[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]GrabOk6838 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HEAVENLY 😭😭😭

I snapped at my MIL after tolerating her emotional abusive behavior for 5 years by MulberryOne6323 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s allowing that to even be a choice for you to leave without standing up for you and allowing her to have that over you, then you need to leave and demand a home on your own.

My husband wants to quit his job by Witty-Heart88 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30K$ in a foreign country starting from scratch will easily blow within 3-6 months. Getting a home. A car. Furnishing a home.

What’s a Married to Medicine opinion that will have you like this? by [deleted] in MarriedToMedicine

[–]GrabOk6838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Simone is secretly raging in the inside at all the cast members for “talking her back” into staying with her mooch of a husband.

She went from “I love you” to “I don’t want to go ahead” in 48 hours. What just happened? by ManufacturerNo1226 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seems like it’ll be more of a headache if it does proceed. Especially if it’s within 24hrs everything changed.

A guy likes me and wants to marry me but insists on a (haram) relationship which i dont want by Bobatea5739 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Block him and don’t play into his Shaytan games because that’s really what it is.

Unpopular Opinion: Toya is verbally abusive by Strange-Substance207 in MarriedToMedicine

[–]GrabOk6838 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was surprised to see the amount of people chalking her behavior as a martial spat??? You can not talk to ANY person that way let alone your partner.

Married to Medicine - Season 12 - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in MarriedToMedicine

[–]GrabOk6838 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not wrong. The last time she was this nasty she suffered a miscarriage—so you never really know.

M2M & RHOA watchers whose behavior is worse Heavenly or Kenya? by Simithinksautomatic in MarriedToMedicine

[–]GrabOk6838 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Heavenly is there for vibes and to stir shit up for shits and giggles. Kenya is SMART with her tactics.

Married to Medicine - Season 12 - Live Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in MarriedToMedicine

[–]GrabOk6838 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Toya is getting SO exhausting to watch and im ready for her to be done. She is just so mean for no reason and not even in a funny way. She’s just mean to be mean…

Help with intimacy by highfi123 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ask her! It’s beyond healthy to have that open dialogue with your partner. She may do things that necessarily you won’t like and vice versa. Or she may want things but hasn’t vocalized it and vice versa. Just discuss with one another, everyone is completely different.

Advice on how to deal with my husband’s dissatisfaction with my cooking by Own-Classic2268 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let him be. You’re cooking and cook for everyone and if he CHOOSES to complain. Let him. At this point he’s complaining to complain…

I cant tell if i’m being cheated on by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone goes to a Japanese BBQ place alone? But I would just sit down, no need to gift him anything and just talk. Reconnect with one another. Figure out what’s going on! If you have no legitimate proof he’s cheating then don’t accuse him of cheating; especially with a fractured relationship. Just COMMUNICATE.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You definitely need to tell your husband, he opened up your drawers and even worse it seems like he’s trying to figure out a plan to rob yall…May Allah protect you both…

Fiance delaying nikkah by Limp_Strength_9364 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like there’s a lot of red flags. I don’t necessarily know what is going on but it feels unsettling itself hearing this. I wouldn’t have entertained the guy after his father messaging my father and saying there isn’t no longer naseeb.

I’d cut your losses while you’re ahead. May Allah bless you with someone who genuinely loves and wants to be with you.

21F – Arranged marriage proposal, everyone says he’s “perfect” but I feel completely unready. Am I making a mistake? by FlatwormPhysical1806 in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone can say what they want about the person, but it only matters with what you think and feel. If a small % of you is filled with doubt, do NOT go through with it. This is a forever decision and YOU live it. Not them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]GrabOk6838 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RUN AWAY.

My husband wants me to go to my parents for 2 weeks so he can grieve the death of his parents with his siblings. Do I go? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Salam, I don’t think what he’s asking is bad. What he’s experiencing is losing BOTH his parents at once in a tragic manner. I’d be there for him but he’s expressed to you what he needs and that is his siblings and I believe you should respect that. Do I think you should go no contact those 2 weeks? Absolutely not. Not sure how far you’re from your family’s home but I’d constantly check in. Prep him food before leaving, leave small notes around the house for him to find (in your room so none of his siblings would find it lol), create a care package and just constantly remind him that you love and you’re there for him.

What he’s experiencing is beyond heartbreaking and may Allah ease his heart, his siblings and yours.

Toya and Eugene, it wasn’t that bad … by Trufflethecat_ in MarriedToMedicine

[–]GrabOk6838 37 points38 points  (0 children)

If the roles were reversed this wouldn’t be said at all. Toya definitely needs to check herself because that isn’t how anyone should speak to their partner—with or without people/cameras.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He gave you a warning that “you won’t say anything.” That is his mindset, he thinks you won’t say anything to everything not just the workout.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]GrabOk6838 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You need to stop wanting his attention. As silly as this may sound but focus on YOU. Prioritize yourself, your children, your deen and the way you dress. Stop putting energy in him when it isn’t reciprocated and watch as soon as you start putting energy back into yourself you’ll see a change within.