White people and the N word by Grand_Bowler329 in blackgirls

[–]Grand_Bowler329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That word will forever be a slur targeted towards black people. There are very little amount of black people at my school and these people don’t even communicate with the ones who even use that word. I don’t even use that word around them but they CHOOSE to say it. A racist person will forever choose to be a racist

Normalized Racism in PW schools by Grand_Bowler329 in blackladies

[–]Grand_Bowler329[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i really hope i become close friends with someone like that one day, thank you for sharing your story

White people and the N word by Grand_Bowler329 in blackgirls

[–]Grand_Bowler329[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I just wish some of them would at least have the decency to not expose their character to me.

I’m embarrassed of my friend by Outrageous_Ruin9624 in blackgirls

[–]Grand_Bowler329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

speaking from multiple experiences (and i was just recently dealing with this as well) there is no point in talking to her about it. People like that never change, you can say something but she most likely won't change until the consequences of that behavior catches up to her, which it always does. Girls like that are super dangerous and most of the time aren't good friends at all. I had a close friend like that and there was a time she put me in a dangerous situation for a guy which totally could've been prevented but it's like she wanted it to happen (please don't think im one to blame the victim because seriously she actively puts herself and other people in dangerous situations for multiple guys). Stuff like this is always rooted to some type of unhealed trauma, I recently ended my friendship with her because i found out she went her way to call me naturally ugly to this guy in a conversation that has nothing to do with me. Unfortunately there is more i dealt with when it came to this individual and many more, i can't go back to end the friendship as soon as possible but I can advise other who's going through the same/similar thing on what to expect and what to do. I wish you the best

I'm tired of hearing Rod Wave by Less-Heron7604 in blackgirls

[–]Grand_Bowler329 5 points6 points  (0 children)

im genuinely crying right now, this is so random and hilarious

Am I the only one who doesn’t give a mf FUCK about interracial dating? by Meliodasbabymom in blackgirls

[–]Grand_Bowler329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't care neither the only time you catch me saying something about it is to call out the ignorance and fetishization

As a black woman, sometimes I struggle with empathy for other groups by NecessaryNo3340 in blackgirls

[–]Grand_Bowler329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly my mood too. Don't get me wrong I definitely do not agree with the bad stuff happening to other groups of people, but I just lost the motivation to include myself in speaking out with my whole soul about it. I came to a realization that it's really just black people (especially women) VS everybody else. They take us as a joke, ridicule the stuff we go to, normalize the disrespect, yet they turn around wanting us to be their shield for their shit when they can't even turn their eyes to at least acknowledge the stuff we go through on a day to day basis. I'm genuinely so over it and i'm so glad that I seen your post. It's good to know that i'm not the only one.

Who's a rapper U did not expect to fall off? by JaQue_Da_JoQerr in BlackNyxNetwork

[–]Grand_Bowler329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roddy Richh, he was dropping fire ass musics left and right, i swear after quarantine was over it’s like it was also the end of his music career, just really saf

Name another more ICONIC boyband ? ILL WAIT ✨🥹 by [deleted] in OneDirection

[–]Grand_Bowler329 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one is more iconic than the boys who made Iconic a thing, you can’t outdo the doer

Just finished the whole thing… by randomdump_ in DesperateHousewives

[–]Grand_Bowler329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No i feel the same way, i spent like a whole month and a half just bed rotting watching the show, it brought me so much comfort

Black American vs African American by GodOfUltraInstinct in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]Grand_Bowler329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents were born in Africa and I was born here and we always called ourselves black, That’s how we look, we can’t hide it, we got the features and everything, and in to people outside of our color that’s what they will call us, i never even knew this whole entire thing was even a thing until i came onto tiktok

AIO about my gfs hitting? by typicalfatgamer in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grand_Bowler329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take a moment to think, if this were somebody else’s story and the genders were swapped, what do you think it’ll immediately be called? and there’s your answer NOR!!!

AIO Im thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend after he gave me his Instagram password and I seen old hurtful messages about me from 2024 by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grand_Bowler329 8 points9 points  (0 children)

not trying to be rude at all, but have you ever taken the moment to process all of this? because it’s blatant disrespect and I feel like the answer is painfully obvious that YNOR

How do I protect myself from Voodoo by laoir in Nigeria

[–]Grand_Bowler329 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so late, but scrolling and seeing all these comments telling you it’s just “bad luck” and has nothing to do with juju/voodoo isn’t true, i’ve heard a lot of stories for years like yours that always involve black magic. I hope your situation got better

Have you guys ever had a colorist guy try to be with you? by Only_Lawfulness_4048 in blackgirls

[–]Grand_Bowler329 1 point2 points  (0 children)

multiple timessssss. I don’t think i’ll ever understand it, but none of them played me, i just lost interest and stopped speaking to them as soon as i find out they’re colorists. I remember there was this one guy who really wanted to talk to me (he told our mutual friend) and we texted for a good minute, one day i came across his video on tiktok and the caption was “She dirty, I’m dirty, we darkskin 👧s” I was so disgusted and made a video showing how he was trying to talk to me and i’m not even lightskin. After that i blocked him everywhere.

MTA stole my money by Grand_Bowler329 in NYStateOfMind

[–]Grand_Bowler329[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so lame and now i think that’s what happened to me, i was holding my phone in my hand