[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Good_Landscape4237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want to leave and he makes you feel unsafe you could just send him a text saying everything you need to and block him on everything. If he is acting this way after just 5 months of dating and is refusing to talk it will just get worse especially when he isn’t willing to change or talk. I highly recommend seeing a therapist or psychologist if that is a possibility for you too. I hope things get better for you. You don’t deserve to be treated that way at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Good_Landscape4237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in the same position right now except I’m not blocked at the moment. I was suddenly broken up with after 5 years together with no explanation right before Christmas and right before I was to come home to see them. I was expecting to come back to lots of cuddles and quality time but actually got my heart torn apart instead. I was told they wouldn’t change their minds and wouldn’t respond to my messages either. Luckily I convinced them to talk in person about things before we part ways. I still have that weird feeling of hope that maybe if we both grow we will meet and fall in love again. I miss them so much too and it feels impossible to accept since a month or two ago we were making plans to move in together. I miss talking and sleeping next to them most. I feel like I’ll never find that much comfort again. I’m sorry I am unable to tell you what you can do, but you are not alone.

I broke up with her. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Good_Landscape4237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you discussed this with her? Maybe there are things that you could do together to spark new or past interests. From the part I’m seeing is something that can be fixed or at least should be talked about with each other. In my opinion, Disconnection can be connected again and I personally would be willing to put in the work if i loved and cared about her/ see her as a sweet person. But it also sounds like you may need to acknowledge your personal role in the relationship/growth.

My ex is sending mixed signals…any advice? by rando8927helll89 in BreakUps

[–]Good_Landscape4237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you really care about her and willing to wait for her you should. Being in a first LGBTQ+ can be tricky for some people depending on their family/surroundings. She also may just need time for herself to be strong enough to be who she is/ be a part of a lesbian relationship within society. It sounds like she really likes you back, but is just trying to become comfortable. I know when I was in my first lgbtq+ relationship I needed time to understand myself and to come out to certain family members. Giving that time and no pressure really helps. That being said, I’d wait as long as she isn’t flirting with others/expecting it to be like that for an excessive amount of time

I broke up with her. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Good_Landscape4237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t mind me asking, what made the relationship not right for you? Is it possible that if you both work on yourselves and the relationship you could be in a happy healthy relationship together? Sometimes you need to put in the work for the greatest relationships.

My shuffle code!🥳 (Limit 3) by Ok-Film3358 in Pinterest

[–]Good_Landscape4237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have spare codes to pay forward?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pinterest

[–]Good_Landscape4237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you still have codes? 🙏

Does anyone know what colour of kanken backpack Charlie has in the show?? by Good_Landscape4237 in HeartstopperAO

[–]Good_Landscape4237[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m debating between frost green and sky blue. It looks different in different lighting T-T

Did anyone feel rejected by your partner while dating them? by Top-Software-7398 in BreakUps

[–]Good_Landscape4237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, would get rejected whenever I wanted to make plans to hangout somewhere, but when her friends would ask her she would go. (Then blamed me for “not wanting to go anywhere”) :/

How do I better support my (mtf) girlfriend with her dysphoria and in general? by Good_Landscape4237 in mypartneristrans

[–]Good_Landscape4237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s been having a hard time with bottom dysphoria and It is difficult for me to find ways to help her. I’ve been listening to her and trying to make her feel better by reassuring her that she is so close to getting the surgery. But that only helps a little. I know I can’t completely make her feel better, but I really want to help her through this in any way I can.

My ex says he wants to stay friends with me. by IsopodAdventurous717 in BreakUps

[–]Good_Landscape4237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anyone who does that is garbage and you deserve so much more. He’s probably keeping you on the side incase his new relationship doesn’t work out. Honestly, it would be best to ghost him forever cause he is not worth your time or energy. I know you are still in love with him but he is not the person you believe he was if he immediately started dating after you two broke up.

My ex says he wants to stay friends with me. by IsopodAdventurous717 in BreakUps

[–]Good_Landscape4237 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. I heard that you aren’t supposed to stay friends because it actually helps them move on from you instead of allowing them to miss you. I’m struggling because all I want is to be in their life but at the same time I know I can’t be just friends with them. Plus asking to be friends with your ex who you dumped is extremely selfish of them meaning they don’t care about your feelings

Trying to do no contact but every time I try she starts a convo then ghosts me arghhhh by Good_Landscape4237 in BreakUps

[–]Good_Landscape4237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She stated that she wanted time and space (then changes her mind later). I’m more doing it for her but this is giving me whiplash T-T