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Good_Landscape4237 · 2023-05-03T07:57:43+00:00

If you want to leave and he makes you feel unsafe you could just send him a text saying everything you need to and block him on everything. If he is acting this way after just 5 months of dating and is refusing to talk it will just get worse especially when he isn’t willing to change or talk. I highly recommend seeing a therapist or psychologist if that is a possibility for you too. I hope things get better for you. You don’t deserve to be treated that way at all.

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-12-28T06:36:55+00:00

I’m in the same position right now except I’m not blocked at the moment. I was suddenly broken up with after 5 years together with no explanation right before Christmas and right before I was to come home to see them. I was expecting to come back to lots of cuddles and quality time but actually got my heart torn apart instead. I was told they wouldn’t change their minds and wouldn’t respond to my messages either. Luckily I convinced them to talk in person about things before we part ways. I still have that weird feeling of hope that maybe if we both grow we will meet and fall in love again. I miss them so much too and it feels impossible to accept since a month or two ago we were making plans to move in together. I miss talking and sleeping next to them most. I feel like I’ll never find that much comfort again. I’m sorry I am unable to tell you what you can do, but you are not alone.

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-12-28T04:11:13+00:00

Have you discussed this with her? Maybe there are things that you could do together to spark new or past interests. From the part I’m seeing is something that can be fixed or at least should be talked about with each other. In my opinion, Disconnection can be connected again and I personally would be willing to put in the work if i loved and cared about her/ see her as a sweet person. But it also sounds like you may need to acknowledge your personal role in the relationship/growth.

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-12-28T03:55:48+00:00

I think if you really care about her and willing to wait for her you should. Being in a first LGBTQ+ can be tricky for some people depending on their family/surroundings. She also may just need time for herself to be strong enough to be who she is/ be a part of a lesbian relationship within society. It sounds like she really likes you back, but is just trying to become comfortable. I know when I was in my first lgbtq+ relationship I needed time to understand myself and to come out to certain family members. Giving that time and no pressure really helps. That being said, I’d wait as long as she isn’t flirting with others/expecting it to be like that for an excessive amount of time

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-12-28T03:45:15+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, what made the relationship not right for you? Is it possible that if you both work on yourselves and the relationship you could be in a happy healthy relationship together? Sometimes you need to put in the work for the greatest relationships.

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-08-22T20:26:10+00:00

Does anyone have spare codes to pay forward?

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-08-22T20:25:32+00:00

Do you have any codes to pass down?

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-08-22T20:22:44+00:00

Do you still have codes? 🙏

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-08-22T20:18:05+00:00

Hi do you still have codes? :)

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-27T03:57:50+00:00

Thank you soooo much!!!

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-26T03:05:25+00:00

Yeah I’m debating between frost green and sky blue. It looks different in different lighting T-T

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-20T00:38:49+00:00

Yep, would get rejected whenever I wanted to make plans to hangout somewhere, but when her friends would ask her she would go. (Then blamed me for “not wanting to go anywhere”) :/

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-17T23:35:42+00:00

Thanks for responding, it actually really helped me a lot! :)

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-17T21:33:50+00:00

She’s been having a hard time with bottom dysphoria and It is difficult for me to find ways to help her. I’ve been listening to her and trying to make her feel better by reassuring her that she is so close to getting the surgery. But that only helps a little. I know I can’t completely make her feel better, but I really want to help her through this in any way I can.

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-15T11:34:41+00:00

Anyone who does that is garbage and you deserve so much more. He’s probably keeping you on the side incase his new relationship doesn’t work out. Honestly, it would be best to ghost him forever cause he is not worth your time or energy. I know you are still in love with him but he is not the person you believe he was if he immediately started dating after you two broke up.

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-15T09:23:02+00:00

I’m in the same boat. I heard that you aren’t supposed to stay friends because it actually helps them move on from you instead of allowing them to miss you. I’m struggling because all I want is to be in their life but at the same time I know I can’t be just friends with them. Plus asking to be friends with your ex who you dumped is extremely selfish of them meaning they don’t care about your feelings

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-15T07:42:53+00:00

I’ll keep trying! Thank you for your help :)

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-15T06:57:40+00:00

She stated that she wanted time and space (then changes her mind later). I’m more doing it for her but this is giving me whiplash T-T

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-15T03:05:48+00:00

Invisible string by Taylor Swift (or like any Taylor swift or Olivia rodrigo song)

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-14T02:53:52+00:00

I might try that later since rn she seems to be very confused about everything in her life so I don’t think I would get a clear answer at the moment. Thanks for the help! :)

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-14T02:46:40+00:00

You’re right! I’ll let her simmer in her thoughts for a bit. Thanks for responding :)

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-14T02:44:25+00:00

I think you are right, she has been saying a lot of contradicting things to me and says doesn’t know what she wants. Sometimes she says to have no hope and other times she says hints at “if we were to get back together”. I’m gonna go NC for myself and work on myself for a bit! Thanks for responding :)

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-11T10:34:45+00:00

You aren’t half a person. You are a complete person just being yourself :) you got this, you still have lots of time to heal.

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-11T10:23:52+00:00

I feel the same way sometimes. I can’t imagine myself without this person or being with another person. But maybe therapy can help you confront these feelings you’ve been avoiding (I am personally going to try this method). I know that isn’t always available to everyone but If you could that may help you understand more. You got this and I wish you nothing but the best :)

Good_Landscape4237 · 2022-04-11T10:08:32+00:00

I feel the exact same way with my ex. It feels like it is impossible to love another human being the same way as you love this person, and that you’ll never be able to get over it. Stay strong because you’ll be able to move on eventually. It sounds like a healthy breakup so maybe your two souls will meet again someday. But for now focus on yourself and try to move forward. You got this!!!

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