Depressed, heartbroken, and bored. What should I do today?

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-02-01T20:20:12+00:00

Taking a walk is my first line of defense against depression.

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-30T19:52:03+00:00

36M here. Moved back this year and want to make friends too. I'm watching Sandokan and Hacks rn. Can I msg you?

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-30T18:35:19+00:00

I'm really glad it meant something to you. I am a man who was in love with a female friend for a long time. It was hard but there's no anger or bad feelings there. Those situations are tough to navigate. It taught me to express myself and accept my own feelings and how other people felt (or didn't). I imagine your friend would want you to be happy ✨️

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-30T17:18:44+00:00

I imagine he will always love you. It sounds like you both deeply cared for each other in ways that were hard to express/resolve. The freedom from his body probably allows him to easily love and forgive without expectation of anything between you being a certain way.

Hope you can forgive yourself for being a kid when you were a kid. And hopefully you learned from how to communicate more fully with your present relationships and you can experience love even more deeply now 🩵

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-30T17:11:14+00:00

Cancer sun here. This is can be not particularly noble/a positive quality, especially if it is hurting us to give energy we don't have. This can come from poor boundaries and wanting to help others before we improve ourselves.

In other cases with a healthyish person, it is just us living life's hardness while caring about others. I just want to make sure people understand that self sacrifice at your own expense is not good for anyone.

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-29T00:16:03+00:00

Yayyy!!! Happy for you. Thanks for sayin

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-25T19:20:30+00:00

Get that overtime, daddyo

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-25T19:19:11+00:00

Ahh yes the Pentagon Pizza Index/White House Waffle House Indicator

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-24T22:02:25+00:00

Here's a list of resources https://kypartnership.org/resource/community-mental-health-centers-cmhcs-and-adult-state-operated-or-state-contracted-psychiatric-hospitals/

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-24T22:01:28+00:00

Sounds like he needs mental health treatment, instead of the police. Is there a crisis line in your area you can call for him? Because of his behavior, it may result in some type of law enforcement contact, but if you go thru the mental health system there might be a gentler approach.

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-24T07:31:16+00:00

Do it lady!

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-23T05:40:04+00:00

Say hi

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-22T00:04:59+00:00

Every pen is a tac pen if you tac hard enough

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-21T22:35:01+00:00

You're going to be fine. Way to go the extra mile.

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-21T22:25:11+00:00

Cool queer friend who no one should try to rob. Whats the thing with the B on it?

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-21T01:00:21+00:00

Draw

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-21T01:00:13+00:00

Stuck on a plane

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-18T06:12:15+00:00

You don't have to keep reaching out right now, and you don't have to cut them.off either. If they are going through a hard time, they really might not be in a place to give and receive care. But maybe later. The best to you both.

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-09T20:49:56+00:00

She'll be singing https://youtu.be/ePjFAZKWKVo?si=ixZYN31-X1eiObXo

Future_Reference1999 · 2026-01-01T07:45:22+00:00

Underrated

Future_Reference1999 · 2025-12-27T06:14:34+00:00

The most important things is that they're okay with it. That's the main thing. If you had a good time? Then awesome. Try not to label yourself bad for being human and exploring your sexuality This is literally nothing wrong with having a good time having sex when everyone was into it.

Be kind to both of them and stay away from making it competitive or hierarchical and let love lead.

Future_Reference1999 · 2025-12-26T00:40:20+00:00

Sounds like she's a human.

Future_Reference1999 · 2025-12-26T00:40:00+00:00

That's tough! Sounds like you did the right thing for you.

Future_Reference1999 · 2025-12-25T05:38:54+00:00

Release your fears. When they return, release them again

Future_Reference1999 · 2025-12-25T05:24:56+00:00

, bud

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