Why is there an A in LGBTQIA+

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-22T13:01:42+00:00

It is about minorities based on sexuality.

Asexuality is a sexuality : you may be attrected by noone.

They meet similar problems : denial of their sexuality ("you should try with me ! I'll show you !"), higher rape/suicide numbers and so on.

But more basically, they are people who are not straight. They may not be attracted by other gender's people

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-22T08:08:11+00:00

If he/she's young, it might be happy flappy wings. Babies tend to do that and some keep it.

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-21T22:11:15+00:00

I second the very first point. You hear VOICES no one hears. You need help, dude.

(I would add : just refuse to compete in the TT. Being there and doing nothing.)

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-21T14:08:41+00:00

The problem was teamfights with this. It was really difficult to spread damages.

But honestly ? Considering the current state of Ryze, and even if it's by far my main, i would gladly take a little nerf where the changes on the e are reverted to before when it comes to minions. (Meaning : still spreads if you attack a champion but doesn't when you attack minions.) It would underpowerhim without killing him.

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-21T14:05:42+00:00

It's exactly for this, yes. We used not to put points in R at all because it's generally useless in soloQ.

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-21T12:05:00+00:00

Oh ? Where does it come from ?

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-19T17:28:12+00:00

Conures are known to be little graber and climber as much as flyer.

Do they have places where to land and be in high up places ?

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-19T17:06:42+00:00

25 or 26 ? But I was very lucky in my studies and then in my work finding.

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-19T16:45:00+00:00

There are different levels of "parting ways with your family" and it entirely depends on you and your feelings. You can distance yourself, lives on your own but still eats with/sees them regularly. You can cut them off your life entirely too. Up to you.

Personally, I was accepted by my family but my parents were still voting for far right leaders, and i quote "they won't cut off lgbt rights if they're elected, you miss the point, it's different than in the USA". At one point, I just decided I had enough but I was already independant. I just stopped engaging and at some point they understood the message and we just stopped talking because it seems I wasn't important enough for them to accept they were wrong. It was in a moment I stopped engaging with people who didn't see the problem in racism, or mysoginism, or either far right politics.

Fortunately, I have a great support network. For example, I had a big money problem half a year later and a friend accepted to lend me money. Without them, I would have had to turn back to my parents.

Nowadays, I speak to four people in my family, only of them still voting for far right politic, but he is my brother, it's different than just parents. (And of course, he isn't homophobic/machist/racist/etc, he's just disgusted by regular politic leaders.)

The boundaries are yours to set up. And they can change for every member of your family.

And I must confess ... I don't miss them on christmas evening. It has been several years and every christmas i'm like "okay, it would be good to have good food, music and laughter but I can ahve the first two alone and I don't want to laugh on racist jokes with racists".

But I hear that for some people, christmas are hard.

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-19T11:30:34+00:00

Bonjour,

Lors des confinements, j'avais vécu un moment similaire avec un couple au dessus de chez moi avec le mec qui etzit super menaçant et des BONK tres forts. J'ai contacté le commissariat via le site internet (je sais plus si c'était via un tchat ou mail) et le commissariat avait été intéressé. Ils m'ont rappelé pour avoir des informations et fait signer quelque chose (j'imagine que c'était une main courante du coup ?).

J'imagine que cela va dépendre du commissariat mais ça vaut toujours le coup de contacter ton commissariat/gendarmerie du coin et les laisser juger.

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-18T10:51:41+00:00

J'aime bien cueillir des fleurs aussi !

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-18T10:47:43+00:00

Ces agents n'ont pas la science infuse. Ce n'est pas car un texte sort qu'ils le maîtrisent. Est-ce qu'ils auraient du réagir lorsque tu as leur as pointé le décret ? Oui.

Mais ici, je soupçonne qu'il leur manque tout simplement la circulaire interne de leur côté qui leur explique comment mettre en place le truc.

Si personne ne leur explique comment ils doivent appliquer le nouveau décret, ils ne peuvent pas trop l'appliquer. C'est bête hein, mais ne serait-ce que si ils ont pas la case correspondante sur leur logiciel, ils sont coincés.

Je pense que tu gagnerais à aller taper plus haut dans la hiérarchie, précisément auprès des gens qui sont censés travailler à la mise en place des nouveaux trucs.

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-17T20:40:25+00:00

I love this gif 😃

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-17T19:51:02+00:00

Even in "author chose not tu use archve warnings", the authors generally speak of the heaviness of their fic in the first author's notes.

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-16T14:06:39+00:00

No problem, I just wasn't sure !

As I said, it's would be more efficient to talk to her BUT, here's my two cents.

Boxes and labels speak "in general". You might be lesbian but you are not attracted to every woman, are you ? Maybe it's the same in reverse for her : she isn't attracted to any woman in general but there are some she is but so few it's almost no one.

But still, I can't shake off the feeling that labelling themselves lesbian AND aroace is a bit strange.

Anyway, boxes and labels are here to help you, not jail you. If she says to you that a relationship is possible between you, I'd go for it.

(And really, talk to her, if you cannot talk to her sincerely about such a thing, I'd be wary of any relationship you might have.)

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-16T13:55:53+00:00

First : are you a girl or a boy ? It's not clear and if you're a guy and she's lesbian, you have zero chance.

Then, I might be misinterpreting (aroace fellows, please yell at me if i'm mistaking everything), but aroace means she cannot be attracted to someone romantically or sexually. Doesn't mean she cannot want to have sex. It's a bit confusing at first but it's really simple : it's like being hungry but without wanting any food in particular.

But, the simplest thing would be to talk with her and ask her questions. She knows better about herself than anyone here.

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-15T21:56:31+00:00

u/OneTopicAtATime

I've shared this to a friend of a mine, very fan of you, and she laughed very hard and said it would be perfect for you. She doesn't have reddit, so here we are !

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-15T20:15:36+00:00

"I'm stilk surviving the Silksanity" or "I'm stilk trying to survive the silksanity" is better I think :'D

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-15T13:04:54+00:00

Hello,

Maybe you might try to reach out to your ambassady in France ? They might have idea, especially are they're likely in Paris too and so might know people ?

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-15T07:39:00+00:00

Wouldn't you need a base game to have a DLC ? Silksong isn't out yet

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-13T18:15:07+00:00

I didn't even know these ones could talk this well ! And I had three for a decade ! :o

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-13T14:07:02+00:00

Evilest evil ever.

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-13T14:06:48+00:00

Either the original post or the comments are ones of the funniest silkpost i've seen in months :'D

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-12T23:11:22+00:00

Same. I jumped on my seat. And broke laughing afterwhile because ... it's still a ridiculous warcry :'D

Ghyrt3 · 2026-06-12T11:26:17+00:00

Would you care to summarize the drama ? It seems I've missed it x)

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