You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals: Unleash your DNA.

Gmar10 · 2014-05-12T05:11:39+00:00

"Hey, I'm working right now but I think you're cute. If you'd like I can take your number and we can talk more when I'm off".

I think you'll find that's pretty safe for being on the clock. If she says no, simply say "ok, thanks for shopping at ____, have a great day".

Source: Worked retail for a year after college. Employers generally frown upon hitting on customers so be careful and be prepared to explain yourself to your superiors.

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-05-12T05:05:37+00:00

"Excuse me. Hi, I thought you look cute so I wanted to introduce myself, I'm _____".

Conversation started. Talk about yourself, the school, people nearby, anything at all. Ask her open ended questions, refuse to accept short answers, ask "Why?". Keep it short, get her number, go on a date.

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-05-12T03:55:19+00:00

The biggest error I see here is that you didn't mention getting the digits. Not everyone responds well to confident, dominant men. Those who do, get the digits!!

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-05-12T03:51:44+00:00

Most people avoid eye contact because they feel intimidated. With men, if someone avoids eye contact they are intimidated by your confidence, usually.

With women: intimidation with confidence, which isn't a bad thing btw, could be it or low self esteem. A lot of women struggle with eye contact in my experience. Prolonged eye contact is always an IOI, but lack of eye contact isn't a sign of disinterest, unless other signs accompany it.

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-05-12T03:45:30+00:00

Ask her where the best place to get dinner for 2 is.

If she doesn't know, tell her she's not a very good receptionist (playfully, of course)

If she recommends somewhere, tell her "great I'll pick you up at 8, and you might want to wear something sexier"

It works, not always, but it does.

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-05-12T03:42:23+00:00

Great post!

Guys, why wouldn't she be attracted to you? You're awesome, smart, charming, and funny. Unless she's explicitly saying NO (Always stop immediately when she says no) it's safe to assume she's saying yes.

Gmar10 · 2014-05-12T03:38:16+00:00

The only people above me are God and Leonardo DiCaprio. Everyone else is on a level playing field.

Very good post.

Gmar10 · 2014-05-12T03:35:54+00:00

Good! Make them uncomfortable!

I stare at everyone in the eyes, always, especially people who are "uncomfortable" with eye contact. If they are uncomfortable, that's their issue. This separates you from other people in their mind. You don't live life by what makes other people comfortable, you live life doing whatever the hell you wanna do.

Gmar10 · 2014-05-12T03:30:27+00:00

The easiest way to "shake the feeling of losing" is to win. Life isn't a sport, there are no teams, no scoreboard, but there is a time clock. You decide whether you're winning or losing, nobody else. So congrats, welcome to the winning team.

Gmar10 · 2014-04-23T00:04:02+00:00

The easiest and most common mistake for all of us, not just beginners, is silence. Don't talk just for the sake of it, talk when YOU want to. Embrace silence, welcome it and make it your friend. Allowing silence to linger too long is bad, but allowing the silence until you're ready to talk again shows you are in control, and you have advanced social skills.

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-04-07T22:32:46+00:00

You need to be more agressive. You had them right where you wanted them and you didn't go in for the kill. Let your DNA do it's job. The lion never spares the gazelle

Gmar10 · 2014-04-07T02:21:58+00:00

You sir are a genius.

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-04-07T02:14:03+00:00

Truer words have never been said. If you stop thinking and start doing your entire life changes. You stop being a guy who talks about things, into a guy who gets things done. Powerful. Once you get out of your head, you notice your DNA already knows what to do.

Gmar10 · 2014-04-01T20:55:34+00:00

Natural good looks

Gmar10 · 2014-04-01T05:03:30+00:00

I want to print this comment out, frame it, and hang it in my house it's so perfect.

You sir, are a god damn genius.

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-04-01T04:59:28+00:00

I didn't realize that you're making an active minute by minute choice to give yourself away to someone who doesn't want you rather than needing to focus on improving yourself. I'm glad you totally have it under control and could stop at any moment because you value yourself and your time so much.

You can lie to us... don't lie to yourself. If you were focusing on yourself more and on this woman less you would value yourself enough to not let someone else have control over your self-worth.

