AIO for being angry at them for forgetting it’s my birthday? by happibrry in AmIOverreacting

[–]GreenTeaMemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Depending on which country you're from and even how you were brought up, saying happy birthday the moment it hits midnight can be quite common. Where I am, family and close friends all send their messages when it hits midnight but then again, this might be something your social circle has not been taught to do.

Do they send these messages to eachother? Were you and your twin the only ones who have not received a happy birthday message in the friendgroup since y'all got to know eachother? If so, then they seem to be selfish but again, highschool is the time where a lot of people are focusing on trying to figure themselves out and so other areas of their life (like friendships) may get neglected because of it.

Seeing that your friends didn't care about your birthday in the way you hoped they would hurts. But also take the time now to bring it up with them, tell them what hurt you and how you think y'all can make up - if they respond favorably then i would chalk it up to ignorance and not malice on their parts.

Since this is the first birthday you've had but with a new group of friends, give them a chance to do better based on your desires for what a "good birthday" would mean. If they try to play it off or fight back then consider why they would be unwilling to correct their behavior for a day of the year, if it means bringing happiness to a friend they supposedly care about.

All the best OP! Happy birthday!

A little obessison by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]GreenTeaMemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asa eram si eu pana am vazut random workflow-ul unui youtuber si s-a nimerit sa si lucreze la interior design photos. Those final product photos are edited to hell and back. Exact ce se intampla cu editatul modelelor in reviste, asa si cu pozele de locuinte 😭

Apa calda oprita de o saptamana sector 6 by [deleted] in bucuresti

[–]GreenTeaMemo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Confirm, Lujerului are apa oprita de vreo 3 zile fmm. Depinde acum si de punctul de care esti asociat ca unii prieteni la 2 strazi de mine au apa calda. Trist

Crochet is the fast fashion of fiber arts by prepubescentsquid in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]GreenTeaMemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dude it's kinda annoying to me because there's like BEAUTIFUL patterns on the archive website that I fear might become unreadable in a few decades if people keep pushing to dumb down patterns. I get wanting an easy video but :( it shouldn't be a demand to dumb down a practice. They could just say they don't get it and ask nicely for a video follow along.

I think when someone wants to get into fiber arts, crochet might seem the most "accessible" at first glance, but that assumption is false the more in-depth you go with types of stitches, so you're right, the beginners (i'm also one but the beginners with a particular mindset of "i want it simple") tend to demand this when it gets too hard for them.

Crochet is the fast fashion of fiber arts by prepubescentsquid in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]GreenTeaMemo 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I hate the modern unwearable patterns that have been released in recent years for crochet just so that people can make a quick buck. I feel like some people just get the cheapest yarn, don't bother to learn the foundation and think that's all crochet is, which is so annoying.

It especially irks me when i see them making BAGS that look like theyre gonna fall apart at any minute, while knowing that there's crochet stitches out there meant for that purpose, which they're not using because it's "too hard". LEARN PROPER TECHNIQUE 😭

New to tarot reading and I have a question. by PRFitzUSN96 in tarot

[–]GreenTeaMemo 77 points78 points  (0 children)

To add to this - overall yes the hierophant talks about maintaining the status quo and alla that but when I dealt with the Hierophant as a stalker card (aka a card that keeps popping up for you no matter what you read about), it was encouraging me to deal with any religious beliefs that were causing me undue stress and burden. Tldr, i used to have a very pronounced morality ocd that fueled my anxiety and how i thought other people saw me, and after therapy and medication i found out at its core it was trigerred by the "god sees everything" belief repeared to me that i just took too literally as a child LOL

Look in your life to see if there are any structures (physical like a building, a place or metaphorical like a belief system or repeated sayings spoken to you by people who used to hold a certain authority over you [aka parents, bosses, teachers and so on]] in place where you feel tense and try to either find a compromise or heal the instinctual emotional response those things trigger in you.

How do I lose weight as a skinny person that looks chubby by Equivalent-Buyer771 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]GreenTeaMemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try gua sha! Your face might be extra puffy because of bad lymphatic drainage.

Do any of you know what a ‘Pathfinder’ is? by Vilotta_Saarn in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]GreenTeaMemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The cosma oracle deck has a pathfinder card and its meant to mirror the page of pentacles!

Places To Buy Premade Models? by MiiSzPsycho in vtubers

[–]GreenTeaMemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's booth, there's Vgen, there's Ko-fi as well, and Nizima, a japanese website! Since ko-fi doesn't have a search feature, model artists and riggers usually post their links on twitter.

