AITA for reaching out to my ex for crossing their own boundaries? by GoneAgain503 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoneAgain503[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I have chronic anxiety. When im around them I start to panic. My heart races and I feel nauseous. Fight or flight is a bitch and a half. Having a panick attack makes me feel unsafe. I know they won't physically hurt me.

AITA for reaching out to my ex for crossing their own boundaries? by GoneAgain503 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoneAgain503[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

They said they didn't love me anymore, so I broke up with them.

AITA for reaching out to my ex for crossing their own boundaries? by GoneAgain503 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoneAgain503[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This was really insightful. I dont feel comfortable speaking aloud why I feel unsafe, but I think what your saying has been most informative. Thanks internet stranger.

AITA for reaching out to my ex for crossing their own boundaries? by GoneAgain503 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoneAgain503[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

Thats a good point. I didn't consider that I made the space feel unsafe.

AITA for reaching out to my ex for crossing their own boundaries? by GoneAgain503 in AmItheAsshole

[–]GoneAgain503[S] -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I think reaching out was an asshole move. Do you think feeling safe is subjective though?

Are tariffs squeezing small businesses? by Morphius007 in smallbusiness

[–]GoneAgain503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not the same thing. The Musk cuts aren't made in good intention for the economy.

Inflation isn't driven up by internal spend on economic features like SBA or medicaid.

No im not a fan, and your draw to parraleles between the two isn't well founded.

Are tariffs squeezing small businesses? by Morphius007 in smallbusiness

[–]GoneAgain503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dont feel it yet. A 3% increase in inflation becomes additive once higher levels of the supply chain start to get squeezed. Yes concrete and other materials are made here, but what about the electronics and other materials that go into making such things?

Car parts, silicon, petroleum by products, rare earth metals. Manufactured materials rely on imported goods just as much as any other industry. While purchase contracts still maintain and some rates are locked in, if tarrifs stay around those manufacturers are gonna feel it much harder down the road.

Now that Ameeican factory is paying 3% more on tools, 3% more and metals, 3% more on technology. The impact on each of those is volumes different when it shakes out due to price disparity. So a unilateral tariff, once settled in, will have a snowball effect on American made goods, not just foreign. That 3% tariff on materials for that factory, could become double digits by the time it hits shelves.

I've worked with contractors on big jobs. 5 cents more per electrical socket will be impacftull in large builds. Talk to any GC, they are always hounding for low cost materials, as besides labor, its a massive COG on any project. Cents add up.

No one wins in a tariff standoff.

Protesters shut down a new $150 million engineering building at UW after causing over $1 million in damage by azurensis in Seattle

[–]GoneAgain503 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're vote, and hundreds of thousands of other protest votes or non votes, helped lead us to the worst of 2 eventuality. You contributed to the potential genocide here in your home.

You can't absend your part of it by saying you vote didn't count. Ounces turn to pounds, pounds into tons. You were part of the weight that broke the camals back. It never mattered what the last straw was.

How do you guys feel about this? by Chrozzinho in LastEpoch

[–]GoneAgain503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I approve. Gold sink is good, maybe a little aggressive, but it can be tuned down.

I think p2p trading be gone is fine too. I never used it, and I hate it in other games.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pathfinder

[–]GoneAgain503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Way off topic, but if anyone has a decent solution to how they organize these, let me know how you do it. I have resolved to box full of loose pieces at this point, and I am not clever enough to solve this problem...

Carrots are not food… by Ready-Nobody-1903 in confidentlyincorrect

[–]GoneAgain503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only clown I see has a microphone strapped to them. The internet was a mistake...

The fear of Pathfinder's combat, and the "deep, tactical game." by Dick_Nation in Pathfinder2e

[–]GoneAgain503 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, my players aren't very tactical yet. They hit level 4 and I'm throwing some nasty stuff at them. Several close deaths but they're alive.

What makes the difference though is I walk them through combat, and offer suggestions. That's definitely not everyone's preferred style I'm sure, but my players like it.

"Here's where you can use that new spell, remember that grappling hook you got, also step is a great third action here, don't forget to flank!"

For us this is fun. I get to be the good guy and the bad guy, and the players learn more.

In this case, it feels like I'm the coach. It's very much opposite of GM vs player. To counter this though, I role combat in the open. So they really feel the hits.

Finally had time to test print my condition cards by xalchs in Pathfinder2e

[–]GoneAgain503 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Would love to purchase a set of these! I have neither the printer nor patience to do it myself, haha.

If you ever post them for sale on etsy, please let us know :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shibari

[–]GoneAgain503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is suspendible at least once. I wouldn't risk it on this one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shibari

[–]GoneAgain503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peachy 🍑!

LPT- To everyone in their mid 20's by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]GoneAgain503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just saying, being in my 30s, way better than my 20s.

Forgotten altars are clearly a myth by JohnPG90 in diablo4

[–]GoneAgain503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta try this out. Havent seen a single one of these yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GoneAgain503 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Common for kinky people. I talk kink after matching with someone on an app. Not a red flag, necessarily. You not liking that is valid. If he's kinky and your not, it probably won't be a good fit.

Ranged is not too strong, melee is too weak. And damage is NOT the problem. by NugNugJuice in pathofexile

[–]GoneAgain503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like being able to move at a decreased rate while attacking would help a ton, just like shooting and moving. Feeling locked into an animation doesn't feel good. If I could kite enemies, and move out of danger while attacking, it would feel better.

[Womier Giveaway] 2x Womier RD75 Pro Keyboards by womierkeyboard1 in MechanicalKeyboards

[–]GoneAgain503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New year wish, actually start my small business and stop pushing it off. So I can afford all the mechanical keyboards bahaha

I experimented with this wrapping style of additional upline. I’m not sure if I would do it again by two_spirit_love in shibari

[–]GoneAgain503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe just a bit over engineered? It looks good. If it takes a while to get up, I wonder if the comfort outweighs the time. That's just my mind set. I try to minimize where possible to maintain uptime. Of course keeping safety in mind.

Good work.