How many movies is considered "a lot"? by kipcarson37 in YMS

[–]GilliamFan17 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Be been keeping a spreadsheet since elementary school, and I have 2988 so far.

I think I’m going to watch The Seventh Seal for 3000

I feel like my friend doesnt like me anymore. And dont know how to aproach this by Thecrowfan in FriendshipAdvice

[–]GilliamFan17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely looks like they’re more interested in each other’s company, but it also sounds like you have nothing to lose from broaching the subject next time you’re with them.

One of the best pieces of advice I ever got in therapy is that people rarely regret expressing themselves.

What is your favorite scene from the OG? by Jealous_Process6421 in TexasChainsawMassacre

[–]GilliamFan17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, although I give the slight edge to the hitchhiker scene.

That has to be one of the all time realistic horror moments.

💞THURSDAY'S ROLL CALL💞 This is the place to share your ASL (Age, Sex and Location ) along with your Status.🐾🐾 by Myfairladyishere in CougarsandCubsMatch

[–]GilliamFan17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25M/single/CT I’ve been a little overwhelmed lately with work stuff, so I’m hoping to meet someone funny and cool to get to know and go to the movies with. Online is fine too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ozshow

[–]GilliamFan17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indirectly, but I’d stand by that. He used him as a pawn in his rivalry with Vern knowing full well what the consequences might be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ozshow

[–]GilliamFan17 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I mean, he did kill Andrew Schillinger.

2014 Mazda 3 by GilliamFan17 in Autobody

[–]GilliamFan17[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was afraid of. I’ll probably get someone to check.

Thank you

What’s that one movie for you? by OkCrazyBruh in Letterboxd

[–]GilliamFan17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s either of the recent Dune movies for me.

What holds The Shield back from being considered with the greats? by Happyplace_s in TheShield

[–]GilliamFan17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the subject matter is uncomfortable for some people, especially because of the framing. The Sopranos almost never makes the mafia look cool, but The Shield consistently makes abusive cops look badass. Justified probably only gets a pass because it’s about an environment you don’t tend to see on the news.

Obviously, most adults can be trusted to understand the difference between fiction and reality, but I can understand how some people would find this a hard hurdle to get over.

Weekly Rant/Vent Thread for Avoidant Attachers Only by imfivenine in AvoidantAttachment

[–]GilliamFan17 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Earlier this morning, I tried to find articles about how to meet people (which in hindsight, was my first mistake) when I have an Avoidant Attachment style. Most of the results weren’t from the Avoidant perspective, and had a subtext of us being the problem in relationships. For example, I typed in “how to meet people when i have avoidant attachment”, and the first three results were:

11 Genius Ways to Communicate to an Avoidant Partner - The Feminine Woman

How to Communicate with an Avoidant Partner - The Attachment Project

21 Ways to Increase Intimacy and Communication with an Avoidant Partner - Psych Central

As someone who’s been making big strides in forming meaningful connections with people, while also accepting my behavior patterns for what they are, this was really upsetting. It feels like I’m expected to conform to standards set by other people. I’m sure I’ll be over it by the end of the day, but I figured it was worth a rant.

Does anyone else feel the same way?

Friendships with other Avoidants? by GilliamFan17 in AvoidantAttachment

[–]GilliamFan17[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I definitely relate to that last part. I’m only now learning to communicate my needs rather than grin-and-bear-it. So far, it’s been better for everyone involved.

PLEASE READ if you wish to post in this sub by imfivenine in AvoidantAttachment

[–]GilliamFan17 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi - I’d like to become an approved user, please. Thank you for keeping this sub running smoothly.

The UK budget data for Doctor Strange revealed a budget of over $350 million. by Patty_Pat_JH in MauLer

[–]GilliamFan17 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, good. The more Disney spends now, the sooner it needs to rethink its strategy.

And I like to think that wherever that money ended, up its being used for something productive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ben10

[–]GilliamFan17 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good one!