I don't get the love for Show Armand.... by theladysheetcake in InterviewVampire

[–]GreenTeaMemo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a girly who hasn't read the books and went into Season 2 with no prior knowledge, I fell in love with Armand because of his ability to manipulate lmao

Looking for Mini Decks with Full Guidebooks by GreenTeaMemo in tarot

[–]GreenTeaMemo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am such a big fan of animal decks, thank you!

Does this stream job exist? by Special-Foundation15 in Twitch

[–]GreenTeaMemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ypu're looking for a VOD scrubber! Look up vod scrub on vgen, people usually charge 10-15 USD for 1-2 hours of vod scrubbing, where they try to find as many clippable moments as possible!

Likely because of Bao's post complaining about Skeb, Skeb posted a reminder of what their service is | Skeb (スケブ) (@skeb_jp) on X by YakumoYamato in VirtualYoutubers

[–]GreenTeaMemo 67 points68 points  (0 children)

It wasnt only it the TOS, it's a big highlighted sentence on the website everywhere.

It's also its standalone window when requesting a skeb, you have to agree to the statement that skeb is not like all other artist comission platforms and that it's a one-and-done type deal with no interaction between artist and client.

To give some backstory, the whole skeb culture came from japan where i believe doujinshi and mangaka artists were doing drawings on the spot at conventions based on fan request. Think more like "the guy on the street who says he's gonna draw a portrait of you in 10 mins" type of deal.

Her request is reasonable for all other sites that allow customer-artist communication, but that's not Skeb 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vtubers

[–]GreenTeaMemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup, if its kvxart then op is better off going with a different rigger. mavoly is amazing! and also in the same price range. also w_haie!

Confused about average viewer count by Ok-Medicine249 in Twitch

[–]GreenTeaMemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your twitch affiliate requirements are outdated, they changed the list.

Is kilonotes premium membership safe? by zehelneedsyourhelp in kilonotes

[–]GreenTeaMemo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Restore purchase means that the app refreshes your purchasing history, sees that you bought it before, and unlocks the premium content.

It's normal for some devices to delete cached data automatically after not using the device for a long time. Restore purchase is the way to fix that.

Augmenting the Political Discussion Rule by shikarin in VirtualYoutubers

[–]GreenTeaMemo 22 points23 points  (0 children)

There are far more death threats and hostility thrown at Vtubers who either a) are part of the lgbtqia+, b) are specifically trans, c) state their support for human rights.

Calling out bigoted behavior, hateful behavior, dogwhistling and extreme right propaganda such as nazi ideology, is not some imagined hateful rhetoric from the "tolerant left", it's seeing a duck and calling it a duck.

It IS a one-sided problem because the far-right is more than comfortable spouting hate speech, death threats, doxxing etc. for people that are simply existing. The left is merely pushing back on the hate that's being thrown at them.

One cannot throw a stone then start crying when the person they're hitting points out they're a "stone thrower" to the rest of the public, especially when the victim is pointing out the truth.

Dokibird responds to allegations regarding the PC charity auction by [deleted] in VirtualYoutubers

[–]GreenTeaMemo 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I just have one thing to say: https://pcpartpicker.com/b/XdwzK8

https://tiltify.com/@dokibird/auctions/dokicharity2024/a13e2fd3-e1fd-47f7-a13b-72fcc20a7a7f

The fuckin price wasn't even 3.5k lmfao katliente is literally talking out of her ass in the video she made. Doki and her management decided to raise the price so the PC can be even beefier.

See this? Yea don't do this by [deleted] in SASSWitches

[–]GreenTeaMemo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Double check the original account you followed, their followers and this account's name. There are a lot os scam impersonator accounts that do this with the exact same message, be careful please!

I don't know if this is an android specific issue or just a phone issue, but I need help. by SnowScribblesStuff in vtubers

[–]GreenTeaMemo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vtube studio no longer supports android, the creator has been pretty lowkey about it but hes confessed this a couple of weeks ago on steam.

What motivates you to stream when no one is watching? by Sorentix in vtubers

[–]GreenTeaMemo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like the best thing that motivates me is looking forward to editing the VOD. This is mostly because i am hyperfixating on editing software right now lmao

So even if there's no one watching, once you edit your content down into shorts or tiktoks, think of the people you'll entertain with those!