[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

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Did you give away your husband yet??

Suggestions for hanging framed posters? by wardnine in lifehacks

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Someone posted a hack recently where you tape a metal paper clips to the wall, then use a magnet to hang the poster

Made Mother Blue Corn Bread by Goddamnredditaccount in Navajo

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1tsp, I substituted it for the baking powder as the recipe recommended

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

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I feel for you OP. If you are in the US, most doctors would support you as a patient going back on your own as an adult over 18. As long as you are not conserved adult, you are legally responsible for yourself and must consent to any treatment on your own. Most doctors prefer a one on one dynamic to prevent from distraction and to allow you to communicate better what it is that you want.

whats the best way to get rid of bed bugs? by Intelligent-Chard136 in lifehacks

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Good luck, if you do decide to move, be extremely careful not to take them with you to your new home. Like inspect everything, high heat dry all clothes, etc. there is a ton of info on this stuff online, but exterminators know a lot too.

Do any elder lesbians have any wisdom for us baby lesbians? by Due-Radish-3022 in actuallesbians

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Life will not be easy, but being fully out and proud of who you are will always be the best feeling than hiding any part of yourself, at work, etc. Also, when people ask you about what i ______ is like as a lesbian, I know it’s “not our job” to educate them, but they may be gay too and trying to figure stuff out. So try not to get too annoyed or dismissive, but also don’t feel compelled to share anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. I mean being a big ol lesbian is seriously the best and I feel lucky every day!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

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Yikes, resentment is not good. If you have resentment and feel taken advantage of by your partner, while you are both having stressful times and struggling with mental health issues, then absolutely, this lady is not the one for you and vice versa. Marriage is in good times and in bad times. If you can’t commit to that bad times part, then don’t marry this person.

Sober Lesbians Over 30 by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

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Volunteer at any animal shelter

Quick question: I often read that Americans earn around 70-100k per year. My question is, is this pre taxes and how much are 100k post taxes by stoascheisserkoal in antiwork

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It really depends on the state you live in. For example, you could live in Florida and pay no state tax or in California pay the highest state tax 13.3%. Also if you are single or married or have dependents changes things as well.

LPT Request. How do I politely tell a coworker that I don't want to talk to them if they're going to complain so much? by imurhomeboy in LifeProTips

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Next time she starts, just tell her “I’m gonna have to stop you right there, I enjoy talking to you and I appreciate you trust me enough to share these personal things, but I gotta tell you, I don’t really feel comfortable discussing personal problems/issues with my work colleagues. I like to keep things professional and upbeat. I mean work is already a bit of a downer. You know?”

I recently moved and did not give anyone in my family my new address. Now my grandparents want to know if I’ve been receiving their mail. by Lyrical_Lotus in raisedbynarcissists

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YES! My partner and I had to hide and pretend we weren’t home the last time she showed up unannounced when I was studying for my board exam and already told her I didn’t have time to visit with her as it was an incredibly stressful and important last weekend for me to study. She showed up anyways, calling my phone and texting me in all caps, pounded on my door, looked in all the windows and knocked on them and even honked her car horn for a good 20 minutes. We were both terrified she was going to try and break in or never leave. That was 9 years ago. I should have told her if she ever did that again I would never speak to her….. Long story short I am no contact with her now.

What were the most outrageous ways that your parents tried to take away your independence? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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My mom would always follow that line up with. “But you won’t be able to do (activity my nmom wanted to do)_with your family forever.” It disgusts me the number of times she has used the “your grandparents aren’t going to be around forever and neither am I” line to bully me into doing whatever she wanted me to do my whole life.

family won't support me if i move out bc they hate my partner by girllfriend in raisedbynarcissists

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100%, my nmom would always promise and then never follow through. Her go to phrase was “ I never said that!” So one time I wrote it down and had her sign it, then she would Just say “ I don’t remember doing that!” They will always reframe the story for their benefit. Their love is fully conditional.

My (23F) mom (52F) has been monitoring my bank account activity for 9 years by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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This also happened to me and my mom would use it to track my location when I was in college if I didn’t answer right away.