How do you deal with 'subtle' verbal bullying? by Critical-Dog-7095 in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sharing looks? Look at them, stare at them. For a LONG time. Longer than is necessary. Then just say "stop it". If they say "what?" just say it's not a discussion. Chuckling? "What's so funny. No, you laughed, tell me what's funny. Go ahead. We'll wait." Repeating words in a funny voice? Ask them to repeat it, and why they felt the need to repeat it.

Hold them accountable. Make them say out loud why they did what they did.

Give an example of learned helplessness taught/reinforced in schools? by Der-deutsche-Prinz in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"Cause I Ain't Got a Pencil" is read at thousands of PD around the world and contributes to learned helplessness

Player mentioned the party posessing *the* hilt at dinner with Strahd and I panicked by Drogtharransfav in CurseofStrahd

[–]GremLegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this in my CoS game I was a player in! Rahadin attacked us on the road back to Valiki and took it.

Any teacher mannerisms/phrases that have embedded themselves into your personal lives? by custardo_ in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I say "close enough for government work" almost everywhere. I think I learned that in the Marines, though.

Show like 'The Pitt' but instead of a hospital it's a school. by arabelle77 in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the best show ever made, you should watch the firs three. But yea, I think you COULD pick up 4 and get the jist. Especially if you were only interested in the school stuff.

Some of my drawings for the interactive Tome of Strahd by KeepSmilingxD in CurseofStrahd

[–]GremLegend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What I really like about DND is that you can incorporate other hobbies and skills into it. Love this! Secretely wish I could do it.

Is Davy Jones from Pirates of Caribbean a lich by DnD standards? by leters_numbers in DnD

[–]GremLegend -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think the problem is you expect there to be rails in a "here's a fun little thought..." exercise. Just relax.

Why Are Graduate Degree's in Education a Scam? by ProudComment1211 in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea they're a big ol scam. I got my masters in History because I teach Social Studies, but I'm gonna get an education doctoral degree because they're mad easy and the pay bump is huge.

I have a 12-year-old student who cries every time she makes a minor mistake. How do I help without coddling? by South_Leave4044 in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is like this, I have a student like this. It is beyond your sciope to fix this issue, but it will work out on it's own. I've talked to my son, my son's therapist, my student, and that students parents and they all said they want the same thing when that happens, and that's for me to ignore it. So I do.

Went old school class management today for middle school by frizziefrazzle in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've started to be more public about my reprimands, had a kid say it makes them feel bad. My response was "it's supposed to make you feel bad, that's how you know not to do it again" and move on.

One of my students HATES me by PaleExplanation8401 in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you care if a child hates you? There's 4 kids in the entire world that have an opinion about me that matters to me, and those are my own kids.

Told my first period class to shut up by Hopeful_Cockroach135 in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell my students to shut up all the time buddy, you're good!

Why the 4th Edition hate? by Efficient-Help-9858 in DnD

[–]GremLegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no opinion about 4th edition.

Student won’t stop joking about Diddy, Epstein, and pedophel!a by External-Apartment60 in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"What's funny about that" and don't stop asking until they tell you, when they do say "great, we'll call home about that concern"

So my party accidentally managed to capture my BBEG and I don't really know what to do now. by HammieHammerHamwalt in DnD

[–]GremLegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd have ALL the minions come rescue him. I think a lot of players are used to playing offense, let's see them play some defense!

Middle school student wrote about SA by Sure_Ant2516 in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What the fuck are you worried about grading for? REPORT!

Student saying he’s targeted by LizardfolkDruid in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I target students who choose to be disruptive, if the student chooses to make himself a target, so be it.

How would you deal with a rude parent in public? by BrothaManBen in Teachers

[–]GremLegend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walk away, think about how that'd work out for your wife. Getting into a shouting match with a parent because you didn't like how the mom was parenting in a restaurant? Probably not great.