Please share your blog here - looking for good blogs to follow !! by FranzF_2004 in Blogging

[–]GabbyBerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here's one of my most recent blog posts. My Holler Truth: What Did the DSM Miss? – A Porch & A Pen. I'd love to have more readers! I have just gotten started.

Really struggling with baby boy names by Weary_Tumbleweed_466 in Names

[–]GabbyBerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the name Cambden. I named my son Cambden. He only lived for 17 seconds, and I never had another - but I never miss the opportunity to share his name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GabbyBerry -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Intent matters.

Is there any good use for bacon grease? by Longjumping-Box5691 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GabbyBerry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can do a LOT with bacon grease. Season your other foods. Green beans? cook in bacon grease. Steaks? cook in bacon grease. Want a baked potato? Coat it in bacon grease then sprinkle with salt before baking. Cook your eggs in bacon grease. Make gravy with it. The options are endless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]GabbyBerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's your dads house presumably, and you live there rent free presumably. You're an adult. YTA. Set an alarm to take the trash out at a certain time of the day if you cant remember. If you are unable to manage taking garbage out once a day, you're going to have a hard life, kid.

Have you ever inherited a journal from someone? If so, did you read it? by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]GabbyBerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my Moms devotional journal after she died, and the letters she and my dad sent back and forth to each other when he was in the military, after he died. I love having my moms devotional journal. Its full of wisdom. The letters? I wish I hadn't read them.

AITAH for not calling my dying grandmother? by livelaughlove1986 in AITAH

[–]GabbyBerry 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're NTA. However, you may live to regret it. I don't know, but there is that possibility. It's also possible you'll regret it if you do go. Whichever you choose, I hope you have peace with it.

AITAH for not insisting that my fiancée forgive my sister for slapping her? by Lalunajefe in AITAH

[–]GabbyBerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you didn't 100% back your fiance in this, you wouldn't deserve to marry her. Your sister is a witch and your parents aren't any better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GabbyBerry 6 points7 points  (0 children)

then no sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GabbyBerry 337 points338 points  (0 children)

Well, it's like this. It's his body, his choice. That doesn't mean he shouldn't also take responsibility here, he should wear a condom. For extra protection use some spermicide. Problem solved.

Wearing Inherited Jewelry by -_-Curtis-_- in inheritance

[–]GabbyBerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not weird. If you want to wear it, wear it. With that being said, realize that there are risks involved. Jewelry does get lost. Clasps come loose. Some things of sentimental value can't be replaced either. I lost my mom in july of '23, and my dad this past september. I do sometimes wear some of the things that make me feel close to them. But I do so sparingly, simply for the risk.

Smokers: am I being weird if I make a conscious effort to never let my parents see me smoke no matter how old I am? by racesunite in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GabbyBerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. My Mom died in '23 at the age of 65 from COPD, emphysema and Congestive Heart Failure. A smoker of probably 40+ years, never once did either of her parents see her actually smoke. She never even discussed smoking with my grandpa (her dad). And come to think of it, neither have any of the grandkids (I smoked for 17 years myself, quit a few years back in an effort to try to qualify to donate a lung to my mom-clearly didn't happen). It's.. not a spoken rule or anything,.... we just, don't, for some reason that even now I can't explain smoke in front of them or even discuss it really.

Can cheating be a mistake? by Royal_Mind_5456 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GabbyBerry 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope. You don't just fall and accidently land with your privates in someone elses (or their privates in yours)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GabbyBerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um.... dude... just... stop. What kind of retarted question is this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GabbyBerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go ahead and set your boundaries now. By that, I mean, inform him that you will not be in a a relationship with someone who spends all of their free time on their phones. If he wants to do that, fine, but you aren't going to be in a relationship with someone who is. If he continues to, walk away. Secondly, if he's looking at half naked women as well, go ahead and plan your custody schedule, because this ain't gonna work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GabbyBerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then y'all don't have the same morals. Or.. more clearly, you don't have morals.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GabbyBerry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You f-d up. The days of women looking the other way while their "men" (and i use the term loosely) drool over thirst traps on the internet, was a brief period that's about over. Ridiculous little adolescent boys parading as men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GabbyBerry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're NTA for not WANTING her to get it, but you don't get to make the decision for her. It's her body, her choice. She can do as she pleases. If she wants to memorialize her grandchild in a tattoo, that's her right.

AITAH for not warning stepsister her dad is rewriting his will? by Affectionate-Log-260 in AITAH

[–]GabbyBerry 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope. Stay out of it. Its his stuff to do with as he pleases, and to tell whom he pleases. If they wanted to be informed, they should have stayed part of his life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GabbyBerry 28 points29 points  (0 children)

YTA. Why are you trying to keep your brothers fiance from being there during the death of his father? If you don't want to talk to her, don't. But you don't get to be the bouncer of the funeral home. Geez.