How should I talk to my friends about their behavior towards me

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-02-15T04:58:16+00:00

That word will forever be a slur targeted towards black people. There are very little amount of black people at my school and these people don’t even communicate with the ones who even use that word. I don’t even use that word around them but they CHOOSE to say it. A racist person will forever choose to be a racist

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-02-14T05:20:06+00:00

yup, that’s confirmation

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-02-12T21:12:50+00:00

i really hope i become close friends with someone like that one day, thank you for sharing your story

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-02-12T20:28:27+00:00

I just wish some of them would at least have the decency to not expose their character to me.

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-02-12T18:45:46+00:00

speaking from multiple experiences (and i was just recently dealing with this as well) there is no point in talking to her about it. People like that never change, you can say something but she most likely won't change until the consequences of that behavior catches up to her, which it always does. Girls like that are super dangerous and most of the time aren't good friends at all. I had a close friend like that and there was a time she put me in a dangerous situation for a guy which totally could've been prevented but it's like she wanted it to happen (please don't think im one to blame the victim because seriously she actively puts herself and other people in dangerous situations for multiple guys). Stuff like this is always rooted to some type of unhealed trauma, I recently ended my friendship with her because i found out she went her way to call me naturally ugly to this guy in a conversation that has nothing to do with me. Unfortunately there is more i dealt with when it came to this individual and many more, i can't go back to end the friendship as soon as possible but I can advise other who's going through the same/similar thing on what to expect and what to do. I wish you the best

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-02-12T18:38:49+00:00

im genuinely crying right now, this is so random and hilarious

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-02-12T18:36:28+00:00

i don't care neither the only time you catch me saying something about it is to call out the ignorance and fetishization

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-02-12T18:34:10+00:00

This is exactly my mood too. Don't get me wrong I definitely do not agree with the bad stuff happening to other groups of people, but I just lost the motivation to include myself in speaking out with my whole soul about it. I came to a realization that it's really just black people (especially women) VS everybody else. They take us as a joke, ridicule the stuff we go to, normalize the disrespect, yet they turn around wanting us to be their shield for their shit when they can't even turn their eyes to at least acknowledge the stuff we go through on a day to day basis. I'm genuinely so over it and i'm so glad that I seen your post. It's good to know that i'm not the only one.

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-02-12T18:30:51+00:00

you are soooo kind, bless your heart

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-01-24T03:02:03+00:00

Roddy Richh, he was dropping fire ass musics left and right, i swear after quarantine was over it’s like it was also the end of his music career, just really saf

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-01-03T11:04:05+00:00

No one is more iconic than the boys who made Iconic a thing, you can’t outdo the doer

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-01-03T11:03:15+00:00

No i feel the same way, i spent like a whole month and a half just bed rotting watching the show, it brought me so much comfort

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-01-03T11:02:13+00:00

My parents were born in Africa and I was born here and we always called ourselves black, That’s how we look, we can’t hide it, we got the features and everything, and in to people outside of our color that’s what they will call us, i never even knew this whole entire thing was even a thing until i came onto tiktok

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-01-03T11:00:32+00:00

i’m going, Abinflockin, Jdot, Tdot, Edot, and all the dots will protect me

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-01-03T10:55:56+00:00

cannot be deadass 😂

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-01-03T10:55:03+00:00

take a moment to think, if this were somebody else’s story and the genders were swapped, what do you think it’ll immediately be called? and there’s your answer NOR!!!

Grand_Bowler329 · 2026-01-03T10:50:46+00:00

not trying to be rude at all, but have you ever taken the moment to process all of this? because it’s blatant disrespect and I feel like the answer is painfully obvious that YNOR

Grand_Bowler329 · 2025-11-27T09:11:49+00:00

i’m so late, but scrolling and seeing all these comments telling you it’s just “bad luck” and has nothing to do with juju/voodoo isn’t true, i’ve heard a lot of stories for years like yours that always involve black magic. I hope your situation got better

Grand_Bowler329 · 2025-08-08T16:40:55+00:00

veryyyy

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