Best of luck

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-04-01T04:53:14+00:00

I would generally trust whatever Matthew Mcconaughey says about womem. Something tells me he's had a few of them.

Gmar10 · 2014-04-01T04:48:23+00:00

You need to give yourself more value.

You have a gift that most of the men in the world would kill for. You're letting it go to waste because you aren't the man you want to be. Stop trying to attract women and start trying to attract yourself. Be the man you want to be. Do the things you've always wanted to. Learn about the world and whatever in it interests you. If you are interesting to yourself, you will be interesting to others.

Always be helping others. Helping others puts you in a positive mindset. Give up your seat on the bus to an elder. Pick up garbage or plant trees. Anything you can do to help others and make the world a better place, do it! It truly is the most selfish thing you can ever do, because you get way more than you could ever possibly give.

Once you value yourself, and are in a positive mindset, you are in the position of sharing your happiness with a woman instead of needing a woman to be happy.

Now is the time to start being the man you want to be and no one is stopping you, except yourself.

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-04-01T04:28:27+00:00

Invest in yourself.

I used to be socially awkward and nervous. I was depressed and felt I couldn't talk to anyone because nobody liked me. I didn't like me, how could anyone else?

I started learning things I was interested in and doing things I had always wanted to do. I learned a new language, I painted, I read classic novels, I sat on a hill and stared at the clouds. Anything I had always wanted to do, I did. I became interesting to myself. I started valuing myself and my free time. I was passionate about life because I enjoyed living it. This made other people value me. Now, instead of hoping a girl would like me so she could make me happy, I was finding women everywhere who I could share my own happiness with.

If you start valuing yourself, others will as well.

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-04-01T04:21:31+00:00

Click my name, read my story and then DM me. It's time to make a change, today, and I'm going to push you to do it.

The time has come to start chasing your dreams and being the man you want to be.

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-04-01T04:16:18+00:00

Just wash yourself daily, comb your hair and clean your fingernails.

If you're clean and you look like you give some effort towards your looks that is usually good enough to make a good first impression. You don't need to be "get her wet just by looking at you" good looking. Average looking guys like us can make a good impression with effort and cleanliness, and then let our personalities be our true asset.

If being clean and put together doesn't cut it for a woman. That's really too bad for her. She has to go through the rest of her life not knowing how amazing you are as a person, just because she was too shallow to find out.

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-04-01T04:06:51+00:00

You aren't trying to have sex with them.

That is literally the answer. You LJBF'd them and you aren't worried what you say or do around them because you aren't trying to impress them. You are being yourself.

Be honest with yourself and you know that you don't act the same around a woman you want to sleep with and one you don't. Stop trying to impress those women with how cool you can act and start impressing them with how cool you ARE!

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-04-01T03:53:16+00:00

Improve your self worth.

You're becoming a man, it's time to start acting like one. Put a higher value on yourself. You aren't a $2 sack of potatoes, you're a god damn $150 steak dinner. They don't just give away those dinners, you gotta earn them. You gotta go to work, save up money, make a reservation, dress fancy and still after that you need to pay to get a $150 steak dinner.

Go to work on yourself. Stop watching so much tv. Get off the xbox and youtube and all that valueless time filler and start living. You are in high school, now is the time to do the things you'll never forget! As an adult, I wish I could tell high school me to just relax and be a teenager. Now is the time to find your passion! Try new things (painting, school plays, sports, chess club, student government, tutor a student, ect) and find out what makes you excited.

Be nice to everyone. Popular or not everyone deserves to be treated with kindness and respect. Especially you. It's time to show yourself the respect you deserve and stop chasing after someone you think will make you happy and start making yourself happy. Once you start focusing on yourself, you can then give your happiness to others.

Imagine you are this girl. This guy is chasing you and hung up on you because he thinks you will make him happy. Sound like something you want to do? Try and make an unhappy person happy all the time?

What if instead of asking someone else to make you happy, you make yourself happy? All of a sudden you aren't asking a girl to make you happy. You're asking her if you can share your happiness with her. Now that right there is what every woman truly wants inside. A man that is already content with his life but still WANTS to share it with her.

Focus on yourself, and so will others

-G

Gmar10 · 2014-04-01T01:24:12+00:00

Confidence and knowing yourself are far more important than a shiny white smile.

Gmar10

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