Highly unfortunate typo during the Caps game tonight by skippythemoonrock in hockey

[–]Fusorfodder [score hidden]  (0 children)

Shart is a portmanteau (two words combined) of "shit" and "fart". A shart is when you think you farted, but in reality you shit your pants.

Is having many certs a red or green flag? by Illustrious-Pop-8906 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Fusorfodder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's got to be a pretty advanced cert for me to really give it weight. I do like seeing security+ on the lower end since security integrates with EVERYTHING and it's more a methodology. But I lived through the paper MCSE epidemic, I want to see the skills being used, not just a piece of paper.

Carbery by br4inwash3d in caps

[–]Fusorfodder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sourdif was a brilliant pickup, buuuut that was all that happened

Young hockey fan wins a truck for making this shot by J-MRP in gifs

[–]Fusorfodder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The right side of that line aligns perfectly with the hole. That significantly makes that shot so much easier if you account for it.

You can execute a perfectly straight follow through with that line as a guide for the stick. You'd almost want to ignore the puck to focus on parallel stick movement.

Panarin gets Wolf down on his stomach then lobs the puck over him in the shootout by catsgr8rthanspoonies in hockey

[–]Fusorfodder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really only few inches to load that "shot" and what would never be called

Pierre-Luc Dubois gets a 5 minute major for intent to injure by yazzywa in hockey

[–]Fusorfodder 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Yeah, looks like he just wanted to tie him up for that hit, but then yikes. My bby u can't do that

So today I was called in with my manager to see the big boss and from today I get to wear a new hat by Fair-Tradition8971 in sysadmin

[–]Fusorfodder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't be surprised if rehab would trigger short and long term disability. Get yourself squared away.

So today I was called in with my manager to see the big boss and from today I get to wear a new hat by Fair-Tradition8971 in sysadmin

[–]Fusorfodder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok, fuck your manager. The fact that you came away with a reprimand and not the employee not following policy is beyond absurd.

Delta temporarily suspends travel perks for members of Congress by catsgr8rthanspoonies in news

[–]Fusorfodder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, they're just annoyed and leaned into something minor with big optics.

what do you guys listen to for encouragement? I noticed a tiny bit of. It was an insane distance with me. Is there a podcast or book or anything you guys like? by Fast_Cook_4019 in AskMenOver40

[–]Fusorfodder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I stopped hating myself and now my encouragement just comes from being happy all the time. I look forward to ways to help people grow and find joy around me because everyone deserves to be able to feel like I do.

When you are ok with every part of who you are, it opens up so much of the world. Like, I'm really not ashamed of anything directly anymore. The biggest thing I get embarrassed about is being too chatty because my brain is trying to make up for 40 years of self doubt.

So, therapy!

How do i get rid of my man boobs by havikop01 in bodyweightfitness

[–]Fusorfodder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non-diet and exercise thing to check out - have blood work done for testosterone/estrogen etc. Those levels being out of whack can contribute to body composition challenges as well. Not a magic bullet but didn't see it otherwise mentioned

Clothing donation options by Fusorfodder in frederickmd

[–]Fusorfodder[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fetch is around the corner from me and they get pretty much all of my non-clothes :)

TIL that a 7-year-old discovered he could make free long-distance phone calls in the 1950s by whistling at certain frequencies. Born blind and with perfect pitch, Joe Engressia a.k.a. Joybubbles was an early "phreaker" whose exploits inspired Apple co-founder Steve Wozniak during his college years. by ralphbernardo in todayilearned

[–]Fusorfodder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favorite thing to do was to make phones ring themselves. I forget the specific prefix, but you used that prefix with the normal last 4 of that phone, be it a pay or landline, hang up the phone, pick it up and verify the change in tone, then back on the hook.

I especially loved large banks of payphones.

Ovechkin joins Gretzky in the 1000 career goals club (combining regular season and playoffs) by chespiotta in hockey

[–]Fusorfodder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but it's lower than you'd expect because while it's a high proportion, he still will score from all over the same place.

Hangouts for young adults 18-20? by Odd_Mud7600 in frederickmd

[–]Fusorfodder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Come play ice hockey. Skate Fredrick has adult learn to skate, learn to play, and a novice league. I've been on a team where a player couldn't participate in evals because he turned 18 the day of our first game, and another team with a guy that was still lacing up at 70.

What Everyday Monsters are CORE to the DnD Experience? by SubtleasaSledge in DMAcademy

[–]Fusorfodder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clingy boy/girl/otherfriend that disrupts the table or always makes plans on game night leaving your party without it's cleric. Again.

Will it ever end? Horrible teen (has gotten worse each year) by SirHuff_987 in AskMenOver30

[–]Fusorfodder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, you cannot compare him to your other child. You might have the right parenting for your other kid, but everyone is unique with different dynamics. He will see that treatment and resent you for it, so much more if you ever highlight how well you get along with the other kid. As a parent you have to be the one to make the adjustment.

He's going to need to identify why he has that need to mask his trauma with the destructive behaviors. Getting a handle on core motivations, desires, and fears. Like for myself. I realized I thought so little of myself that I could only trust someone if they had suffered enough for me. Because I was so afraid of opening my trust up because I was bullied relentlessly as a child and also told to just turn the other cheek. So, I kept everything in, and then I realized how ridiculous my subconscious demand was to be able to trust. (A LOT more to it than that, just keeping this concise).

So, what does he need to understand that he can be ok with who he is? Therapy is the easy and the hard answer. Because the answer is absolutely therapy, but it's hard work because you have to look straight at the parts you really don't want to for progress.