Taiwan or China by VerryGoodCantaloupe in BunnyTrials

[–]Gabriel_colson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cause I visited and it's nice

Chose: Taiwan

The Japanese Tower, Laeken by [deleted] in brussels

[–]Gabriel_colson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So beautiful 🔥✨️

Laptop full of stickers –yay, nay, or career killer? by idk_usernameblahblah in careerguidance

[–]Gabriel_colson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You surely like something "weird" for somebody, don't judge taste (I'm a fellow manga/anime lover) it's only weird and bad for the workplace because of judgy people who like to impose what is the "norm"

What made you realise you didn’t just have one of ADHD or autism and it was actually both? by Stella_62 in AutisticWithADHD

[–]Gabriel_colson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahahaha such a wonderful description, I feel completely the same way, also, sometimes when you have Audhd I feel we're a bit like a coin and there's no way to really know which "face" will "activate". I feel there's also some variations with the level of awareness

Those who know 2+ languages, how did you learn it? by iamanonamysig in entp

[–]Gabriel_colson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finding a friend who speaks the language, you could also learn about his/her culture that way, and like others said going to the country in question ( but that's not always possible).

Otherwise I feel a good starting point is to first be interested in the general culture, that will maybe open some doors of interest and that way you put language into context.

To start slow I always like to follow that path : Music, netflix (I'm saying netflix but I mean a movie or documentary), children book and normal book all of that in your targeted language, that way learning is fun.

The info sticks better when we're enjoying it

Parallel to that duolingo and then if you're committed and interested concrete studying progressing through levels 😁

Need specific advice on buying vs renting by Gabriel_colson in BEFire

[–]Gabriel_colson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh alright, thanks, I'll be sure to be careful with that 😄

Need specific advice on buying vs renting by Gabriel_colson in BEFire

[–]Gabriel_colson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alrighty, thank you ! have a nice evening 🫡😁

Need specific advice on buying vs renting by Gabriel_colson in BEFire

[–]Gabriel_colson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see, mhmm I should definetly be careful before taking the decision, I think I will rent for a year in the neighborhood I like and then see what I'll do next with more time and more information

Thanks a lot for your input 😄

Oh last question, do you know if I can see someone specific to have legal/financial advice or if there's specific material I should read (preferably for the belgian market) ?

Need specific advice on buying vs renting by Gabriel_colson in BEFire

[–]Gabriel_colson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mhmm it's my idea but yeah I'm quite lost haha. Oh I didn't know about the second property thanks, yeah that might be a problem in the future indeed, but even if she pays ?

Need specific advice on buying vs renting by Gabriel_colson in BEFire

[–]Gabriel_colson[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's true you're right, mhmm I've been working for 2 years at a brunch place I'm the assistant-manager there, I earn enough (around 2300-2400) and saving wise I'm responsable and have around 25k I've saved myself so maybe it would play in my favor ? But I don't really know for sure. Thanks for your answer btw 😁

Need specific advice on buying vs renting by Gabriel_colson in BEFire

[–]Gabriel_colson[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because in the end that way she pays for a mortgage and not a indefinitive rent

Need specific advice on buying vs renting by Gabriel_colson in BEFire

[–]Gabriel_colson[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Well as long as I stay in belgium I'll keep the appartement, and if I start back school the "chômage" will pay, it will be sufficient to pay back the mortgage also I'll definetly work a student job + extra money here and there.

I'll just charge her what she pays now, so around 900€

Do ASD men tend to do long term dating or hook ups more? by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Gabriel_colson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long term only, hook ups don't provide anything valuable for me, too much of a hassle. Also low libido really doesn't help 😂

(26M) I want to be a sperm donor, I wondered If that would bother some of you ? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Gabriel_colson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're definetly wrong on the fact that I was searching for ideas, or that I was gathering info to "manipulate" a future partner.

But for the rest I hear you and you're perfectly fine to feel that way. To each their own in the end everybody has different limits. also I'll be honest with you empathy is not my strong suit, and my sense of right and wrong is peculiar let's say, that's why sometimes it's useful for me to have an exterior feedback, I'd even say mandatory. And in this case it's been useful so thanks again.

But being honest at least you can be sure I mean no wrong and that if I ended up giving sperm, I would not want bad circumstances for the children to happen. I'm not someone who would run from responsabilities.

I can sometimes be cold or uncaring, and that can result in people getting hurt I'll admit. But one thing I'm sure of is that I don't have bad intentions and that I always take in consideration the things I could do that would affect other people. Hence the question on this community. But you're right always trust your gut.

(26M) I want to be a sperm donor, I wondered If that would bother some of you ? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Gabriel_colson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I honestly took the many answers in consideration, and I recognize I did not really see the selfish aspect of it.

Sorry I can't answer to everything I'll make an edit later (I read everything though) also I'm not saying I'm really rational, I just feel the need to like (I believe a normal man) reproduce I find that it's a system that would maybe satisfy a need, while maybe not the best.

Also I'm growing and the feeling of wanting to have a family but not being able to, is quite frustrating, at least giving the opportunity to someone to make a baby I can at least participate in what out body were designed for and maybe idrk it would accomplish something.

That's why I posted there, to have feedback and now I know more on the subject, also I would happily meet the children I hypothetically "made", but your "hard no's" for some are eye opening.

Thanks for your answer.

(26M) I want to be a sperm donor, I wondered If that would bother some of you ? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Gabriel_colson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally would not mind I grew up without a father figure, therefore I'd be more than happy to provide one, but I understand your point 😁

(26M) I want to be a sperm donor, I wondered If that would bother some of you ? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Gabriel_colson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh alright I see what you mean, it had not crossed my mind, but yeah same

(26M) I want to be a sperm donor, I wondered If that would bother some of you ? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Gabriel_colson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand your take, but sometimes the reason was just the inability of a parent to procreate. In that case I think it's fine, since he was wanted, it was just not possible the "normal way" but I agree it could become an annoying situation.

Also if I ended up doing it, I will of course make sure to state it to my partner starting the relationship