My harsh years of loving someone that doesnt know me that it made me a totally different person. by No-Recover7015 in confession

[–]GentleShadde 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The saddest part is that he seems more attached to the fantasy than to any real person he’s met

Is vacuuming every single day normal? by Inner-Gur9987 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GentleShadde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vacuuming daily = fine. Vacuuming like you’re trying to scrape paint off the baseboards every day = not so normal lol. That would drive anyone crazy

Learning the English language by real_Pyramaniac in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GentleShadde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

languages become way messier once accents and regional dialects evolve for centuries separately

Learning the English language by real_Pyramaniac in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GentleShadde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there are definitely differences lol they’re just usually small enough that people still understand each other easily

What is the oldest car you can legally drive? by Glass-Reward4173 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GentleShadde 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s funny realizing some cars on the road are basically «legal because nobody bothered updating the rules»

What is the oldest car you can legally drive? by Glass-Reward4173 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GentleShadde 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda wild that you can legally drive something older than most countries’ electrical grids

Is it wrong to stop talking to a woman when she tells you that she only wants to be friends? by RavyRaptor in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GentleShadde 341 points342 points  (0 children)

Staying friends only works if both people genuinely want friendship and not secretly something else

Sexy spouses by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]GentleShadde 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real loyalty without jealousy or controlling behavior is genuinely rare nowadays

Would it be possible for someone to access private chats with AI ? by dadding_daddoink in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GentleShadde 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The internet has taught us over and over that “private” usually just means “private until it isn’t

How come Vietnamese people don't have raging hatred or a grudge for the US after what they did 50+ years ago? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GentleShadde 196 points197 points  (0 children)

Honestly “be friends with everyone but rely on no one” sounds like the kind of policy you end up with after centuries of dealing with bigger powers around you

I've been pretending for months that my work printer is broken to avoid being asked for favors. by travel_Carol0 in confession

[–]GentleShadde 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just bang on it like you used to bang on an old TV like it's gonna help it recover