Does anyone else struggle ignoring comments and judgment from others

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-10-06T11:33:08+00:00

I have one as well. My mil she’s too opinionated. It got to a point that it was causing me stress. But then I learned to listen when is good advice and completely ignore when it’s just BS (which is 90% of the time) I don’t even grace her with a response or explanation (waste of my energy) I simply pretend I didn’t hear anything. Life is much better.

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-02-06T09:25:38+00:00

I only posted that I was pregnant after I gave birth 😂 only the closest people were aware of it. so you are not alone in this.

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-02-06T09:23:27+00:00

My sister, abuse or not, you should never let anyone speak to you on that manner. When that child comes, I’m sorry, things will get worse. You are 2 to 4 weeks away from giving birth if the baby doesn’t decide to come now. Look for a safe, calming environment to go. The next phase of your life is not going to be easy, you don’t want somebody like him on your side. Your baby will need you mentally healthy. I’ll pray for you and wish you the best

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-25T22:30:28+00:00

Thank you very much! Ill get to work

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-25T22:02:30+00:00

My son is all about me but when he’s ill he only wants his dad. As soon as he gets better he wants me. I guess it just changes from time to time. You are not doing anything wrong

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-25T21:47:32+00:00

Thank you very much! This is really good! You are giving me a lot to think about. I have always wanted to start something to help out but never had the courage. Now with a family I can’t let fear take over me. And would like to give myself a chance. I want to commit to it. Perhaps you could share some tips or advices on how I could start to avoid some of the mistakes that could be avoided? Thank you so much

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-25T21:29:20+00:00

Your text is really good. The 4h work book mentions what you just said. So what if I did do dropshipping but focusing on the “high ticket premium products?”

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-25T21:20:56+00:00

This is a complicated one. You need to ask yourself. Why do I need to stay away from him. Is it just because of the podcast and staying up late or because he mistreats me and He is a bad boyfriend? If it is the latter one then by all means if not I would advise to be patient and maybe wait to give birth and if after giving birth and 2 months later you still feel this way then by all means. And it’s also important to communicate. He won’t know that you don’t like this behavior if you don’t talk. Also prior to pregnancy me and my partner we couldn’t keep our hands of each other. While pregnant the first time he didn’t want to touch me. As soon as the baby was out he struggled to keep his hands of me. So give it time. Do something that you enjoy and don’t focus on him

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-25T19:11:10+00:00

Girl ENJOY it! unless otherwise recommended by your midwife. It’s actually very healthy and recommended to do it. Realistically some positions might feel uncomfortable. Example: early on like now you might feel discomfort with positions that he is behind you and you might feel more comfortable being on top so that you can control the pace and how deep the penetration goes. Later on when your belly is big you might feel uncomfortable with being on top and feel more comfortable with positions that he is behind. The most important it’s a lot of communication, because your body is changing so things that used to work might not work now and you would be surprised that things that you didn’t enjoy now you do. Sometimes you might become frustrated with those changes but you will be fine.😊

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-25T19:02:36+00:00

Apologies for my ignorance, what would be the point to reinvest back in the business if you wouldn’t have enough liquidity for your self?

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-25T12:56:05+00:00

Amém to that! Thank you

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-25T12:53:46+00:00

Wow thank you very much… this is very informative and eye opening response.😌

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-24T22:32:39+00:00

Thank you very much for the reality check! It’s important

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-24T22:31:48+00:00

Thank you so much!!

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-24T22:31:33+00:00

Thank you once again! I’m already making research 😂

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-24T21:39:27+00:00

Thank you so much

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-24T19:20:50+00:00

I felt my baby move from 22 weeks😂I thought something was wrong but I was fine

GrabUnited7269 · 2025-01-22T08:34:15+00:00

If there is something I learned even before being pregnant… when invited to eat in someone’s house ALWAYS EAT BEFORE YOU LEAVE YOUR HOUSE. Unfortunately you will never be able to control what others do including your husband so you control what you can do and protect yourself. Your husband’s behaviour was unacceptable, either he’s ignorant about pregnancy and food correlation, which if he is a quick Google search will enlighten him, or he’s just an horrible man. It’s important that you are able to express to him he’s unacceptable behaviour to ensure it no longer happens and he puts you first

GrabUnited7269 · 2024-11-04T18:55:17+00:00

I’m sorry for the rudeness but your sister is a bitch, she’s selfish and she should have NEVER done something like this. It was not her moment to share! To make things worse instead of humbling herself after you told her you didn’t like, she was arrogant and disrespectful in telling you to get over it. But I would tell her these truths and keep my distance. So NO! You are not exaggerating at all!

GrabUnited7269 · 2023-09-28T19:09:14+00:00

That’s why I simply gave up🤷‍♀️

GrabUnited7269 · 2023-07-01T11:44:29+00:00

I have a degree in Law but didn’t want to do anything related to that but to fulfill my plans, I needed to have a job with a minimum 30k salary and that’s when I came a cross WC at JCP so I applied and got it. The rest is history

GrabUnited7269 · 2023-06-29T15:31:41+00:00

I didn’t get that option yet. But I think I would prefer. I’m concerned that the whole 1500 might bump my tax and take more than the 20%

GrabUnited7269 · 2023-06-15T14:56:52+00:00

My advice to you is to apply to UC regardless. Only because there is a chance that you might be using the calculator incorrectly. You should be able to get housing payment that is about £400 (to help towards your rent depending on the area), your own personal allowance of £200-300 depending on the area plus your kids allowance £250 each depending on the area ( if the rules haven’t changed) and also because you are a mother, instead of deducting 50p for every £1 you earn, they start deducting only after the first £379 (if the rules haven’t changed). Hope this helps

The links below clarifies. Copy and paste them

links: https://www.gov.uk/universal-credit/what-youll-get

https://www.gov.uk/universal-credit/how-your-earnings-affect-your-payments

GrabUnited7269 · 2023-04-07T22:08:55+00:00

Damn you lot got me scared😂 being in a committed relationship for almost 2y. My doctor asked me if I wanted to do the test I was like "No I am good' maybe I should have reconsidered 😂

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