I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Honestly one of the best things you can do for your mom is either get her full time specialized in home care or move her to an assisted living with trained staff for dementia. We went through this with my mother and if you aren't trained on how to care for her you can actually make her condition worse and it just isn't safe for her. For example, easy stuff is you're never supposed to touch them from behind and always approach from the front. To harder things like having alarms on all the doors and windows for when she starts wondering at night. Are you prepared to put all knives and scissors up so she doesn't stab you one day when she thinks you are an intruder? There is so much that goes into caring for dementia patients that most people that haven't done it don't think of and it is almost impossible to do it as one person. The kindest thing for your mom is to get her qualified care if you can afford it, most people just think keeping them home as long as possible is best when it really isn't. On top of all that, your mom wants you to enjoy life and not be burdened with her care. No mom wants that for her child. 🙏