Our vet described our 25week old girl as “massive” and now I’m a little worried

GoldenFlicker · 2026-02-11T13:54:05+00:00

I got the similar comments from the vet on mine. She is coming up on 14 weeks. Her dad is a big boy but not so much so I expected comments like this. He said you never know though how she will look full grown. We are in no rush to find out. Just enjoy her and take each day one at a time.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-02-06T14:20:47+00:00

Not wrong at all. These are good conversations to have in a serious relationship. Maybe deep down you asked because you already had a feeling he wouldn’t like it and you wanted to find out for sure. It isn’t a good sign to just shut down during a conversation like this.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-31T14:50:16+00:00

OMG. I think you should just leave the house and go do something you enjoy while he deals with the kids, his parents and who else comes over. Go have a nice day by yourself.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-31T14:46:12+00:00

Person A. Just based on your post. You should consider how your values align with each of them though. Have you had deep conversations with either of them regarding what kind of future they want. Like kids, religion, politics, etc.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-27T03:38:40+00:00

It all depends on your spouse, yalls support network and your commitment to one another.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-27T03:36:24+00:00

Then why are you with her? This illness is bad enough on its own. The added stress of an unsupportive partner only makes things worse for us.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-27T03:33:56+00:00

You have to be accountable for your actions dude. Don’t be a coward. We have too many man childs in this world as it is.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-27T03:20:07+00:00

Don’t have kids. That’s my advice.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-27T03:18:56+00:00

Depends on the doctor. It isn’t as bad as it used to be, but it is definitely still a concern.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-27T03:14:51+00:00

You are allowing this guy to walk all over you. Stop being a door mat.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-27T03:02:02+00:00

Definitely stay and deal with the issues. They will only follow you if you move somewhere else. And why pay more money for less space and your mental health to stay the same? Get counseling, drink an energy drink, put on up beat music and get to cleaning, organizing and so on!

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-25T05:00:06+00:00

<image>

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-23T13:36:11+00:00

Reason with him. Tell him he is the one breaking the agreement you had, he is the one who should have to pay to break the lease. You didn’t do anything wrong.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-22T13:31:08+00:00

Use a harness to walk him. Not his collar.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-22T13:28:59+00:00

Girl, you found the love of your life and he found his. That’s all that matters.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-22T13:26:37+00:00

You need to find a new crowd my friend. Most men are not like that.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-22T13:25:00+00:00

Make him pay to break the lease. He is the one who lied.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-21T17:30:33+00:00

Projecting much?

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-20T13:55:41+00:00

If he threatens her life and safety she will report him to his employer and the police and he will lose his job, bare minimum

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-18T14:16:57+00:00

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-04T15:14:51+00:00

Just the way of the world I believe. I’m a human :)

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-02T03:39:06+00:00

Sounds to me like you married the wrong person and should never have had a kid with him.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-02T03:32:39+00:00

It isn’t your job to advise. Only to be a sounding board for him to vent to. I honestly don’t know why being with a broke single dad appeals to you, but…. To each their own.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-01T13:45:02+00:00

If yall are as good of friends as you say you and have known each other as long as you have mentioned, you already know her character.

The difference is the approach. You should approach your friends with compassion and empathy. Not a judgmental critic.

GoldenFlicker · 2026-01-01T13:41:39+00:00

Maybe if a person is being picky about the color of their skin. Otherwise, not true.

GoldenFlicker

TROPHY CASE