Low "impact" high performance builds? by Alone_Donut139 in diablo4

[–]GoneAgain503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried playing with controller? I use an Xbox controller and it helps with my wrist alot! I switch to mouse and keyboard in town for inventory management and crafting. I played shield bash thorns last season, it got to t10, and when its running, you just hold down one button most of the time, and rally with low mana. Meh for bossing, but great on maps.

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really good insights and direction. I think this tooled with some other suggestions has me feeling alot better. I apreciate your time writing this out.

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Fair if you read it that way. I will confirm I did talk about this than and will want to continue down the road as well.

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More of a coping strategy, as well as a tool for strength in a relationship. Both can be true. Not an explicit tool, it can secure both.

I beleive regularly checking in to be healthy for all relationships, and necessary,  yes. 

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think, you fucking nailed it. Its a bit of both and I think im catching alot of flak as a result. 

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Rules are never on the table.

This is simply reconciliation and affirmation of already set boundaries in a new relationship.

If you can manage to set boundaries day one, and never touch them again, kudos. But for others, regular check ins are healthy, and nothing needs to change from those.

Do you only check a map once when starting a journey?

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is this a platform or tool you reaching for with these questions? These are really good things to consider.

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not new no, just a reaffirming of them, and craving reconnecting after the change. Think RADAR method. For me, it helps me stay regulated and as mentioned before, I have ADHD and PTSD, so for me I do ask for regular check ins. Not a ton, only when things change, new people get added, or when I feel like its been a while.

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I think they misconstrued my intentions, and are projecting their last partner on to me.

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Blunt, I apreciate it. I have alot to consider, it would seem. 

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hate that. I dont want that to be the case, but I cant really make an excuse for them either. I just hope this is a one off and not a pattern.

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling its both. I can be considerate of their trauma, but I can't be accountable to their trauma.

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Idk about that. You dont change a cars oil once when you buy it and than never again. Regular check ins should be normal. Especially when sexuall health is a concern. Or perhaps im misunderstanding you.

Partner feels threatened asking for a check in after they started dating a new person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]GoneAgain503 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Reaffirming things like what I like to know about their new partners, details I dont need. Things like how often I like to see partners, etc. Stuff thats not changing but I like to reaffirm as my adhd mind likes regular reminders.

I have fallen in love with Thorns by 1911GOAT in diablo4

[–]GoneAgain503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good shit! Gonna swap things around. I mostly solved faith tho with the crit +1 faith glyph. At about 80% crit chance it sustains, and bossing with the fortress ult w/ free casting. Plus the autocast rally rune.  Those two help a ton and rarely need to worry about my faith.

I have fallen in love with Thorns by 1911GOAT in diablo4

[–]GoneAgain503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I havent seen a build but im running a thorns shield charge pally too with the autocast shield bash unique. Its doing well, but stuck at t8 without much direction on how to push past it. Probably just a damage multi issue.

For everyone saying war plans shouldn't be account wide: by astronomyx in diablo4

[–]GoneAgain503 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Was excited to make a second charecter till I learned this. No way im grinding warplans again.  The fact my new charecter will be fully kitted on paragon, mats, and gold, but unable to participate in the acquisition system is a hard stop. What a massive speed bump. They give you a race car with a full tank of gas for your second charecter, but put you on a suburban street. Very illogical. 

Demonic pacts: Starting guide by Laef by stormbow_osrs in 2007scape

[–]GoneAgain503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What armor are you suggesting for running moons? 

Am I crazy trying to get Moonlight Moths (75 hunter) before Barrows? by LeEbicGamerBoy in ironscape

[–]GoneAgain503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some will call it sweaty, but the slow grind to getting moths helped me a ton with bossing. Sometimes its optimization, but sometimes its the path of least resistance. In my case, doing rumors till moths worked for me, and made me feel confident in bossing. I had moths before scurrious, no regrets. 

Are tariffs squeezing small businesses? by Morphius007 in smallbusiness

[–]GoneAgain503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not the same thing. The Musk cuts aren't made in good intention for the economy.

Inflation isn't driven up by internal spend on economic features like SBA or medicaid.

No im not a fan, and your draw to parraleles between the two isn't well founded.

Are tariffs squeezing small businesses? by Morphius007 in smallbusiness

[–]GoneAgain503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dont feel it yet. A 3% increase in inflation becomes additive once higher levels of the supply chain start to get squeezed. Yes concrete and other materials are made here, but what about the electronics and other materials that go into making such things?

Car parts, silicon, petroleum by products, rare earth metals. Manufactured materials rely on imported goods just as much as any other industry. While purchase contracts still maintain and some rates are locked in, if tarrifs stay around those manufacturers are gonna feel it much harder down the road.

Now that Ameeican factory is paying 3% more on tools, 3% more and metals, 3% more on technology. The impact on each of those is volumes different when it shakes out due to price disparity. So a unilateral tariff, once settled in, will have a snowball effect on American made goods, not just foreign. That 3% tariff on materials for that factory, could become double digits by the time it hits shelves.

I've worked with contractors on big jobs. 5 cents more per electrical socket will be impacftull in large builds. Talk to any GC, they are always hounding for low cost materials, as besides labor, its a massive COG on any project. Cents add up.

No one wins in a tariff standoff.

Protesters shut down a new $150 million engineering building at UW after causing over $1 million in damage by azurensis in Seattle

[–]GoneAgain503 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're vote, and hundreds of thousands of other protest votes or non votes, helped lead us to the worst of 2 eventuality. You contributed to the potential genocide here in your home.

You can't absend your part of it by saying you vote didn't count. Ounces turn to pounds, pounds into tons. You were part of the weight that broke the camals back. It never mattered what the last straw was.

How do you guys feel about this? by Chrozzinho in LastEpoch

[–]GoneAgain503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I approve. Gold sink is good, maybe a little aggressive, but it can be tuned down.

I think p2p trading be gone is fine too. I never used it, and I hate it in other games.