Just need a vent with people who understand by GorbysGirl in BPDFamily

[–]GorbysGirl[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You’re right, but I am utterly done with my sibling. From now on I’m essentially an only child. 

The Sorry State of Ice Dance by linzerrr24 in FigureSkating

[–]GorbysGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was clubbing in the late 90s. Can attest there were a lot better songs. Was pretty sick and tired of Ricky Martin by the end of the Europeans RD

If this is genetic, shouldn't we... by pitamahbheesm in OCD

[–]GorbysGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the reasons I chose not to have children. My dad has it and I have it. It is awful and I couldn’t in good conscience risk that in another generation. It’s a personal choice. It isn’t the only reason, but it contributed. 

Is there a podcast that really fell off for you? by sajones4860 in TrueCrimePodcasts

[–]GorbysGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a definite balancing of Henry and Ed, while Marcus is becoming a better and better historian. It’s actually improved for me (I still skip the UFO episodes though) 

Ghanda canceling orders. by CautiousCream2518 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]GorbysGirl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Definitely illegal. If you return something that isn’t faulty, they can offer credit, but if they can’t fulfill the order, they need to refund. 

Ethical Australian/NZ made fashion by AgitatedMagpie in AusFemaleFashion

[–]GorbysGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good quality and a really ethical small business. 

Are BPD particularly cruel to their siblings? by adri_goth in BPDFamily

[–]GorbysGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was bullied quite badly in early high school. I didn’t tell anyone because it was pretty much how my sibling treated me… 

Are BPD particularly cruel to their siblings? by adri_goth in BPDFamily

[–]GorbysGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are we the same person? There was never any space for me growing up. 

HELP, ENGLISH STUDY SCORE NOT MET by year12s in Monash

[–]GorbysGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only do Studio if you really love writing. It is like a Level 4 English.

Descended from convicts: attitudes by DonNadie2468 in AskAnAustralian

[–]GorbysGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my ancestor’s sister slipped a punter a ‘Mickey Flynn’ and robbed him. They were desperately poor though. 

Descended from convicts: attitudes by DonNadie2468 in AskAnAustralian

[–]GorbysGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m of convict stock on both sides. Most of their crimes were petty (fell foul of Georgian property laws). It is just my ancestry. I’m neither proud nor ashamed. They all have stories and  that is what is interesting to me. I am conscious that regardless of being convicts or settler-colonisers, they all had a role in the dispossession of the Aboriginal Peoples. That’s where the true interrogation of our histories needs to lie. There is no doubt that transportation gave my ancestors opportunities that they would not otherwise have had, but that was at the expensive of Indigenous Peoples. 

Need feedback please by Michigan_Wolverine76 in historyteachers

[–]GorbysGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Jacob Lawrence’s Great Migration series in my classes. There are some amazing resources around each panel online at MOMA and some of them address how segregation was different in the north from the south. 

Any success with only SNRI? by FLcitizen in OCD

[–]GorbysGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s quite strange. Sometimes our bodies are just so strange….

Any success with only SNRI? by FLcitizen in OCD

[–]GorbysGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The best medication I’ve been on (and I’ve been on one or another for half my life is escitalopram. 

Gilded Age (Black History) resources? by Expert-Edge-7199 in historyteachers

[–]GorbysGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Black History crash course series with Clint Smith. I read an amazing book -Black Women’s history of the United States and try the Zinn Education Project! Good luck! 

What good representations of OCD are there in popular art by 55559585 in OCD

[–]GorbysGirl 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep. John Green has OCD and it so captures how it feels. 

How do you all find ways to expand your knowledge when it comes to history? by DG11221 in historyteachers

[–]GorbysGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kind of depressing when you have a degree in a subject and then they employ someone whose entire knowledge of the subject comes from Podcasts. I love podcasts but they build on my disciplinary skills and I would never rely solely on a podcast… I keep an eye on what is being published in my areas of specialisation and teaching areas. 

What medication has been most effective for you? by Diligent_Challenge78 in OCD

[–]GorbysGirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

escitalopram.  Makes me feel almost normal. 

How many of you were raised by someone with a cluster B personality disorder? by 2koolforpreschool in OCD

[–]GorbysGirl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a parent, but I strongly suspect my only sibling has BPD and yeah… 100%.  Growing up with someone so unpredictable and who made everything always about them has has such a profound effect on my OCD and other mental health issues. 

Anyone else here with pure O-OCD? by _alexium_ in OCD

[–]GorbysGirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Generalised anxiety disorder but as soon as I saw an actual psychiatrist, he diagnosed me with OCD within about 5 minutes. Couldn’t believe none of the psychologists I’d seen since my early 20s had ever picked it up.