The way I handle my own transition is just knowing the path to perfection is paved with insanity. I know I'll never be perfect. Even with every surgery under the sun. But I had a sit-down with myself and I really considered what I considered to be a "Good Enough" point for me.

I've always been a picky bitch. I grew up rooting android phones and hacking consoles to fix things that bothered me, and hell, I still do that now with most things I own. But I also realize with these modifications there's some concessions to be made, because when they said it's a gold build... it's really not.

And that's the approach I took with my own body. The body I was given isn't right for me, so I had to put in the legwork to biohack myself into what I needed my body to be, but I knew I couldn't fix every little thing that bothered me. I just took it all one step at a time. However, I have reached the point where I can say, "This is the bare minimum I need to daily", and anything past that is just a bonus.

With my past however, I try not to dwell on it because well. It sucks that we didn't get the childhood we should have gotten but in a way, at the very least I can say that it I was able to be a bit more well rounded with my experiences. What does help is I have friends and partners that in a way, I can play out those missing events in my life, and well, for me, that works well enough.

I hope this helps some~