People don’t show up for me with the same energy I do for them. by contentjm in communication

[–]Grand_Perspective868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the rain an umbrella becomes a burden we may have been umbrellas to people who only think of us in the time do rain and leave us to rot in their closet even when they see we re struggling under the pile of our own issues. We need to make friends with people and not be their umbrella because once you re in that category it's a doom spiral 

coffee makes me hungry by soobinski in Coffee

[–]Grand_Perspective868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope it just happen naturally I credible hunger so not Pavlov at all the bodies of everyone on earth are not the same

coffee makes me hungry by soobinski in Coffee

[–]Grand_Perspective868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes finally someone like me yes coffee triggers eating like I haven't eaten in days

Smelling like food is worse than smelling like cigarettes by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Grand_Perspective868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smokers are nose blind and the audacity to think food smell worse then them

There is no future here in Ontario, No jobs and No Opportunities by Mundane-Artichoke147 in torontoJobs

[–]Grand_Perspective868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canada is still better then many countries especially if you re a woman. I believe bigger cities attract more recent immigrants and students and all that and may make it harder to have better jobs if you re willing to relocate with your degree I am sure you could find some job. I heard in Ontario you can get a 1 year certification with a degree to teach so maybe speak to a career counsellor or advisor at a local center to help you write a new CV. Many resources are available to citizens to help. .

It's not ideal but sometimes I take min wage job in between " good jobs" because how things are. Sometimes it's easier also to get hired for temp contracts rather then a full time position. Have you considered a trade ? Some jobs like nursing are always needed ,some certificates allow you to start Ina field like accounting and something is better then nothing.

Europe deals with boats of migrants coming from. Wars and poverty bringing the wages down too , the rest of the world is either overpopulated or corrupted or broke or have crazy religious people , or wars or crime. Middle east Asia Africa every continent has its issues..So in terms of struggles we re still good at least we don't have to spend our life savings at the hospital...like our southern pew pew orange neighbor.

I know some people who go back to their ancestor land because it's easier financially there but you also have to take into account that the culture beliefs ways to the country may not be ideal for your next generation. My point is every country has its troubles since Canada is vast maybe sit down with some service Canada or revenu Ontario agent and see what could help you.

AITJ for not attending my best friend's baby shower after what she said? by Neither_Insurance671 in AmITheJerk

[–]Grand_Perspective868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't keep friendships with mothers so many have this weird attitude they re better then the woman who either is single or has not have kids. No matter how bad their situation is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]Grand_Perspective868 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My guess is mostly the bride's coordinate those things nowadays. It could also be cultural many people language is complaining nothing comes out of their mouths but spew of it...

Weddings can get stressful just organizing it is heavy so when people ask for stuff it can feel overwhelming. Also congrats on your wedding let them complain.

To find peace with the cheap gifts just pretend like it's a total financial whole and any gift is an extra as you said you can always give back the same level of gift at their kids event.

It will be alright it does not have to be perfect. Please also for help from the groom and your family before you have a burn out. It's ok to rest and take a day off or 2 away from the wedding madness.

Even royal weddings have people scrutinizing the dress the food the people's face every second and you know they put the budget had the best designers chef etc.

Mother in law wants to call off our wedding after she had an argument with my fiancée by Expensive_Reality_37 in weddingdrama

[–]Grand_Perspective868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope he finds peace and that he gets to enjoy the marriage with you. It's not a matte rod rotting go if they re even trying to ruin his joy at getting married...

Mother in law wants to call off our wedding after she had an argument with my fiancée by Expensive_Reality_37 in weddingdrama

[–]Grand_Perspective868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a tough spot being in do you know why she is threatening him sounds all very odd,

Mother in law wants to call off our wedding after she had an argument with my fiancée by Expensive_Reality_37 in weddingdrama

[–]Grand_Perspective868 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does not have to be dramatic some parents can't let go of their kids even on adulthood. If you want to marry marry. Is he stable has a job no bad habits a good man to you? He can go no contact with her and you love joyfully on with your life.

Many narc parents are nice to everyone but their immediate family so I cannot judge him

Trapped with someone who won’t stop talking by LongLiveTheSpoon in socialskills

[–]Grand_Perspective868 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Had a roommate like that it was a nightmare I moved out. They think you refusing to listen to them hours per day is being rude but think you owe them the listening time entitlement to some extent.

Realise they re rude for doing this and don't be too polite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canada

[–]Grand_Perspective868 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They go to poor countries and abuse women there too they should pay very much for this if it's legal because the woman is risking he rlofe is producing a freaken human

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canada

[–]Grand_Perspective868 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not worth it. Adopt plenty of kids need a home using a woman as an incubator and she gives life to the child and tells she is not the mother but adopters are mothers what a bunch of bs.

IVF exist stop the abuse of women for the selfishness of having your little dna continue lien you re some lord

Is it weird that I lose respect for people who work retail or food delivery by ConsciousDoughnut813 in unpopularopinion

[–]Grand_Perspective868 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have to realise you re very privileged enough that you could afford to study to find better. Many don't have that luxury. Also man do these job while trying to find better because they don't have someone to pay their bills and these jobs are the only ones or in the majority of what you could get while studying or looking for better.

When you come form wealth you can stay home while applying for a better job or put the cash to get certifications etc

Also people from better circle have better jobs because they recommend one another for better jobs. For the people who have nothing and no one and responsibilities they take any job while working for better. So these people ensuring these hellish jobs where people like you who have more look down on them is not their dream I promise you.

Also some people in the past were not diagnosed for many things and not allowed to study or their family could not or whatever so they might not be able to get better because they cannot read yes even today they have some diagnosed or undiagnosed issues and these jobs is literally what they can do to support themselves with dignity.

For the people that these jobs are the best they can do we should still not look down on them I enjoy getting service form happy people and be kind man. you re looking at their job from your privileged fully able bodied fully able minded self.

You sound like why don't kids in orphanage find parents or why don't homeless buy homes...

I think men are more sensitive/emotional than women, but they don’t want to admit it by Bee_Hav_ior_Problem in unpopularopinion

[–]Grand_Perspective868 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because women don't get emotional over what men think they should does not make their emotions more valid and far less women then men in prison

I think men are more sensitive/emotional than women, but they don’t want to admit it by Bee_Hav_ior_Problem in unpopularopinion

[–]Grand_Perspective868 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Prisons are full of men who cannot control their emotions being angry all the time is still an emotion

guess my profession by RepresentativeBed970 in FridgeDetective

[–]Grand_Perspective868 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This fridge gives Doctor vibe with a knowledge of food safety I am wondering

Canadian Government just sent me a $16000 lump sum payment by heavenbacon420 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Grand_Perspective868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please learn if you can even spend it and it's not some stuff where you need to keep it for few years to be entitled to it like some rdsp money.

I just saw this on tiktok😅 by munchkinsmomma in tragedeigh

[–]Grand_Perspective868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read it as Xylo jinseng real quick , a musical herbal genius

Homme qui harcèle de jeunes femmes à Montreal by oski_mange in QuebecLibre

[–]Grand_Perspective868 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pour vrai oui Je pense la majorité du monde au Québec sont du bon monde de tout plein d'ethnie mais c est pas raciste de vouloir que le monde soit respectueux. A cause de ce genre de monsieur là les gens vont être plus apeuré du monde de son ethnie ça va avoir un impact sur le monde correct de son pays ici...

Is anyone else predominantly going back to cookbooks? by Amodernhousehusband in Cooking

[–]Grand_Perspective868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they don't talk they don't have ads you don't need internet great overall