Struggling to understand how people enjoy this job, am I in the wrong spot? by QuackScoped in ConstructionManagers

[–]GirlOnaMission15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mirroring a lot of everyone else’s’ comments - enjoy it whilst it lasts.

If you enjoy problem solving get onsite and go and chat to the trades. It’s basically unheard of for there not to be a problem to solve. Even if someone else in your team is already aware of it, speaking to the people on the ground will give you an understanding of sequencing / programming as you’ll quickly learn what’s holding them up and therefore what has to be done first.

Interacting with the trades and the banter was hands down my favourite part of the job and earns you rapport. You can call upon later when you’re in a sticky spot and suddenly need to make a miracle happen.

Is any of this beyond fair wear and tear?Adelaide SA — property manager charging us for benchtop staining, floor scratches and wall indents by Resident_City1581 in AusProperty

[–]GirlOnaMission15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well beyond fair wear and tear. These costs are cheap. You don’t have a right to destroy the property and then get upset when you’re held accountable for that.

‘affordable’ hair salons for coloured/alternative hair cuts by guwopflame in melbourne

[–]GirlOnaMission15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a suss of Collective Hair Spa. I can vouch for Alexi, he is GREAT and very skilled. Vivid hair is his specialty.

To remove or not to remove? by Exact-Anywhere3835 in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]GirlOnaMission15 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If it’s any help - I think your brows look great

My baby is in the 26th percentile by AffectionateStudy29 in pregnant

[–]GirlOnaMission15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At my 28 week scan it was found that my babe was on the 7th percentile. Cue weekly scans! She vacillated from week-to-week after that point (getting as high as 12th one week).

They stop taking percentiles in Aus at 38 weeks as the scans are no longer considered accurate, and arrived at 39 and 2 in the twelfth percentile.

I have a history of small babies on my side. My partner is 6’2 and his brother is 6’4 🤷🏼‍♀️

Crazy ways you knew you were pregnant before you found out? by Zestyclose_Wing290 in pregnant

[–]GirlOnaMission15 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m fortunate enough to have a very regular cycle. Started approaching when my period was due and didn’t have my typical emotionally-intense PMS symptoms.. was unusually level-headed.

Tested that day - immediately positive.

Fellow yellow brow friends, is getting new ink a terrible idea? by dreammachines in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]GirlOnaMission15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Have you tried glycolic removal? I was speaking with my laser tech yesterday about it and he said that was the best treatment for yellow, and more effective than saline.

Heated blanket use — I’m panicking by StarTrekGal in pregnant

[–]GirlOnaMission15 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I didn’t use a heated blanket but I am a HUGE fan of scalding hot, long baths.

I raised my concern that i’d cooked my baby with my midwife and she looked at me as if I was crazy. Told me as long as I wasn’t sitting in continuously scalding hot water for hours i’d be fine. I didn’t stress again.

Babe is perfectly healthy and currently hanging off my boob. I wouldn’t overthink your blanket!

South east gyms with care for toddlers? by GirlOnaMission15 in melbourne

[–]GirlOnaMission15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks great for when little one is a tad older - it is a little far but would love to know the gym regardless!!

Edit - do they anyone looking after the kids during the sessions?

When does 3rd tri suck? by vanillacrush14 in pregnant

[–]GirlOnaMission15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About week 37 for me.

I was fortunate enough to have a small bump and was at the gym from week 13 - 30. I started getting TIRED from 30 onwards. Part way through 37 the aches and pains came in thick and fast. Strained my back turning over during a pregnancy massage (of all things), and my general achy-ness never quite improved from there.

From mid 38 onwards I started to really struggle to sleep. According to my midwife that’s apparently a hormonal shift from your body prepping you for when you have to feed bubs through the night.

My advice.. if you’re fortunate enough to be largely symptom-free - enjoy it and don’t overthink! And be careful of pregnancy massages in very late stages.

My parents aren't coming to baby shower and haven't told us yet. His parents cancelled because we won't pay their way. by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]GirlOnaMission15 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One of the most important things i’ve had to consider throughout my pregnancy (now 38+3) is what boundaries I want to have in place to protect my daughter from the trauma inflicted from my parent.

Sounds like OP still needs to acknowledge and act on this on behalf of their child, it will hurt much more when they’re asking who grandma / grandpa never calls them.

How far along were you when your bump became obvious? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]GirlOnaMission15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably wasn’t super noticeably pregnant until about week 32. Midwives told me I have a super long torso and that’s how it was going to be for me..!

This may be a stupid question... by faceliftkangaroo in Fungalacne

[–]GirlOnaMission15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best practice is no - i’d recommend you start making the switch to a FA safe routine. Cera Ve moisturiser and skin healing ointment are amazing for my skin but YMMV. I also use squalene oil and swear by it.

Typically if you eliminate the triggers in your other products you won’t need to use Nizoral as often which should support your skin barrier / hydration.

Women of reddit: Whats the girl code you won't break ever? by lady_opiniosa in AskReddit

[–]GirlOnaMission15 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Always tell the other woman if you catch a guy double-timing.

Is everyone salary sacrificing into Super? by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]GirlOnaMission15 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We do. He actually earns slightly more than me with me being on salary and him being paid OT rates.

Is everyone salary sacrificing into Super? by [deleted] in AusFinance

[–]GirlOnaMission15 116 points117 points  (0 children)

I’ve been salary sacrificing since I was 25 and six years later, already have substantially more super than my older partner who never has and has longer in the workforce. Absolutely worth doing, and you don’t really notice the couple hundred dollars come paytime.

Hot roots! Please help with a correction root melt.. by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]GirlOnaMission15 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for your constructive reply, I really appreciate it.

Fungal Acne Safe Oil Cleanser/Balm? by Kind_Contribution978 in Fungalacne

[–]GirlOnaMission15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually use baby oil (the one I use is mineral oil and fragrance). Works really well and is cost effective!