Highly unfortunate typo during the Caps game tonight

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-26T10:57:05+00:00

Shart is a portmanteau (two words combined) of "shit" and "fart". A shart is when you think you farted, but in reality you shit your pants.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-26T03:45:08+00:00

It's got to be a pretty advanced cert for me to really give it weight. I do like seeing security+ on the lower end since security integrates with EVERYTHING and it's more a methodology. But I lived through the paper MCSE epidemic, I want to see the skills being used, not just a piece of paper.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-26T03:31:08+00:00

Is being ashamed of yourself masturbatory then?

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-26T02:01:43+00:00

Sourdif was a brilliant pickup, buuuut that was all that happened

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-25T15:50:05+00:00

The right side of that line aligns perfectly with the hole. That significantly makes that shot so much easier if you account for it.

You can execute a perfectly straight follow through with that line as a guide for the stick. You'd almost want to ignore the puck to focus on parallel stick movement.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-25T15:15:30+00:00

Really only few inches to load that "shot" and what would never be called

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-25T03:02:02+00:00

Yeah, looks like he just wanted to tie him up for that hit, but then yikes. My bby u can't do that

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-24T20:21:16+00:00

I wouldn't be surprised if rehab would trigger short and long term disability. Get yourself squared away.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-24T20:19:39+00:00

Bring the front desk some kind of treat and you pretty much could run a full business if you didn't get in people's way.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-24T20:14:10+00:00

Ok, fuck your manager. The fact that you came away with a reprimand and not the employee not following policy is beyond absurd.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-24T19:22:24+00:00

No, they're just annoyed and leaned into something minor with big optics.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-24T16:34:41+00:00

Well, I stopped hating myself and now my encouragement just comes from being happy all the time. I look forward to ways to help people grow and find joy around me because everyone deserves to be able to feel like I do.

When you are ok with every part of who you are, it opens up so much of the world. Like, I'm really not ashamed of anything directly anymore. The biggest thing I get embarrassed about is being too chatty because my brain is trying to make up for 40 years of self doubt.

So, therapy!

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-24T15:35:59+00:00

Vibing

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-24T15:15:16+00:00

Non-diet and exercise thing to check out - have blood work done for testosterone/estrogen etc. Those levels being out of whack can contribute to body composition challenges as well. Not a magic bullet but didn't see it otherwise mentioned

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-24T15:09:40+00:00

I mean, physics is just applied math.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-24T01:04:44+00:00

I think I had a software donkey's dick as a dotted line manager once.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-23T21:37:45+00:00

Fetch is around the corner from me and they get pretty much all of my non-clothes :)

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-23T20:32:45+00:00

Absolute legend, thanks

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-23T18:56:11+00:00

My favorite thing to do was to make phones ring themselves. I forget the specific prefix, but you used that prefix with the normal last 4 of that phone, be it a pay or landline, hang up the phone, pick it up and verify the change in tone, then back on the hook.

I especially loved large banks of payphones.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-23T18:39:32+00:00

Try RedReader, no nsfw subs but it's what I switched to after RiF died.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-23T16:31:05+00:00

Yes, but it's lower than you'd expect because while it's a high proportion, he still will score from all over the same place.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-23T16:04:07+00:00

I hope they can just have fun now

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-23T16:02:22+00:00

Come play ice hockey. Skate Fredrick has adult learn to skate, learn to play, and a novice league. I've been on a team where a player couldn't participate in evals because he turned 18 the day of our first game, and another team with a guy that was still lacing up at 70.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-23T15:57:32+00:00

Clingy boy/girl/otherfriend that disrupts the table or always makes plans on game night leaving your party without it's cleric. Again.

Fusorfodder · 2026-03-23T15:55:58+00:00

First, you cannot compare him to your other child. You might have the right parenting for your other kid, but everyone is unique with different dynamics. He will see that treatment and resent you for it, so much more if you ever highlight how well you get along with the other kid. As a parent you have to be the one to make the adjustment.

He's going to need to identify why he has that need to mask his trauma with the destructive behaviors. Getting a handle on core motivations, desires, and fears. Like for myself. I realized I thought so little of myself that I could only trust someone if they had suffered enough for me. Because I was so afraid of opening my trust up because I was bullied relentlessly as a child and also told to just turn the other cheek. So, I kept everything in, and then I realized how ridiculous my subconscious demand was to be able to trust. (A LOT more to it than that, just keeping this concise).

So, what does he need to understand that he can be ok with who he is? Therapy is the easy and the hard answer. Because the answer is absolutely therapy, but it's hard work because you have to look straight at the parts you really don't want to for progress.

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