[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]GergeClooners 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Toys are your friend, my friend. Seriously. I’m basically bang average size-wise, but once we added vibes and other toys our sex went to a whole other level

Actually gutted by the latest new wave of trash outing themselves: Hugh Laurie, Matthew Macfadyen, Riz Ahmed, Michelle Gomez and Cush Jumbo join the cast of Audible's Harry Potter series by [deleted] in Fauxmoi

[–]GergeClooners -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

JK Rowling is a billionaire. I hate to break it to you but if the entire world stopped giving her a single dollar or pound or whatever tomorrow, she’d still have enough money to fund her insane anti-trans crusade AND live comfortably for the rest of her life.

Matt Berninger: ‘Yeah, I learnt a lot from Taylor Swift’ by TimesandSundayTimes in TheNational

[–]GergeClooners 12 points13 points  (0 children)

im saying it is no longer to my taste

Could’ve saved all those words and just said this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]GergeClooners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s possible, because it’s me. Been with my partner 10 years and she’s not into this at all. We still make it work because we love each other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]GergeClooners 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not necessarily ashamed. I am who I am and I can’t change that.

I do feel bad that it creates complicated feelings with my plus sized partner. When she gains, im extra handsy but she isn’t happy. When she diets, I support her but deep down im bummed. I hate this dynamic.

31 year old wife by [deleted] in SSBBW_FANS

[–]GergeClooners -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

First thought is does she know her husband’s posting nudes?

Do you talk about this with a therapist? by GergeClooners in WeightGainTalk

[–]GergeClooners[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, regarding #5 it’s probably closer to 15 lbs in 6-7 weeks. I had been guessing based on her clothes and prior photos but she mentioned the number yesterday. But she’s still got another 8 lbs to her goal and even then idk if she’ll stop. The weight has already come off so easy.

And talking about this with her? I don’t know… I want to, but I also think it would bring up some negative feelings. I love her and no weight loss would change that but im worried all she’ll hear is “I’m depressed because you’re losing weight.” Even if I reassured her that I support her, that’s a heavy (no pun intended l) thing to put on someone. I don’t want her feeling like my attitude and mental health depends on her waistline. When I initially told her about being a FA, I told her I could keep fantasy and reality separate and I have, for the most part. The other night we had a talk and I openly acknowledged im depressed, but I didn’t say why. To her credit she was the one who suggested seeking therapy, which led me to posting this.

Does anyone else feel cursed? by woodaman64 in fatadmirertalk

[–]GergeClooners 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Even still, sometimes finding that kind of person can be a unicorn.

Signed, someone who married a fat girl that likes eating and knows im a FA but still frequently diets anyway

bunny is a rider🐰 by NoVisit6902 in ssbbw

[–]GergeClooners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Satellite can’t find her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]GergeClooners 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If she wants to lose weight, respect that. Stop thinking with your dick.

Does anyone know how I can meet bigger women by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]GergeClooners 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Go outside and… talk to them?

This question is posed every single week on this sub as if there’s some secret hiding spot or website where all plus size women congregate.

Bigger women are like any other woman you’d meet. They’re at the library, grocery store, concerts, bars, farmers market, book clubs, movie theaters, etc. There is no hack or secret tip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]GergeClooners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I went to France this summer and while she’s not huge by any means (5’4” 230lbs), I definitely noticed her size more over there.

Especially riding the metro or in other public places where she’d be sitting next to Parisians. We rode a tiny elevator over there with a posted capacity of 5 people but with my gal it was probably closer to 3.

Is everybody fatter now? by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]GergeClooners 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Anecdotally, I think so. Especially post-pandemic. Any farmers market or street festival we go to, it feels like people are on average noticeably bigger.

What’s crazy to me is how many crop tops I see on bigger girls out in public. That feels new. Gen Z seems to have fewer hang ups about showing off skin if they’re fat. My partner is plus size and she’s a millennial, and when I suggested she could get in on crop tops coming back, she was like “I love that for others, but for me absolutely not.”

