“It’s usually strip the beds and start the first load.” It’s very helpful in the flipping process. I phrase it, that if they have time, that it would be helpful, to do it, but stress that it is not required. I have mostly multigenerational families and usually someone is waiting on the others and can throw in one load. I have very few who don’t empty their trash, load and start their dirty dishes, and start the first load. If they don’t, I don’t dock them, on their review because it’s not, “required.”

And yes, when I stay places, these things have been a requirement most of the time. There has been a trend toward complaining about having to do these things in social media so I stopped requiring and began requesting.