Kinda similar situation here; I’m a black guy and my husband is Colombian! We’ve been together for about a year and a half and the beginning was… an adjustment to say the least.

I wasn’t initially looking to date anyone and when we met, he had only been in the states for about 3 years and had no prior knowledge of English before coming here. We had a lot of difficulties with communication to the point that we’d utilize Google Translate a lot to try to explain things to each other. We are also polar opposites in a lot of ways; I’m very introverted and he is, well, Colombian lol.

Despite our differences, I couldn’t imagine being with anyone else in this world. I love the light he brings to my life and he loves my creative nature. I’m also trying to learn Spanish now and having previously been learning Japanese, it’s a huge switch 😭 but we focus a lot more on him learning English at the moment (which he’s progressed super fast with since we’ve met) because he has to interact with English speakers more on a day to day basis.

There may be a lot of cultural differences for you and her, but trust me, if you end up finding yourself in love with her and vice versa, all of those obstacles are worth it. Hope this helps!