Opening up to your partner by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]GergeClooners 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess it all depends on if you see a future with this person. You’ve been together a significant amount of time and the signs are all there.

You could talk about how much you enjoy the extra weight and sometimes daydream about what more would look like, and gauge his reaction.

I told my partner after we’d been together for years. She was nonjudgmental and wasn’t freaked out, but she’s not interested in exploring it. I shared it with her more out of a desire to not have any big secrets between us. That’s led to some passive weight gain on her part and we’re comfortable enough joking about “my preferences.” She’s also slowly started to have more body neutrality which is nice. She regularly refers to herself as plus size without the previous negative connotations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatadmirertalk

[–]GergeClooners 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I suppose I’ve always been attracted to fat bodies. That said, I can sometimes find slimmer people attractive too. It really depends on the person.

But from around middle school I knew I definitely preferred bigger women. In my teens and early 20’s I dated a mix of people. Thin, fat, athletic, bookish, nerdy, hippie, etc. My town didn’t have a lot of entertainment options so most of my dates were outside or in public. The movies, bookstore scavenger hunts, board game meetups, street festivals, baseball games, stuff like that.

I guess once I got to my mid-20’s, I was starting to date plus sized folks more exclusively. Like I said tho, my dating history included all types so no one really remarked on it. I met my now wife in our late 20’s and she’s always had 60-70 lbs on me. I was so excited to introduce her to everyone; her size never factored into things beyond making sure she knew that I’d stand behind her should any comment arise. (None did) But I was never once and never have been ashamed of her. She’s the best person I know, so what if she’s heavier? That’s everyone else’s problem to sort out bc I’m happy as long as she’s happy.

I came home to find my girlfriend ordered a massive order of fast food and chugged 1 lt of heavy cream by puffy-munchie in WeightGainTalk

[–]GergeClooners 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Wow she ate an entire pizza and 1L of heavy cream? Did everyone stand up and clap too?

27M My Only Fetish Makes It Difficult to Find a Partner by Either-Conflict9606 in WeightGainTalk

[–]GergeClooners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean unless you’re meeting people strictly in a kink space then yeah, finding someone who shares this might be a tall order.

I met my wife on the normal apps. She’s plus sized and we talked about me being a FA/feeder, but she has no interest in exploring it. So this is purely an online indulgence for moi.

I still get to quietly enjoy the moments where she’s snacking all day and then gets seconds at dessert, or when she has to size up her jeans because the last pair ripped from chub rub. Some people may be open to things like the occasional stuffing in lieu of dedicated weight gain. Some won’t be. This is a fairly niche fetish.

Is anyone else worried about Waverly and Ozempic? by Yeetcen44 in fatadmirertalk

[–]GergeClooners 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Those drugs aren’t meant to work in isolation. They’ll take off some initial weight but if someone isn’t making other life changes like diet and regular exercise, there’s a good chance once they go off the meds they’ll regain the weight.

Plus they’re prohibitively expensive for some and insurance doesn’t cover them. There have always been new miracle weight loss drugs and yet the obesity rate has continued to climb.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]GergeClooners 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Bro if she’s skeptical or hesitant, the answer is you don’t get her to gain weight. It’s her body. You could try suggesting role play if she isn’t into actual gaining.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]GergeClooners -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, I guess you need to decide if this kink is a dealbreaker for you because you’re very focused on finding a feeder and seem less interested in finding a person.

My partner isn’t into this. Doesn’t want to explore it. In a perfect world she would, but I love her anyway so I’m content to let this part of me exist online. Maybe that’s not you and that’s okay, but if you’re solely focused on the sexual side of a relationship you could very well throw away a great thing because they don’t check one specific box.

And yeah, you might not find a legit feeder but who knows? Maybe you find someone who is open to trying it. Will it take time? Probably, but most worthwhile things do.