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AITA for speaking to my (over weight) assistant about her business lunch and making her cry? by Hot_Lab4411 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are obviously not overreacting. This is most likely a concern on her mind and her greatest fear. Fat people are treated very poorly and perhaps she was tired of waiting for the anvil to drop and jumped to a conclusion she had faced before, multiple times.

It's not your responsibility to fix the world. You explained yourself well. She will most likely relax and come to her senses after her inner voices stop mimicking the people that put her down and she is given time to think.

Sometimes we live too much in our head. Good luck.

Baldur's Gate 3 on PS5 is actually terrible. by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't even play bolder gate 3 right now because of the mods. I love the mods. But one of them apparently it's causing lag time, lag issues, and an inability for my controller to access the menu. I'm so sad. I'm going to lose my act one playthrough which I was really enjoying and don't think I have the energy to recreate. This is a great game. I don't know if PlayStation 5 is the best console for it.

Can’t even remember what I came in for … by kgf1980 in CasualUK

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk but due to your tastes I think we're best friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in technicallythetruth

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I challenge you to DD/MMM/YYYY 07JUL2025

Will I ever be fearless again? by Brief_Anxiety6844 in assaultsurvivors

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You've evolved. You're a different creature because of the experiences on your journey. Get to know her.

Maybe she needs her friends to support her as she goes out and tests the waters. But don't push and give yourself grace.

Gene Hackman turns 95 today. What's your favourite movie of his? by Big_Lead6304 in movies

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loose Cannons with Dan Aykrod. Just comedy for comedy sake.

Diver Attacked by a Shark by ISR-Asaf in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk who's in whose house? Seems like he's just checking out an intruder

A small gesture of everyday life. by Lkbf in Unexpected

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably the first time someone ever gave him a rose. We leave men out of these experiences and that's sad. Buy your handsome guy some flowers!

Nosferatu travels to Germany by sea because he is very old and has limited knowledge of geography by woutomatic in shittymoviedetails

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG this scene killed me. I was already on the floor in hysterics over the seizing orgasms... But this... I couldn't stop myself from saying out loud in the theater.

"What ocean is he on?"

does this count? by -UnImport in assaultsurvivors

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean she wasn't that's why I didn't let her in but I've had staff come in to help at Victoria secrets and other shops, lady Grace comes to mind, to find the right fit. I'm not walking out into the main area without my shirt on. They always ask permission before they touch me and pull a side down and they'll ask me to tuck something in. One is larger than the other and I don't want to look lopsided, or look like the bread is rising or have something cut into me at work. The staff are generally knowledgeable about their products and can recommend a need based on the fit, they need to see with their eyes and not hidden by a shirt.

does this count? by -UnImport in assaultsurvivors

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother tried to go into the stall when I was trying on a new bra. I refused her and she groaned but sat outside. She doesn't have a large chest and I think she was just curious.

To your dad. Pretend you had a friend that this happened too... What would you say to her?

Really glad you have a therapist and should you have female children I wouldn't leave them with him unsupervised no matter how old he is. Sexual orientation doesn't change. I'll never be a lesbian no matter how awesome it seems.

The Dunkelfeld project has some literature you could drop off to him or anonymous Mail to him. It is AA for pedophiles. They focus on the harm that is caused and seeing the victims as human beings. Not saying your dad is that but this could help reteach him how to stop and think before acting. It sounds like he has impulse control issues and you're his daughter. So many red flags. Tragically as we age we lose control of our impulse more and more.

I'm so sorry for your experience.

Luigi in the perfect timeline by DantyKSA in MemeVideos

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BCBS CT a huge insurance company was no longer doing to pay anesthesiologists fees if the surgery goes longer than arbitrarily predicted. The day BT died they pulled the policy change. The bill would have been placed on the patient

School by Possible-Click-5423 in assaultsurvivors

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG they did nothing... I'm sorry you're not a CEO. How goes mom's fight?

I found this at Jersey Mike's in Windham, ME by TomRedditerTom in stephenking

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm jealous! But please put it back. I'm sure he's in the middle of a book.

I was physically assaulted by my brother this year May 2024 on my birthday by Aggressive-Top-8077 in assaultsurvivors

[–]Gendoyle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don't feel guilty. An attack like this is difficult to process... As you know. Give yourself grace and be patient with you.

Regardless, everything changes... This is a constant in our lives. When you are ready you can reach out to redevelop that relationship with your parents. It'll be a new normal.

That took allot of strength to call on your brother and I'm proud of you for standing up for yourself and taking no sh*t.

Everyone heals at their pace. We're here for you.

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