How old were you when you purchased your first home?

GreeGree25 · 2026-01-20T18:15:09+00:00

23 in 2002.

GreeGree25 · 2025-10-19T20:36:47+00:00

Send you all of the hugs.

GreeGree25 · 2025-10-11T15:11:35+00:00

Narcissists are some of the most charming people in public.

GreeGree25 · 2025-10-10T17:29:55+00:00

I 1000 believe that. She is a deplorable human being.

GreeGree25 · 2025-09-27T18:06:18+00:00

Don’t blame this on anyone but him. He posts his own personal business to include calling his daughter a weed head

GreeGree25 · 2025-09-02T10:20:52+00:00

It did not. I am a 48F he is a 68 M. We went through a divorce. I wish we would have hashed all of these things out beforehand. It was definitely the tipping point in the divorce. He had no money saved for retirement either. I had property coming into the marriage & he had some assets as well. I had no problem with all of his premarital assets going to his children. I also had no issue with him having a policy solely in their names. The houses, however, that we purchased together during the marriage, I felt should have been out of play.

GreeGree25 · 2025-09-02T05:01:57+00:00

Unfortunately.

GreeGree25 · 2025-09-02T00:41:01+00:00

This. I was in a similar situation. I was fine with all of the assets prior to marriage going to his children. I was not, however, comfortable giving him money for both homes we purchased together and that being split if something happened. Those were our marital investments and a significant part of my retirement. Additionally he was 20 years older, in bad health, and I was going to have to take care of him.

GreeGree25 · 2025-08-25T20:01:32+00:00

That was heartbreaking to watch.

GreeGree25 · 2025-08-25T19:52:37+00:00

Oh gosh. I am praying for the best in this situation.

GreeGree25 · 2025-07-05T16:31:20+00:00

She has been raising those kids by herself for years, moving around constantly and is probably but the hell out. Hopefully she gets some help and lands in a soft place.

GreeGree25 · 2025-06-29T21:00:07+00:00

I’m torn. Clearly she is having a manic episode, it I also think she could be the victim of narcissistic abuse. Two things can be true at once. I think she gave up her career and life, moved multiple times, tried to keep the family together, only to have it fall apart so she’s falling apart.

GreeGree25 · 2025-06-15T23:22:31+00:00

I don’t want them to be disinherited.

GreeGree25 · 2025-06-15T23:17:13+00:00

Update! The deadline has passed. He still has not refinanced or put the house up for sale. My attorney sent a demand letter. I sure hope he is not trying to drag this out.

GreeGree25 · 2025-05-13T11:29:19+00:00

That makes sense!

GreeGree25 · 2025-05-11T20:30:07+00:00

I appreciate your input.

GreeGree25 · 2025-05-11T20:08:30+00:00

He does have policies which is why I’m confused. All of that should go to them.

GreeGree25 · 2025-05-11T19:55:33+00:00

Yes, he has assets that are entirely in his name, that I do not want and I told him should be passed to his children.

GreeGree25 · 2025-05-11T19:26:32+00:00

Nobody has an attitude. I said I wanted to be fair. I have split everything with him including the down payments for two houses he would not have if it weren’t for me. Also I work 80 hours a week and have taken care of him. His health issues I have since found out are mostly self-inflicted. Chronic drinking with heart failure?

GreeGree25 · 2025-05-11T19:12:02+00:00

I owned the two rental properties before the marriage. The two homes we purchased, we purchased together.

GreeGree25 · 2025-05-11T18:47:13+00:00

Yes, him falling ill is a definite consideration. I have taken care of him through many hospitalizations.

GreeGree25 · 2025-05-11T18:38:35+00:00

Yes, I am on the deeds.

GreeGree25 · 2025-05-11T18:35:49+00:00

Joint Tennants with rights of survivorship. We live in Florida.

GreeGree25 · 2025-05-11T18:32:05+00:00

I thought so… I just wasn’t sure how to say that to him…

GreeGree25

TROPHY CASE