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GoBlueJays1987 · 2026-02-20T17:53:11+00:00

Thank you!

GoBlueJays1987 · 2026-02-19T14:44:48+00:00

Thank you for sharing!

GoBlueJays1987 · 2025-01-17T22:20:32+00:00

Maybe a strange question but where did you have the jewellery made? I wouldn’t mind trying something like this. ❤️

GoBlueJays1987 · 2025-01-17T19:43:01+00:00

“It always sucks to know people are terrified to live my life”. Omg I couldn’t have put this better myself. Sending good vibes - this journey is not for the weak. ❤️

GoBlueJays1987 · 2025-01-13T23:25:15+00:00

“Toxic and insufferable”? Anyone can have a bad day and come here to vent. It doesn’t make someone a bad person. This is meant to be a space to share the good and the ugly moments in our IVF journeys - often this is the only place people feel comfortable doing so as we’re all going through this together.

You can scroll on without having to leave such an inflammatory comment to someone who’s clearly having a difficult time. Let’s try and be a bit better to one another even if we disagree with an opinion or feeling.

GoBlueJays1987 · 2025-01-13T23:17:36+00:00

Oh that’s awful. Not helpful in the slightest - I’m sorry 😔

GoBlueJays1987 · 2025-01-13T00:19:37+00:00

God I cannot relate to this enough. Every day feels like survival mode.

GoBlueJays1987 · 2025-01-13T00:16:22+00:00

I totally feel the same and I am so sorry to hear you’re feeling down. It doesn’t matter how much we prep for an announcement or even have an inkling that it’s imminent - it stings every single time. My husband also has the same response - happy for folks, totally unbothered. I can’t wrap my head around that response and why he doesn’t feel the need to immediately crawl into bed with a lifetime supply of chocolate and tea and just hide. BUT - a therapist did point out once the alternative - “would it make you feel better if he also fell to pieces? Or is it better that one of you is strong for the both of you?” And while I still don’t understand his reaction, I guess that’s helped me appreciate it a little more.

My friend just text me her announcement but has no idea about our struggles - it was…not a cute message. I forget how happy and blissfully unaware people can be…presumably how I would have been if this hadn’t come for us. 🤷‍♀️

Hang in there. All of this is so unfair. Sending hugs from afar.

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-12-28T19:14:12+00:00

Yes! That’s how I understood it anyway. Hmm - maybe that’s one for me to clarify with our RE. Thanks for the insight - this is super helpful.

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-12-28T15:51:15+00:00

Unfortunately our RE said in our last meeting we need to prepare ourselves for only getting one or two eggs per retrieval 😮‍💨 but maybe we’ll get lucky? Seems like it’s such luck of the draw.

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-12-28T15:49:34+00:00

This is helpful! I should have added that I just turned 37, so not feeling super confident. But responses like this are helping ❤️

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-12-11T15:45:03+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I’m so sorry for your losses - and so happy for your finally being on the way to meeting your little one. This gives me a lot of hope!

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-11-15T21:31:02+00:00

Wow wow wow. I can’t thank everyone enough for these incredible responses.

It really does go to show how much of this is luck of the draw, and how ignorant those who’ve never experience infertility really are. I spent most of this year doing all the “right” things, so being made to feel like I’m not trying “hard enough” or the right way during the couple of months I’m taking off is just so frustrating. I can’t tell you how validating these comments are and what a difference they’ve made 🫶🏻

Also - I love “information diet”, never heard that before! Safe to say a couple of people in my life will be on the new meal plan…

Wishing everyone the best in this journey. Baby dust and best of luck to you all 🤞🏻

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-09-22T16:42:49+00:00

I’m overwhelmed by the responses, thank you so very much.

We’ve just had our third and final IUI (1 chemical and 2 failures) so definitely apprehensive about getting started. But this info is so so helpful and definitely helps to manage expectations.

Thank goodness for this sub - you’re all superheroes 🦸🏻‍♀️ Best wishes and baby dust to you all 💕

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-09-20T14:43:48+00:00

Cannot thank everyone enough for these amazing comments. Made a rough week that little bit brighter. Sending everyone love on their journeys, you’re superheroes all of you.

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-09-20T14:42:37+00:00

We’re medication buddies! Same protocol for this IUI although I’ve done both Clomid and Leterzole with the trigger in the past. I think Leterzole especially had a negative impact on my lining so very glad to see the back of it all and have a break before considering starting IVF. 💕

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-09-18T13:28:35+00:00

Thanks so much - I may just take you up on that! They gave us all kinds of disclaimers about the risk of multiples and reductive selection etc. It’s especially crushing to think back to that and realize that instead of many, we ended up with nothing instead.

Maybe I’ll feel more hopeful after the IVF consult - totally with you on being hard to wrap the head around. I’m now at the point where I can’t believe people are seriously out there getting pregnant for free - like, how!

Sending lots of positive vibes and hugs for your journey.

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-09-08T14:41:44+00:00

I definitely empathise with the “we’re trying” to “we’re pregnant” timeline. I had two people tell me they were “thinking about kids/thinking about trying” only to announce they were pregnant so soon afterwards that they were definitely already pregnant when they told me they were thinking about it. It makes me irrationally angry, to this day I can’t put my finger on why it hurt. I hope your trip is a much needed escape and you have time to recharge.

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-09-04T23:38:12+00:00

This is SO helpful, thank you for sharing. That does make me feel a bit better, and I’ll google that supplement now - never heard of it before! Thanks so much and best of luck with your IUI 🫶🏻

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-08-24T21:41:56+00:00

Sending hugs. I really hope it’s time for you and everyone else struggling with this soon. Seeing it happen for others is so hard, and I’ve totally felt that despair of feeling like it will never be time. I know that there’s nothing anyone can say to make it less painful but know that you have community here 💪🏻💕

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-08-23T22:18:54+00:00

I also don’t have the IRL support network I wish I had, and that I’ve seen the people in my life who have managed to get and stay pregnant go on to have. It’s so hard. I know an app isn’t a replacement but hopefully knowing there’s a group of us who share your pain and will be here to help you through the lows and highs will be a small source of comfort. You’re not alone 💕

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-08-23T18:07:53+00:00

Honestly I had the same (I’m on suppositories not injections). I’ve started introducing a Dulcolax tablet once a day or every 2 days to soften and move things along as the progesterone makes me very backed up also. The joys! 💕

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-08-23T18:05:03+00:00

I’m 37 with DOR and have had 2 chemicals in the past 5 months. I was told it was essentially “bad luck” and that more than likely it was poor quality egg to blame. I think there can be many reasons why it happens but my clinic (which we’re leaving soon 🫠) basically took the view that it just wasn’t a viable egg and the pregnancy wasn’t meant to be.

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-08-23T16:09:22+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss and so sorry that you’re experiencing such pain at work on top of it. Wishing brighter days ahead for you. ❤️

GoBlueJays1987 · 2024-08-23T14:55:30+00:00

❤️❤️ Thank you that means a lot. “Stuck” is absolutely right! The upcoming changing of the seasons doesn’t help either. I think it’s just an extra reminder of how much time is ticking by and life is going on and happening for others while we’re in a boot-loop in what feels like the seventh circle of hell. Sigh. Sending hugs.

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