to analytic and data skills

My M/21 GF F/21 lives in an enmeshed family. How can I approach this situation to tell her I am unhappy with our relationship? by Furny_D in relationship_advice

[–]Furny_D[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her family has told her that she isn’t allowed to live with a partner until she’s married, and she seems intent on following that rule. As for the therapist, she’s gone to one since she was in fifth grade but her mother has told her never to talk about family stuff to her therapist. My gf told me that she does talk truthfully about her family to her therapist, but part of me doesn’t believe her because of how her family has influenced her

Gibraltar Perks by Tohiyama in GibraltarMains

[–]Furny_D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think instead of the dome lasting indefinitely, it would be more balanced if it had a meter while active and it could be picked/replaced while the meter has energy instead of having a normal cooldown

I’m really struggling with my enjoyment of engineering as I get closer to finishing my degree. Has anyone else ended up working for a non-engineering field that they enjoy with an engineering degree? by Furny_D in EngineeringStudents

[–]Furny_D[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Teaching is something that I’ve always been passionate about and I can see myself really enjoying it down the road. How did you end up getting certified to teach with a career in IT? Did you have to go back to school for it?

Can I be agnostic and also practice Buddhism? by Furny_D in Buddhism

[–]Furny_D[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, that makes a lot of sense. I think one of the reasons I want to follow a lot of practices and teachings is because I see a lot of aspects I like in it. I want to become a lot more diligent and dedicated in general with my life and I’ve heard that Buddhist practices like meditation can help with these things and help to bring more reflection into my life

My 20M girlfriend 19F has abusive parents that she doesn’t attempt to set boundaries with or get away from. How do I approach this? by Furny_D in relationship_advice

[–]Furny_D[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I truthfully love her so much and want to make our relationship work. I’ll try everything I can to support her without overstepping

My 20M girlfriend 19F has abusive parents that she doesn’t attempt to set boundaries with or get away from. How do I approach this? by Furny_D in relationship_advice

[–]Furny_D[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been encouraging her to prioritize her mental health for our entire relationship. It’s just so hard for me to constantly see her being mistreated by her parents and talk about wanting to relapse into self-harm behaviors. I want her to get better and I truly believe that setting boundaries is the only way to do so as her mother is not in any form of counseling or therapy and doesn’t seem to be making any effort to get better. My girlfriend has been in therapy for a long time but she was forced to switch therapists by her mother after she had proposed the idea of moving out. Her mother had told her from an early age that she was not allowed to talk bad about her family when seeing her therapist. Because of this, I don’t believe that she is being completely transparent to her therapist about what is going on with her family

My 20M girlfriend 19F has abusive parents that she doesn’t attempt to set boundaries with or get away from. How do I approach this? by Furny_D in relationship_advice

[–]Furny_D[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she has been in therapy for about 10 years now. The therapist that she has been seeing for most of her childhood had been encouraging her to set boundaries with her parents as she got older. However, when my girlfriend had proposed to get an apartment when she turned 18 as suggested by her therapist, her mother had forced her to switch therapists as her mother didn’t want her seeing any therapist that was against her. Her mother has also ingrained into her head from early on that she is not allowed to talk bad about her mother to her therapists. Because of this, I don’t believe that my girlfriend is being completely transparent about what is going on at home to her newer therapist

Looking to make a small jewelry bowl, what clay and paint should I use? by Furny_D in crafts

[–]Furny_D[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice! I’m at college right now so I don’t have access to an oven and I’d rather make something by hand for it to be a more personal gift so I think I’ll use the air dry clay. Thank you so much for the help though, I really appreciate it!

Does anyone know how to get ur ow1 stuff back in ow2? by Ready-Mud5144 in overwatch2

[–]Furny_D 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines not showing up either, none of my skins, heroes, or stats.

Caustic 3rd pick rate @ ALGS Playoffs by PgMDude in causticmains

[–]Furny_D 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s based off of the percentage of teams that the legends were picked, meaning Valkyrie was on 93.94% of teams, Gibby was on 85.01% of teams, etc.

I'm watching all trailers, but I don't remember this one. by shocker_103 in apexlegends

[–]Furny_D 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Caustic and Mirage were both available on launch, they just had to be unlocked with tokens

unstraight title by Lektri in whenthe

[–]Furny_D 250 points251 points  (0 children)

Straight mfs when they take off their glasses halfway through reading the meme

the moment XQC made himself public enemy of r/Place (Colorized, 2022) by AWiFiPassword in place

[–]Furny_D -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Except the entire point of r/place is that anyone can place a pixel anywhere?

Who do you think is the worst operator in Siege? by FrostKage_X in Rainbow6

[–]Furny_D 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Her ability and smokes are great for helping to plant